How do I find a Woman to fuck me with Strap On

winstor102

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im a young college guy, 23, good looking, in shape and i have been looking for about a year and a half now for a woman who would like to dom me and fuck me with a strap on

I have put multiple ads on sites like craigslist but i have never found a woman serious to do it, i want to submitt and be used by a woman with a strap on

How do I go about finding a woman for this? any good sites or places around the tampa bay area? i would appreciate any help i can get

also, i would love to find a beautiful TS girl, again no luck finding one

where is a good place to look? please if anyone has any tips or advice just write me, im new on here and looking for some answers and help, thanks alot, take care everyone!
 
Have you been checking out munches and other local BDSM community events?

If not, that might be another good place to start meeting people (yes, people, not just women who could dominate and fuck you with a strapon). The advantage of this route is you see if there's any kind of chemistry fairly soon, although you shouldn't go into a munch looking for a date.

I'd also encourage you to think about and communicate what you have to offer to potential Dommes or play partners. There are tons of male subs who want X, Y or Z. There are far fewer who are actually looking to please a potential partner by doing what s/he wants. You'll stand out if you're not a whiny sub who wants his fantasies fulfilled. And if you are the type of sub who only wants what he wants, you should be prepared to pay a ProDomme to have your fantasies fulfilled.
 
thanks very much you two, i really appreciate it, im definatly looking to please my Dom, i want to make her happy, thats what really turns me on, letting her take control and have complete power and decision
 
I dont think it should be something that is 'looked for'. Two women have been inside my ass, one was a strapon because she said that (and it was a longtime joke for a while) that she'd take the anal vcard of whoever took hers. It ended up that way.

The other time was with an older woman who knew what she was doing in the prosdate dept, and she brought it up.

Dont look, it'll find you.
 
Have you been checking out munches and other local BDSM community events?

If not, that might be another good place to start meeting people (yes, people, not just women who could dominate and fuck you with a strapon). The advantage of this route is you see if there's any kind of chemistry fairly soon, although you shouldn't go into a munch looking for a date.

I'd also encourage you to think about and communicate what you have to offer to potential Dommes or play partners. There are tons of male subs who want X, Y or Z. There are far fewer who are actually looking to please a potential partner by doing what s/he wants. You'll stand out if you're not a whiny sub who wants his fantasies fulfilled. And if you are the type of sub who only wants what he wants, you should be prepared to pay a ProDomme to have your fantasies fulfilled.

Pro-Domme is easy, but can get expensive. Munches and BDSM events are populated by nerds in funny costumes. It's like a Star Trek convnetion minus the spaceships. Not my scene.
 
I second Fetlife.com It's a kink-central site, and you can link your profile to the groups most local to you and talk to people in the area. Even if you're not interested in attending a munch, many local groups have other get-togethers that may be more your speed. Talk to other locals and get to know what is nearby. You may be surprised who you might already know that's a kinkster.
 
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