How can I create a first experience?

[Sallad]

How can I create my first lesbian experience?

I am engaged....I am happy...but I'm only 21. I've had sex only with the man I'm going to marry. I've dated and "fooled around with" like 3 other guys....but what I really want is a woman. I'm not a lesbian (god knows i love the cock!) but women are beautiful and sensual in a way that is different from men. I've never been with an woman and I want to so badly. Of course my fiance is all for it! And I don't mind sharing....but I don't want my first with a woman to be a kinky show....It's hard to explain.

How can a find a girl to create that first sexual experience I've been dying for since I was 12?!

 

[Sallad]

I Want Woman Too

This was a PM sent to me and since she did not want to post it, I'll leave her handle off of it

I want a woman TOO

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I feel your pain DallasWantsPink, I'm in a similar boat. I am 25, married for 2 years and have been attracted to women since I was young. I live for cock but I want a little tit and pussy too. HOWEVER, I also want it to go slow and be soft as well. I am nervous about meeting a girl that is ready to be involved with me but has decided that she wants it all right then and it turns too hard and kinky. I have no solution for you as I am in the same boat as you are... I don't know where to look or how to set up a situation.

 

[Sallad]

70 looks and no replies?

 

[SophiaY]

Okay,

Few women, lesbian or bisexual, jump into bed with strangers.

You want a woman, you have to get to know her socially and romantically -- in other words, date her.

 

[Sallad]

I'm totally okay with that. I don't really have any women friends and I'm really just looking for that first and foremost. But it would be so nice if it led to something a bit more intimate than that. I've just never really had an encounter with a woman that has those types of interests. I don't even know where to start looking.

 

[pinkstarfish]

Put up a Profile picture and start a topic in personals about meeting a woman for drinks and maybe more in the Dallas area.

Define what you're looking for.

Make sure you see a current picture of them and get to know their personality a little before meeting with them.

Do not give them your address or phone number and meet them in a public place, not at either one of your homes.

 

[Sallad]

i've tried much of that, but it always seems to turn into something like a couple just wanting to fool around and i really do want a friend ... a friend with benefits if it feels right. i dunno

 

[SophiaY]

There are social events that attract the kind of woman that you’re seeking. A women softball game for example; activities related to gay and lesbian concerns, such as a charitable fundraising party; book signings for lesbian or bisexual authors; the local woman’s bookstore, if there is one in your area is a good place to hang around – and it might be enriching experience regardless. Use you imagination.

It may sound silly, but wearing a Pride pin may get you noticed by the kind of woman you are searching for.

 

[Sallad]

Wow! Now those sound like good ideas. Thank you so much Sophia!

 

[Etoile]

Have you discussed this with your fiance at all?

 

[Sallad]

Have you discussed this with your fiance at all?

OH yes! He, like many men, at least appears to be turned on by the idea of me wanting to share myself with a woman. I think that as long as we remain honest about how each of us feels about this type of thing that it will be okay. If he, for whatever reason, decides that he is uncomfortable with the idea then I wouldn't do it. But for now he's awfully excited.