How do I find a good BDSM mate?

[GRIFFBABY]

I am bisexual. I am a switch. I have been active in BDSM for a while however, I have never been in a relationship or even had a hook up with someone who is part of it. How do I find a good mate that is into BDSM as much as I am? Is there a website or a good place to meet people that are into it?

 

[Killishandra]

I am bisexual. I am a switch. I have been active in BDSM for a while however, I have never been in a relationship or even had a hook up with someone who is part of it. How do I find a good mate that is into BDSM as much as I am? Is there a website or a good place to meet people that are into it?

There are bdsm personals sites...

www.collarme.com is a good one.

www.alt.com is another site, and www.bdsmpersonals.com

I'm not sure how those last two work, but collarme seems pretty good. Actually, it worked quite well for me.

 

[GRIFFBABY]

Thanks. Collarme does look good and I have now set up a profile there. I am hoping it works because people interested in just normal sex and normal sex itself seems rather boring to me.

 

[esclave_PP]

Just like any other relationship criteria, the same applies to those who love to play. Those are great sites, good luck and keep in mind that finding like people is half the battle. Lit has personals too.

 

[Marquis]

Collarme = the bomb.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

And don't forget to find and attend your local munch, and activities they sponsor and/or attend as a group and/or give notification about. Online is a wonderful thing, but offline is face-to-face, mind-to-mind communication.

 

[oddity83]

collarme is very good, Alt sucks. I don't know about bdsmpersonals, the one here seems okay, I haven't really used it much.

 

[Xelebes]

And don't forget to find and attend your local munch, and activities they sponsor and/or attend as a group and/or give notification about. Online is a wonderful thing, but offline is face-to-face, mind-to-mind communication.

I personally prefer the face-to-face dealie. Tried the online thing and... not gonna work with me.