How can I get her to be more aggressive?

[RazeByFire]

My girlfriend is beautiful and fun, I love sex with her but I have one small complaint. She is never aggrressive. She never comes after me. I know she likes sex, but she always waits for me to initiate it. What can I do to get her to want me as badly as I want her? Thanks.

 

[Guest]

cheer up....this should be an easy one.....Give her compliments....tell her when she does it right....moan and groan, jerk, move and tell her again and again how good she makes you feel when she does the things she does....not just during sex, but afterward....build her confidence at the things she does and ask for the things you would like her to try....be honest....but be yourself.....

 

[Morgaine]

COMMUNICATION! She may think you like her taking a submissive role...talk to her...let her know that you'd like her to initiate sex occasionally. You might be very pleasantly surprised.

 

[Skitten]

She may be a little shy when it comes to being agressive, but talk to her and let her know that you wouldx like it if she would take the lead. She may think that you don't want a woman who is agressive she may think you want her to be passive and, she is suppossed to let you be in contol. Let her know your feeling you may be in for a BIG surprise she may be into being in that role more than you were ready for lol. Seriously TALK best thing to do.