How do guys feel about wearing condoms?

barto31

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I am not on the pill and want the sex so bad but my friend doesn't like the thought of wearing a condom? Does it feel that bad?
 
Originally posted by barto31
I am not on the pill and want the sex so bad but my friend doesn't like the thought of wearing a condom? Does it feel that bad?

Does it matter? Unless your friend wants to raise a child...tell him he better wear one if he wants sex with you!


*the empathetic answer will come later :)*
 
It feels a hell of a lot better than either an unwanted pregnancy or an STD/STI.

Simple put, if your partner won't wear one at your request then he probably isn't worth your time and energy at all.
 
frisky said:
It feels a hell of a lot better than either an unwanted pregnancy or an STD/STI.

Simple put, if your partner won't wear one at your request then he probably isn't worth your time and energy at all.


I agree with this.

Unless he gets an okay from me, a condom is a must or else there is no sex going on that time.
 
barto31 said:
I am not on the pill and want the sex so bad but my friend doesn't like the thought of wearing a condom? Does it feel that bad?

Feels a hell of a lot better than no sex at all. Many years ago my wife went on the pill for a short period of time but didn’t like the effects on her and was nervous about long-term affects to her body. We discussed alternatives and although I wasn’t real keen on the idea of a condom, that’s what we decided.

This was a joint decision. I tried all sorts of condoms and none of them were anywhere as good as bare back. But, considering the alternative of pregnancy, there was no real option if we wanted penetration. The ironic thing is that it actually helped us because we tried other methods for sexual gratification.

It’s your body as well as his. It doesn’t feel BAD, it just doesn’t feel as good IMHO. I don’t know what your reasons are for not going on the pill, but if they can’t be resolved in your mind than the ball is in his court. If he can’t respect that, it’s time to get a friend that cares about you as well as himself.
 
I wear one a lot for my wife, and we both like the feel to an extent, plus we both have found that it tends to allow a longer time to hold off before actually reaching that orgasm. Have to agree with the others, it is a lot safer, and beats the alternative of a child or some disease. Be smart.
 
ditto

Using a condom is the smartest thing to do these days. I would rather not use it but the fact is I do not want kids nor do I want a STD. Trojan and Durex seem to be trying to make all different kinds of condoms to "satisfy" its customers. If your "friend" still does not want to use one, PM me...:D :p
 
Re: Re: ditto

gwh said:
Good point! There are PLENTY of individuals right here who wouldn't think twice about using a condom!!

I'm Sooooo sure that's why you posted this....NOT

Read it, if you can, then reread it and take it for what it is worth. Do not presume my intentions. :mad:
 
Originally posted by gwh
Geeze, I thought there was a whole market for that these days! ;)


LOL gwh I almost typed gwb;) want to catch a movie later;)
 
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