How do I get a slave?

[Spinaroonie]

I figure that with things being pretty busy, I could benefit from a slave, both sexually and otherwise. How do I get one?

 

[Quoll]

I figure that with things being pretty busy, I could benefit from a slave, both sexually and otherwise. How do I get one?

Try Here

 

[INeedLove]

Try the BDSM personals.

 

[h_i_s]

Well, if you have to ask HOW to get a slave ... perhaps you are not ready for the responsibility of all that owning a slave would include? Maybe you need to spend time reflecting on what it may ALL be about , learn more and be certain that you want one, and have something to offer in return?
... before taking a slave on?

Not for me to judge though ... just a suggestion.

Regardless, try your luck over at collarme.com too.

 

[Moleculor]

Well, if you have to ask HOW to get a slave ... perhaps you are not ready for the responsibility of all that owning a slave would include? Maybe you need to spend time reflecting on what it may ALL be about , learn more and be certain that you want one, and have something to offer in return?
... before taking a slave on?

Not for me to judge though ... just a suggestion.

Regardless, try your luck over at collarme.com too.

Yes, because as we all know, everything there is to learn about being in a BDSM relationship you can learn by thinking really hard.

Please note the tone of sarcasm in my voice.

 

[h_i_s]

Yes, because as we all know, everything there is to learn about being in a BDSM relationship you can learn by thinking really hard.

Please note the tone of sarcasm in my voice.

And *you* have to think THAT hard to figure it all out?

Well, if you have to ask HOW to get a slave ... perhaps you are not ready for the responsibility of all that owning a slave would include? Maybe you need to spend time reflecting on what it may ALL be about , learn more and be certain that you want one, and have something to offer in return?
... before taking a slave on?

Not for me to judge though ... just a suggestion.

Regardless, try your luck over at collarme.com too.

No idea why this statement leads you to think that i would suggest that everything there is to know about being in a BDSM relationship can be learned just by 'thinking hard'. i SAID maybe 'LEARN' more. i'd think it would be understood & without my having to say so, that there are many avenues which could facilitate learning. IE: attending munches and other REAL TIME BDSM socials and events, participating in BDSM workshops, reading a book or two regarding BDSM topics, etc ect. Perhaps you have misunderstood the points of my post due to your stifled definition regarding the ideas and nurmerous methods of 'learning'.

While i would certainly not claim to know *everything* i do offer what i have learned, and do know, to others whenever & where ever i can. If it makes the journey easier for someone else, i'm certain that's a good trait.
Regardless, i haven't seen you offer any wise words of advice here to Spinaroonie, Molecular.
Why is that? i'm certain we would all enjoy knowing what your master plan would be in aquiring a slave for yourself.

Do you have a slave? If so, perhaps have them come on in and tell us all how you managed to 'woo' them into a relationship? Did you employ a bit of sarchasm as your magic method of attraction? Or were they simply enraptured by your charm and kind disposition, alone?

Oh, and no NEED to note any sarchasm with me hun. That's just *me* coming right out and saying quite clearly that your post makes you appear as a know it all who doesn't know diddly shit.

 

[Moleculor]

Your word usage implied that personal reflection would impart knowledge. If that was not your intent, be more clear next time.

As far as my owning a slave, no, I'm a firm believer in the idea that people are more than one-dimensional cardboard cutouts representing some single ideal. (i.e. I'm a switch, and would never be happy with someone who's content to be submissive all the time.)

 

[h_i_s]

Your word usage implied that personal reflection would impart knowledge. If that was not your intent, be more clear next time.

As far as my owning a slave, no, I'm a firm believer in the idea that people are more than one-dimensional cardboard cutouts representing some single ideal. (i.e. I'm a switch, and would never be happy with someone who's content to be submissive all the time.)

my word usage is not the problem. my choice of wording was clear in it's message.

Regardless, point proven... just as i had thought, you have no useful advice to offer. Just negativity, and sarchasm.

You've taken issue with a couple of my posts in the past due unprovoked and entirely due to mincing of interpretation on your own part. Your main issue is with *me* .. spell it out as it is instead of hiding behind your excuses. Be more clear next time *yourself*.

i should have kept your lame ass on ignore where i put you the first time you showed your true colors. Silly me for thinking i'd been having a bad day and put you there mistakenly. You can remain there now, though. No use for you here on my screen ....

 

[Moleculor]

i should have kept your lame ass on ignore where i put you the first time you showed your true colors. Silly me for thinking i'd been having a bad day and put you there mistakenly. You can remain there now, though. No use for you here on my screen ....

Huh? Who -are- you?

 

[Quoll]

Well, if you have to ask HOW to get a slave ... perhaps you are not ready for the responsibility of all that owning a slave would include? Maybe you need to spend time reflecting on what it may ALL be about , learn more and be certain that you want one, and have something to offer in return?
... before taking a slave on?

Not for me to judge though ... just a suggestion.

Regardless, try your luck over at collarme.com too.

Not my scene, but I don't understand how anyone could misconstrue this as anything more than what it says. It contains two very simple suggestions that apply to anything in life. Think about it. Learn about it.

 

[INSIDEYOURMIND]

Your word usage implied that personal reflection would impart knowledge. If that was not your intent, be more clear next time.

I am not here to fight my slave's battles, nor to protect her from some foolishness, she is a strong woman, and can handle ignorance when it raises it's head. I take exception with the "be more clear" comment.
I read her post just once and her point was exceptionally clear,
Instead of telling someone what to do, use her advice, and reflect, and read!

Spinaroonie,
Taking on a slave is not something done on a whim. A true slave that gives herself fully will overlook her own well being to that of her Master's. That alone is a huge responsibility.
Are you prepared to make all of the life choices for another person? Again a huge responsibilty.
There is a wealth of knowledge on this subject, take your time, read, reflect on what you have read, and how it affects you, go to a munch or two, talk to slaves, Dominants, anyone ACTUALLY in the life style, not only in an online situation.
I am sure you remember when you were a kid and you wanted a new pet, and your mom or dad said no because they weren't going to wind up taking care of it for you? Well, you're a big boy now, and mom and dad aren't there to care for your slave for you!
I you are busy, a maid can handle the housework, an assistant can handle some of your workload, and if you don't have a girlfriend, an escort can take care of your sexual needs, and believe me juggling those 3 is still easier than the resposibility of owning a 24/7 slave.