how do i meet a sweet kinky mistriss?

[magicpenis]

i cant find one! all the girls i like are taken and its not fair, all the sweet kinky nice girls are always taken, anyone have this problem? to complicate things iam kinda shy and i dont consider myself very attractive although i dont consider my self ugly. blah advice?

 

[anniebug]

magic tricks

Honey,

The fact that you need your "magic trick" to profile yourself oooogs me out.

anniebug

 

[Ebonyfire]

i cant find one! all the girls i like are taken and its not fair, all the sweet kinky nice girls are always taken, anyone have this problem? to complicate things iam kinda shy and i dont consider myself very attractive although i dont consider my self ugly. blah advice?

Maybe, just maybe "all the nice kinky girls" are not Dommes!


Ebony <who left her girlhood behind eons ago>

 

[Shadowsdream]

sweet+ kinky+ girl = MISTRESS?

Hmmm something just doesn't add up here.

 

[magicpenis]

sweet+ kinky+ girl = MISTRESS?

Hmmm something just doesn't add up here.

lol i just realised how that sounds. well i want a misstriss but one that is sweet at heart and dominant in da sex if that makes any sence at all.

 

[Glaive37]

i cant find one! all the girls i like are taken and its not fair.

Well, can I just say one thing? Gonna say it anyway. Please stop whining. Most people don't appreciate whining and I am sure that the majority of Mistress's would not like it either.

Life is not fair, and we all have to step up to the plate and take a swing (not a good thing for a sub to write) at finding a partner. A Mistress is not going to land in your lap. Although a sub just might. You need to seek her out. Which is another part of the game, subs usually have to take the first step. It is a dichotomy that is inherent in BDSM.

Looks, in my opinion, have very little to do with anything. Any Mistress worth her salt, seeks to play with the mind of her play partners, as much as or even more than their bodies.

Attitude is the most important thing. Seek and ye shall find, sit and ye shall... well just sit.

Good luck,
Glaive37

 

[magicpenis]

sorry didnt meen to whine i was in one of those moods, thanks for the honnest advice

 

[Glaive37]

No problem Magic. As I said it is all in presentation... people prefer honesty over bravado and flamboyance. Just be kind gentle and attentive. One day someone will notice. At least that is what I keep telling myself. (Buck up)

Good Luck
Glaive37

 

[cymbidia]

No problem Magic. As I said it is all in presentation... people prefer honesty over bravado and flamboyance. Just be kind gentle and attentive. One day someone will notice. At least that is what I keep telling myself. (Buck up)

Glaive is right, Magic. In our world, what you look like is often far less important than who you are on the inside.

It's all about honesty and self-knowledge, the ability to be open and an interest in sharing your needs, talking enough and listening a lot.

Hey!
Wait!
Isn't that true of all human love relationships?

 

[Glaive37]

Cym,

Yep. It is true of all relationships... you said human. Hmmm. I dunno about animal relationships... peahens kinda like flamboyant peacocks... There shouldn't be a parallel there but I am sure you will find it. Grin.

Glaive37