How do I hit on college girls

[Jaywalker274]

Hey I know I have a girlfriend but we agreed to see other peole while at school so we can actually have fun. I have been seeing her since the eighth grade so i am a little out of the loop i am wondering how to hit on a girl without looking like a complete idiot

Thanks

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

You don't "hit on".

You join a class or a group of friends that has a lot of women so you can get to know them and they can get to know you and you exude self-confidence and keep the predatory-gotta-get-laid signals to a minimum and realize that if the girl is interested you'll definitely know it and if she's not you should definitely back off and so don't waste time being the "nice guy" who listens to her talk about her boyfriend thinking that one day she'll notice you and if none of that works try bringing up the discussion topic "Sex in the Suburbs" and a dollar to anyone who gets that reference.

 

[Pyper]

Yah, trust me Jaywalker, college girls (me being one of them) don't like being "hit on" unless they are drunk. A girl is most likely to enter into a relationship with you if she gets to know you first.

 

[poohlive]

Jaywalked, number 1. Respect. You know why you aren't going out with a college girl? Because you think of it as hitting on a woman. They aren't punching bags, they are human beings, with thoughts and feelings, and lovely physical features... (drooling).
If you respect a woman, you are already halfway there.
Number 2. There is a problem in college's today. Too many woman. You know, in my college the women to men ratio is 7 to 1. For every 7 women on campus there is only 1 guy.
What does this mean... well first off, that women are smarter than any of us neanderthal's ever realized. (who knew they could do more than sew, I did I did)
I don't know if your college has the same exact ratio, but it's definitally similiar. More women are going to college than men. That means, you can be yourself and you will find that special someone. If she doesn't happen to be the one, then there are 6 others who are still there...
7 to 1. anyone say eightsome... ohhh I am so bad. Don't listen to me, stop it stop it.

 

[ComfortablyNumb]

Hitting on College Chicks...
Be gentle...maybe use something soft, like a pillow or something... stuffed animal maybe.
If it doesn't piss them off...and they don't run. They might just like you.

 

[D69]

what you shouldn't do

whatever you do, don't be shy about it. all the college girls i know are sluts. not jokeing. And, yes, i am a girl. Don't get serious with someone if you already have a girlfriend. thats stupid and only complicates things. just be honest and funny and great to hang around with and something will happen..... depending on what you look like.

If your looking for a good time just to let you know, most women are piggs to so, don't be afriad to just tell someone like it is.

 

[goddess_euphoria]

Ok, I don't know why we're all focusing on the literal meaning of "hitting" on a girl (ahem, WOMAN!) but just had to add this as well, women in college are more likely to posess things such as tazers, pepper spray & self defence lessions (not to meantion large, over protective fathers!) That out of the way, keep in mind that the reason most women go to college is to learn more, hence, they want someone they can converse with. (As I'm fond of saying, I'm not going to college to end up dating a high school graduate!) And believe me, we can tell when you're not paying attention!

 

[wolfy]

I know this might sound strange but try taking an acting class
if you can fit it into your schedual. Gives you lotsa
opotunities to get to know other people and for them to get to
know you Most classes you don't get to interact much with
the other students unless you all decide to get together later
etc. Also some theator classes start off with everyone giving
each other backrubs muah!! So you can show off you great
massaging skills *grin*. Anyway just be friendly and yourself
and i'm sure you'll do fine.....Good Luck!

Ps. No mean comments about not believing I went to college
because my spelling and grammar sucks so bad. They didn't
have a hooked-on-phonics course or I woulda taken it!


[Edited by wolfy on 10-05-2000 at 10:29 AM]

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[goddess_euphoria]

Hey CB, the tekes here are the same way!

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Samuari]

I used to stand in the corner and lick my eye brows. Got me all the chicks I could handle.

 

[bobbyprize]

First off, from what Ive seen of some of these college girls you are likely to get your ass whipped for hitting on them. secondly, unless they ask you to, didnt your mama tell you its not nice to hit girls?

 

[Softly]

The Dating Game

Hi Jaywalker,
There was a lot that you left unsaid. Your comment about "So we actually have fun" to explain why your have both agreed to date others gives me the impression that you are repeating what your girl friend has told you.Reading between the lines, I come up with this.
You are attending colleges some distance from each other.
You are "Old hat" at her house.
Her mother, like all mothers, wants her little girl to marry "Mr. Perfect." And, you don't fit that discription.
So, your Girlfriend has, in a nice way, cut you loose.
In their minds, you were a nice safe date, while she was
in the "Little Pond," of your hometown. Now, she is in the bigtime, where the real hunting for a husband will occur, her college of choice.

I think you comment about "hitting on" college girls was intended to mean; "How do I meet and date one of the nice gals that rush by me each day?"

Some of the suggestions that you have received in other posts are excellent...Respect, be friendly, etc.

To jumpstart you, I would send you to the library. Find an attractive gal and ask if you can sit down. Introduce yourself, and tell her you would like to take her to a movie, or some other event. If she says that she is busy, ask if she is open another night. If you get a date,good. If not, thank her for her time, and find another girl to ask.

Once on a date, Listen, Listen, Listen to what she talks about. Ask her about her past, family, hobbies. Two reasons. One is to keep the conversation on things she will find intersting, and is comfortable sharing with you. Two, you will determine if she is a person that is of interest to you.

Make no mistake, You are hunting for a "Wife," just as your girlfriend is hunting for a husband.

 

[Samuari]

Ahh Shucks

That's corny!

 

[Whispersecret]

I was a sorority girl, and I was no slut. Neither were most of my sisters. It may be true at your school, but that's not the case everywhere.

You must not be a Greek, because if you were you'd know that you should call your fraternity a frat because you'd never call your country...

[Edited by whispersecret on 10-26-2000 at 09:10 AM]

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[BlondeBeauty]

Is there a best way to hit on college girls? Hmm...I wouldn't say this was the "best" way, but a "good and easy" way to hit on a college girl-find out from her friends where she likes to hang out (like what clubs, etc) and then meet her there one night and strike up a conversation...I love it when I meet guys who share my same interests...good luck!

 

[MischievousGntlman]

college girls

There's a flip-side to this. I have college girls hitting on me fairly regularly...and it's pathetic. I'm their teacher and they're trying to trade sex for grades.

(I'm not that easy. Even when they say please. Immaturity and laziness is a turn-off.)

So...you might continue in your education and become a prof.

I'm sure there's easier ways, though.

Mischievous Gentleman



[Edited by MischievousGntlman on 10-30-2000 at 06:12 PM]