i was just wondering how (if possible) i could convince my gf to swallow my cum. we have talked about it somewhat but she seems VERY relunctant and seemingly refuses to do it. i dont plan on forcing her to do it but it is something i would like her to try atleast once. i am wondering how i could bring it up, and what i can use to try and convince her to do it or in some way solace her fears and/or inhibitions about it. ANY help would be greatly appreciated. another question, id would like to do something special like that for her in return. do any of you have ideas on what i can do for her i.e. methods of cunnigulus (sp?) or the like.
how can i get my girlfriend to swallow?
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James G 5
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96V6Stang said:
We've already got a whole thread on this going.....try reading thru this for some tips:
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=153641
PS, it's off topic, but remind me to diss your car some time
And by all means, do something nice for her when she swallows
Lead by example! Try coming on her tits, suck on them a bit, then give her a kiss. She'll respect you more in the morning! Why should she do anything that you wouldn't do yourself.
And by the way, the sig line stuff is more appropriate for a gear head bulletin board.
And by the way, the sig line stuff is more appropriate for a gear head bulletin board.
thats very true. i hadnt thought about it like that. i was thinking about the systematic desensitization. that sounds like a good way to overcome a fear or inhibition. although, my gf seems to be a little closed minded. she went down on me and made me cum but she didnt take it in her mouth. she kinda jerked it out. the thing that kinda downed my spirits was that she was pretty much grossed out by it. she had to stand back because she thought it was gross. she tends to have a weak stomach and that doesnt mix well with oral sex. *sigh* i dunno, ill see what i can do. thanx for the tips.
by the way, my sig IS for gearheads. gearheads like sex too dont they?
by the way, my sig IS for gearheads. gearheads like sex too dont they?
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96V6Stang said:you might as well diss it now. i know it sux but im currently on the search for a crate motor. as soon as i find one that i can afford and that as soon as i can find someone to drop it in for me i will be ready to go and the disses will stop.
Yeah, but it'll still be a Ford
Try using a flavored lube or chocolate syrup to cover the taste, or using some of the techniques in the other thread I linked to to desensitize her
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Hold her nose and blow in her face. *shrug* It works for giving kids medicine.
96V6Stang said:you might as well diss it now. i know it sux but im currently on the search for a crate motor. as soon as i find one that i can afford and that as soon as i can find someone to drop it in for me i will be ready to go and the disses will stop.
It's a pity really, after all those mods, you still won't stand a chance against my stock Z52 Vette!
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96V6Stang said:
Is it "closed minded" or inexperience? It takes a while to get used to, and every guy tastes different. Perhaps she has never tasted cum before, or perhaps had a bad experience previously. Talk to her, find out what she's willing to do, and what she won't do. If you don't discuss it with her, you'll never know what's holding her back -- perhaps it's just your eagerness that is turning her off. Might want to back off a bit until you've had a chance to talk with her about it in a neutral (i.e., not in the bedroom) place.
Just my two cents worth...
Good luck!
first of all, im not trying to make my car hang with a vette. so what nefarious said was dumb and pointless.
secondly, no its not THAT big of a deal if she doesnt swallow. its not like im gonna leave her if she doesnt. i love her with all my heart. this is just something that i would like her to get in to. if she doesnt then thats fine. i dont want to seem like a prick just because i ask people how i can convince her of it. this is a "how-to" forum after all. we havent talked about it in great detail so that ssomething ill have to try. if she comes around to it then awesome. if she doesnt then thats kool too. either way ill love her the same, and i think thats all that matters.
secondly, no its not THAT big of a deal if she doesnt swallow. its not like im gonna leave her if she doesnt. i love her with all my heart. this is just something that i would like her to get in to. if she doesnt then thats fine. i dont want to seem like a prick just because i ask people how i can convince her of it. this is a "how-to" forum after all. we havent talked about it in great detail so that ssomething ill have to try. if she comes around to it then awesome. if she doesnt then thats kool too. either way ill love her the same, and i think thats all that matters.
