How do I get my lover back?

[conejita]

I had been dating a married guy for 1 1/2 years, sex was great and he was really sweet to me. In the last couple of months we had been trying to find a girl for a threesome, and we finally got my best friend to go for it. On my birthday we had a nice and quick 3 way play after the party. A week after I left the country for 3 months, because of work. The first couple of weeks were ok, but I knew my fried kept calling him. Eventully I was so angry and jelous I told my fried I hated her, and my bf and I got into a BIG fight. I have been 2 months out of the country already, and I miss him terribly. We talk to each other once a week, and we are "friends" now. I still have a month here, but when I go back I want to try to get him back. Any sexy ideas?

 

[Primalex]

Don't.

He dumped you - and he will again.

 

[conejita]

Lover

Hmm... Im still looking for sexy ideas... To try and get back with him is my decision to make. Anyone?

 

[subwannabe]

Sorry, but Primalex is right. I don't think you really need ideas on how to be sexy. I'm sure you can handle that on your own. If you are lucky you can steal him back and have a few good fucks, then you will be right back here asking for advice on how to be sexy and get him back. Is that really what you want? How about fucking someone you can have a real future with?

 

[conejita]

Last time

Last time I fucked someone I could have a real future with he dumped me after 8 years... So no I would rather fuck someone that wont hurt me so much.

 

[conejita]

JMac20

JMac20 sent me this PM:

"If he's that good in bed your friend took your time away to make him fall for her. She probably let him do anything he wanted and he fell for it."

I dont think so... she is really bad in bed! She would lay down and not move at all, besides she wont have oral or anal, and she wont cum after an hour, even playing with herself! I´m preatty sure he is not doing her... I mean it was hot having him see me making out with her, touching her breast... Having her watch us fucking... But at the end when he was fucking her, she would just lay down and do nothing... So no, I dont think he would be with her...

The point is she kept calling him, she was not supposed to do that! She knows I care about him.

Anyways, he drops a line now and then... And I know somehow he still wants to be with me because he would ask if Im alone, if I have behaved myself, if Im naked...

 

[SpicyPepper]

It's a fact of life that when you enter into a relationship there's a risk that you'll get hurt.

If you're jealous about your friend and you've already invested in this guy, why not try and cut the ties before you get any more attached to someone who's MARRIED and find a good guy who will treat you right. One who's actually single and emotionally available.

There's 6 billion people in the world, not every one of them is going to hurt you.

 

[infinity706]

Well, if you're really interested in getting him super excited, you could always get a webcam and let him watch you fuck your brains out.

 

[AgonySceneGirl]

he's married, he was gonna leave you eventually anyway.

 

[conejita]

Thanks to you all

I was asking for sexy ideas not judging... Now I shall leave this thread to die out....

 

[The Greek]

Well, if you're really interested in getting him super excited, you could always get a webcam and let him watch you fuck your brains out.

Not a bad idea. A webcam can be an effective way to keep you visually connected to him. Provocative imagery (by camera or digital pictures) also enforces to him how beautiful you are

Also keep communicating the there is and endpont to your distance separation where you both can connect again

 

[BBWetKitty]

I was asking for sexy ideas not judging... Now I shall leave this thread to die out....

You just want to hear us tell you to get this married man back so he can screw you and your girlfriend from time to time. Sounds like he got his pie and ate it too. It's unfortunate that you couldn't trust him or your "fried" while you were out of the country. Suck it up and move on.

 

[The Greek]

I was asking for sexy ideas not judging... Now I shall leave this thread to die out....

understood. While I believe people have offered genuine concerns, the choice is your and more focus should be on answering your questions versus just telling you your decision is wrong.

One final thought, the fight you had may have become so intense partially due to distance issues, with your GF being a close by alternative. If you are serious about this person (and it appears you are) a lot of the difficulties in your relationship may heal once you are back home.

 

[Genius_Of_Love]

I don't think there is anything you can do to gethim back. Just be yourself and put yourself out there. If he want you back, he willcome back.