How did your spouse/gf know about your panties fetishes?

[BrownScorpio]

It’s no doubt that the sex life of a fetishist is much better if his/her spouse/SO is acceptive and supportive. It can’t be more accurate for panties fetishes. Just imagine and compare the feeling of secretly rummaging hamper/lingerie drawer vs panties shopping together. Or worse, a heightened sex life revolve around the fetish vs a broken relationship. I think it’s all depend on how we share it with our partners.

I was lucky to have a supportive partner, and I wish other with panties fetish can find such acceptance. I hope others can share their experience in what to do or not to do to get your spouse/partner aware of your fetish.

 

[Sigmund7]

It all tarted on a camping trip many year ago. My wife suggested that we swap underwear for the duration of the trip. We discovered that we both liked her more than mine and I've been wearing panties since. I had always had an interest in panties but that was the first time we shared the experience.

 

[Handeguy]

We were a good while into some heavy foreplay, and I was just so aroused that I lost all my inhibitions. While she was stroking me, I asked her to wrap her panties around my hard cock. I was beyond thrilled when she didnt hesitate. It turned out to be a thrill for both of us. My only regret is not saying something sooner.

 

[Wonderland222]

We were a good while into some heavy foreplay, and I was just so aroused that I lost all my inhibitions. While she was stroking me, I asked her to wrap her panties around my hard cock. I was beyond thrilled when she didnt hesitate. It turned out to be a thrill for both of us. My only regret is not saying something sooner.

Best time for kinky confessions is always deep in heavy hot foreplay. Best confessions no matter how naughty I bet she loved it

 

[Handeguy]

Best time for kinky confessions is always deep in heavy hot foreplay. Best confessions no matter how naughty I bet she loved it

We both did, it seems!

 

[2ServeWoman]

It’s no doubt that the sex life of a fetishist is much better if his/her spouse/SO is acceptive and supportive. It can’t be more accurate for panties fetishes. Just imagine and compare the feeling of secretly rummaging hamper/lingerie drawer vs panties shopping together. Or worse, a heightened sex life revolve around the fetish vs a broken relationship. I think it’s all depend on how we share it with our partners.

I was lucky to have a supportive partner, and I wish other with panties fetish can find such acceptance. I hope others can share their experience in what to do or not to do to get your spouse/partner aware of your fetish.

Mine hides hers knowing I’d use them as the catalyst for a more intense release - so unfair cheating me out of her very scents/tastes knowing since she stopped wanting sex of any kind over 16 years ago!

 

[Lucien_Al]

When I first met my wife on Tinder and we started chatting online (during Covid hard lockdown) the conversation inevitably got to our sexual likes and dislikes. I sent her some of my stories on email and as most of them have a strong panty fetish theme. When she used to stay over she would bring me her panties when she was undressing for bed and ask if they were suitable. At first I was the one who was a little self conscious as for most of my life the women I have been with have not accepted my love of their worn panties. She didn't judge or show any negative sentiment so it went from there.

These days she will get her worn panties from the hamper if they are really wet and hold them to my nose as she rides me. She is also really good about slipping a pair on after I have cum in her and then having one last play in them and then put them in my suitcase when I travel.

I love the fact that I can enjoy my fetish without being judged and our sex life is greatly improved by this honesty with each other.

 

[BrownScorpio]

Thanks all for sharing your experience.

Mine was a lucky one. I had strong preference for panties early one. During my relationship with my current wife, she had a good taste in choosing her underwear to I always compliment on them before taking them off. One day, we're in hot and wild sex, she was on top and I became vocal. Out of the blue, she grabbed her panties from her ankle and shoved it into my moaning mouth. I must have shown so much pleasure then that she kept it there for a little and pulled it our and rubbed it over my face. I was in heaven and came so hard. Since then, I would go down on her with her panties on and play with it for extended time. She would rub my cock with her panties in our foreplay. Life was good.

I got better. One time I had to be away for 3 months for an internship. I asked her for one of her panties to take with me in case I missed her. She gladly agreed and let me pick. We had several facetime where I rubbed myself with her panties and she rubbed herself on the other end. Near the end of the 3 month period, she came visiting me. I worn her panties to the airport. So horny, we sneaked into a family restroom to make out. She showed little surprise after unzipping my jean but gave an evil smile and took the throbbing cock. From time to time, I would wear a pair of her sexy panties and flash her as signal for desire. She must like it too because she wants me to keep it on for the whole time we have sex.

