how could i fight a taboo ?

[axel]

Girls, I need your help!
With my gf we have an excellent , extremely satisfying sexual life.
One of the reasons is her open mind, that allows her to try with me almost anything that my more or less sexuallly productive mind can imagine.We eanact also lots of fantasies.Soemtimes we write each other our fantasies for the other to read and get horny like crazy.
But there is a pass I cant cross over, my Rubicone!
She abhors the thought of the remotest tenderness with another woman, let alone anything more audacious.
In my fantasies, I see her in my arms , receiving my warmest seetest kisses, me in a tremendous state of arousal and a pretty tender soft woman to lead her to ecstasis.She maintains that no matter what another woman could do to her , she would feel absolutely nothing (even in her most sensitive parts that drive her crazy with me).As for reciprocating , she says that she is going to puke instead.
In a fantasy of mine, I saw her for a short while encarcerated with a bunch of wild women who would see her like the first lottery number.Nobody could stop them, even the jailers were women crazy for "virgin" women to the joys of Lesbos.I related to her that fantasy while I was rejoycing her treasures and that made my pleasure skyrocket.Of course, in real life I want her only to experience the best possible lovemaking with another woman, who, despite her objections and stubborness, would lead her involuntarily to the highest peak of moans, screams and internal bliss.Any ideas, ladies?

 

[tassie]

you want a 3some. your girlfriend doesnt. not a lot you can do there really mate. just stop hassling her or she might tell you where to get off. if she doesnt want other women, she aint gonna be persuaded, some of us just arent built like that.

 

[knightstalker]

Sounds like this is one of those times where the fantasy must remain that ..I also have these fantasies about my girl and she feels the same as yours does..I love gher though and just leave it a fantasy..Hope you figure something out soon ..

 

[Ice Princess]

I think you're probably wrong that sex with another woman would lead her "to the highest peak of moans, screams and internal bliss" if she isn't at all attracted to women. Imagine some person you are really turned off by: Would you want that person to touch you? Do you imagine it would be pleasant to be asked to have sex with that person to amuse your partner?

Despite the almost universal male fantasy of a M-F-F threesome, there are women who have absolutely no sexual feelings for other women. There are even women who are actively repulsed by the idea of touching another woman or being touched by one. I know that contradicts all the porno cliches, but it's true.

If you care about her, you shouldn't try to force or manipulate or otherwise pressure her into sexual acts she finds repulsive. It's pretty simple.

 

[SexyChele]

I agree with the others here - some women just have no sexual feelings towards other women. Yes, yes, I know - according to the porn industry all women are supposed to have lesbian fantasies and desires. But it just ain't so.

Look at it this way: How would you feel if your girlfriend said she really wanted to watch you suck off another guy? Would you? Would you at least try - and discover how another man "would lead [you] involuntarily to the highest peak of moans, screams and internal bliss?

See how it works?

Now, I do have to admit that when I was in my teens, 20s, and 30s, the thought of being with another woman intimately repulsed me. Just never saw myself doing it, and whenever my boyfriends would suggest it, I'd very nearly freak out. (And I am a very open-minded, adventurous female!) Then, when I hit my 40s, I became more than a little curious. I actively sought out another female and experienced that side of my sexuality. Enjoyed it, yes. But not all the time.

Sometimes these things come with age. Sometimes women just are never into it. Accept your girl's reasoning and let it go.

 

[axel]

I understand her better now

Thank you all! It is true that there is a fallacy that no woman can
resist a loving tender tongue or fingers playing with her deftly, be it a man's or a woman's.But from the ladies feedback I understood that for many women is as repulsive an idea as for a straight man the idea of another man.
But as you say the sexuality of people is fluid so nobody can predict the future desires or new curiosities and wish for more adventure. Certainly I will refrain from asking or even making hints , thanks to you all folks! Thanks again !!