How do I hook up for the first time?

[londonian]

Next weekend I have the perfect opportunity to try to hook up with a guy for the first time. My wife is away for the weekend, leaving me all alone in London UK. I'd so love to be able to finally try out what I've been fantasising about for so so long.

But how to go about it? I can hardly hang out in gay bars all weekend ... I don't know what I'm doing!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yeah, actually, that's kind of how you do it.

 

[jerrythelad]

I have used squirt.org and craigslist to find a local friend, we e-mailed for a while to make sure we were compatible, then met for coffee , then met for some action. This has worked well for me in the past but can take a week or more before finding someone who isn't too weird or creepy .

Jerry

 

[CandiCame]

Wow- you guys are hardcore- my first gay experience, I met a dude in 3D foundation- an art class.

 

[PressNightly]

Hop on a plane to Austin, and give me a jingle when you arrive! We may have to let my wife join in at some point, hope you don't mind!

Otherwise craigslist works, though you have to be careful, and use protection! I don't know about the UK, but here in the states nature parks are usually a fair bet when cruising for guys.

It's usually not nearly as hard to pick up a guy as a gal, if you're moderately attractive you probably won't have to hang out in a gay bar for long before you have a partner for the evening.

Good luck!