Ok I know this sounds sorta weird, but how do you actually get people together for an orgy? I've tried many different things, but I don't want people to think I'm weird. I just want to have some fun! Anyone have any suggestions?
At different times, with different old ladies/girlfriends, the Significant Other and I have conspired to make these things happen. We usually talked about who we would want to share ourselves with, who we could trust, and who we could approach without freaking them out. When we were in agreement, I would approach the guys that she was interested in, and she would approach the women. This way it was plain that we were in this together, and not sneaking around. Often, the 3rd person would spend some time (a night or 3 or 5) with just one of us before being brought into a larger scene. That way the new person had a chance to get comfortable with something that, admittedly, can be seen as at least a little strange. The slow start also allowed them a chance to assure themselves that there wasn't any weirdness or jealousy simmering under the surface. It gets easier, once a regular 3some or 4some gets established, to involve others. The new prospects can be allowed to overhear talk between the regular partners, and their reactions can be judged. It sort of speeds up the assessment process.