 

[Jay Richards]

We were a good while into some heavy foreplay, and I was just so aroused that I lost all my inhibitions. While she was stroking me, I asked her to wrap her panties around my hard cock. I was beyond thrilled when she didnt hesitate. It turned out to be a thrill for both of us. My only regret is not saying something sooner.

Did it ever happen again?

 

[StefaniSometimes]

It’s no doubt that the sex life of a fetishist is much better if his/her spouse/SO is acceptive and supportive. It can’t be more accurate for panties fetishes. Just imagine and compare the feeling of secretly rummaging hamper/lingerie drawer vs panties shopping together. Or worse, a heightened sex life revolve around the fetish vs a broken relationship. I think it’s all depend on how we share it with our partners.

I was lucky to have a supportive partner, and I wish other with panties fetish can find such acceptance. I hope others can share their experience in what to do or not to do to get your spouse/partner aware of your fetish.

I've been able to dress up in many various outfits, costumes, lingerie, swimsuits, etc. with 90% of my girlfriends over the years. With an above average number of gf's, I can share what has always worked for me.
The key to my success is simple. Always make it appear that it was their idea. Create the situation that ends in your favor. Example, in college I was supposed to meet to go swimming at this chicks house. I purposely ran a little late and "forgot" my suit. A few minutes later it turned into me borrowing one of hers, and the next time I was told I had a new suit waiting and leave mine at home. Of course Halloween is an easy one. But it was always their idea.
Good luck!

 

[Handeguy]

Did it ever happen again?

Many times!

 

[Tayloroc]

Did it ever happen again?

I had the same experience. Life changing!

 

[BrownScorpio]

One man said that he showed up to a pool party with some GFs without swimsuit and they suggested lending theirs. Good idea

 

[NancyPan]

See my story “The Price of His Panties.” That tells my tale. PM me if you like it. It was the first of the 19 stories I have posted to Literotica.

 

[FantasySharer1]

My panty fetish is focused on her used panties and getting the pussy juice and piss on them to make wet contact with my cock. I told her myself and she plays along and it's wonderful.

 

[Oshkosh60]

My ex-wife discovered a pair I had stuck between the mattress and boxspring (I know...rookie move) She seemed okay with it all and I even wore them to bed once...but I never really trusted her. I was always afraid that she would bring that up and use it against me. Years later we divorced (not because of wearing issues) and while I still like to have a pair of panties on, I can't in front of my partner. She really likes the 'male' me and has made it pretty clear she doesn't fancy anything other than that.

 

[ncguyforfun269]

I am upfront in who I am seeing/dating. I tell them that I have a thing for panties and that I wear them daily. I had one say she wasn't into that and never heard from her again... But it sparks curiosity with most and I have been gifted quite a few pairs over the years!!! I love panties!!!

 

[little cletus]

We were just fooling around going through her lingerie and she asked if I would try some on. I feigned reluctance and did it. For years she would give me her used and unwanted lingerie. I’ve never told her that I used to wear my sisters/girlfriends/step mothers panties. I now buy my own and wear them mostly on the weekends.

 

[Tayloroc]

That’s so sexy. I did the same

 

[Lucien_Al]

Love hearing how they find out

 

[Tayloroc]

My gf put hers on me

 

[Tom599]

Doing the washing fell from my pocket was taking a friends car to the mechanic fell from some rubbish,told my wife they were mine always worn them just love them used to dress up cant now she gives me hers

 

[Easyvirtue]

I was drunk the night I told my wife. She woke up the next day and we had a long talk about it. She let me dress for a while then made me stop.

 

[RingLuvr]

I'm in a complicated relationship (both still married but living together) sometimes I need to go back to the house I own. My GF said he had put a pair of worn panties in my backpack to remember her. I found them. Talking on the phone, she jokingly asked if I was wearing them, I said yes and have been wearing her panties ever since. She even buys "us" panties now.

 

[aaa666]

I'd been with my partner about 4 years when we where away on vacation, when she was rubbing here worn panties on my cock and said that I was hiding in them. I got hold of them and put them on and said now I'm really hiding in them and it went from there. Now on top of a huge collection of panties, I have bikini bottoms for swimming and a collection of close to 20 skirts to wear when out and about