How do i proceed now?

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I was on a business trip very recently along with 3 other coworkers. On ocassions like this we make sure to have a good time (1 night of drinking and fancy dining) sponsored by company. This time we all had a great dinner and then went to the hotel bar for more cocktails. Everyone had a great night and decided to meet in one of our rooms for more drinks. The other 2 called later when they got to their rooms that they wont be able to make it and that they were going to bed. So it was just 2 of us. She and I are both under 30 and married (not to each other) and very friendly at work. It was kind of a bummer that the rest of our crew didnt show up but we both decided to open the bottle of rumple minze.
After one we started talking all office stories and friends and other things i dont remember. Now well in to the second it was pretty intense and i clearly couldnt stand. I stretched on the couch when she returned from the bathroom and also very shaky and sat right next to me. Then it ended up us holding each others hands. when she lost balance and fell on my shoulder we started kissing. after a minute our hands were exploring each other and she is rubbing my erect cock thru my jean and i remember squeezing her ass with one and not less than 36c with other. A little later before we went any further she said "we should go to bed inorder to catch the morning flight".i replied "yeah" and then she left .
Now comes the question part. The next day to until now(2 weeks) she always claimed to have not remmebered a thing and acts like nothing happenned. I sure didnt ask about this but I cannot belive that she cant remember a thing either. There are some awkward moments when we are alone but we never talk about that night in detail. When we do chat about it with other friends around she tells them that she left my room after 1 drink. Is it possible to not remmeber that level of detail? anybody had any experience being blanked out to this level the next morning?
How do i proceed if i want to feel those boobs again or more?they were btw very nice

 

[human_male]

I can't speak for what you should do, but if I were in your place I wouldn't do anything. You're married right? So you shouldn't pursuer it anyway. And besides that she either genuinely doesn't remember or more likely has decided she didn't want it to go anywhere (she did leave after all) and probably wants to forget it ever happened. So why not just let it drop.

I'm sure your wife's tits are just as nice.

 

[SweetErika]

. A little later before we went any further she said "we should go to bed inorder to catch the morning flight".i replied "yeah" and then she left .

So, clearly she didn't want it to go any further. If she did, she wouldn't have mentioned the flight and left.

Is it possible to not remmeber that level of detail?

You said you were out drinking before you went to your room. So she probably had at least one drink prior to having the two in your room, in the span of, what, a few hours? And it sounds like the drinks in your room went down pretty quickly, so, yes, it's possible for her to not remember.

anybody had any experience being blanked out to this level the next morning?

Yes, I've passed out, woken up the next morning and not remembered details. I've also blacked out once or twice.

Alcohol affects everyone differently. How one handles it depends on a multitude of factors. Your few drinks could allow you to remember perfectly, whereas the same amount could clear this woman's mind of details.

But more than likely, she does recall what happened and just wants to avoid it. She's probably smart enough to know that it's really stupid to get involved with coworkers. In addition to that, she may very well feel like what she did with you was cheating and want to put that behind her. She probably views what you two did as a lapse in judgment fueled by too much alcohol and doesn't want to make the same mistake twice.

Maybe she's attracted to you, maybe she's not (alcohol can create attraction or horniness where none exists otherwise), but that's irrelevant. Her sober behavior says she wants to forget it and be coworkers (and perhaps PLATONIC friends), and that's what counts.

How do i proceed if i want to feel those boobs again or more?they were btw very nice

See above. You don't. That is, unless you're crazy about risking your job in this economy and going through a big sexual harassment hoopla because you weren't smart enough to think with your big head and leave this/her alone. She's given you no signals she wants to pursue anything but a platonic, coworker relationship (and even if she did, you shouldn't get involved with people at work). Go find a woman with nice breasts OUTSIDE of work. Hey, how about your WIFE?

 

[ZoeBird]

Even if she really does remember it and is pretending not to, that means that she doesn't want to persue it. I would suggest that you leave it. Don't bring it up, and don't put yourself in a situation where you will be alone and drunk with her again. Think with your brain instead of your dick.

 

[PublicAffection]

Agreed. Let this one be. Bringing it up to her or anyone else will make your working relationship strained and uncomfortable.

 

[fireymatt]

agreed... let it go... she probably does remember.. and so do you.... why rehash it all when nothing will come of it.... bury it

 

[Reba67]

You don't "proceed" with anything. You are both married. You both had a lapse in judgement and thankfully it didn't go too far.

 

[Sleazy19]

If you decide to take this any further, you will get in so much trouble, and I don't mean just at work. Besides, this woman clearly doesn't want to have any relationship with you.

I like a quote that says, "what goes around, comes around"
Think about that.

 

[silverwhisper]

what erika said.

besides, you already stated you're both married.

ed

 

[Eilan]

Don't shit where you eat.

 

[tryptamine]

She only did anything with you because she was really, really drunk. Now she's acting awkwardly around you and says she doesn't remember. Which means she wants nothing more to do with you sexually. So leave it.

I mean, if she actually does remember but denies remembering anything then it means she doesn't want anything else to happen, and if she really doesn't remember and is giving you no indications of interest then she doesn't want anything else to happen.

So I don't see how you could interpret this situation any other way. She's not interested and you shouldn't do anything. If you do, you will seem creepy and compromise your job and your marriage.