How are promiscuous people veiwed?

[mysty74]

Everyone has their own theory. Men sleep around, women sleep around. But how do we veiw others who choose to have multiple partners? Is it ok for men and not women? Or do we now share the same opinion for both sexes?
All veiwpoints are welcome here.
Mysty

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Each to their own... untill you walk in that persons shoes there are many reasons people do things.....

 

[mig]

There has always been this idea that if a man sleeps around
he's a stud.

If a woman does it she's a slut.

Can't see it myself.If it's good for me it's good for her too.

Excepting that I don't sleep around,and if my S/O did,she
wouldn't be.

 

[IA951]

what fucking difference does any of it make?
My own personal opinon is that there must be something missing from their lives if they have to be fucking all the time.
Or perhaps they are looking for love or a emotional attachment and think that in order to secure that they have to put out a lot.
Whores are whores, man.
sluts are sluts you know?

it sounds like a rather bleak life, dreary and predictable.

sex, man, it's a killer.

 

[patient1]

Through 10 power binoculars?

 

[Rubyfruit]

Re: Re: How are promiscuous people veiwed?

Through 10 power binoculars?

LMAO

 

[Debbie]

IMHO? I have no right to judge anyone else.

My opinion? What others do in their personal lives is none of my business.



LOL I have had to kiss many frogs to find my prince. I just didn't kiss them all at the same time.

 

[JaymesBlond007]

I really don't see it as any of my buisness what other people do. If they treat me with respect, then appearently they have got something going on upstairs, and I have no choice but torespect their decision. Hell, for all I know, they could hate me because I eat red meat, yet choose to be polite because I give them no reason to attack me.

 

[SweetBrat73]

I don't have a problem if someone sleeps around. The only reason I would consider a woman or a man a whore or slut is if they are sleeping with a married person or a person involved with someone else. Otherwise makes no difference to me. I don't really think that everyone who sleeps around has something missing in life either. They most likely aren't looking for anything but a good time. Let em have at it


Brat

 

[lilminx]

I think the double standard is ridiculous. To each his (or her) own.

Who the fuck is anyone to judge others for having more than one sexual partner?

There are times when I'm dating more than one person, which usually means that I'm sleeping with them. All parties involved are aware that we are not exclusive, and we use condoms when we have sex. No one is being deceptive about the situation. Based on what some people's reactions are, I'm a slut.

My own personal opinon is that there must be something missing from their lives if they have to be fucking all the time.
Or perhaps they are looking for love or a emotional attachment and think that in order to secure that they have to put out a lot.
Whores are whores, man.
sluts are sluts you know?
it sounds like a rather bleak life, dreary and predictable.

Coming from someone who thinks drugs are the be-all and end-all of everything, and who doesn't even have a sex life other than his own hands, these statements are ridiculous.

 

[VanB]

In my opinion the perception of someone's sleeping habits is largely influenced by their accompanying behaviour. It doesn't matter to me if a man or woman decides to sleep around but if in the process they hurt people or are indescrete then the bahaviour is unacceptable. Both sexes can therefore be equally guilty of being sluts.

If that made sense it's pure luck - I'm soooo hungover

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I'm soooo hungover

Greasy eggs and bacon, my sweet

 

[alltherage]

With dental damns and condoms I hope.

 

[cymbidia]

I like sex.

I like it raw and wild and involving floggers and restraints and blindfolds.

I like ass fucking and sucking dick and screaming begging pleading for release.

I like fucking outside and doing a little occasional discreet flashing.

I like smelling her arousal and wathcing him touching himself and licking them both.

I like sex with one at a time, or more.

I don't like sex with shy virginal types, though, or people who don't want to play the kinds of sexual games that i want to play. I don't give a flying fuck about someone else's labels. I don't lie to people about what i'm doing, or mislead them. I don't pretend to be anything other than who and what i am.

Surely y'all have enough to keep you busy in your own lives without worrying overmuch about who and how often and when and where and why someone else is fucking around?

 

[Calamity Jane]

In my opinion the perception of someone's sleeping habits is largely influenced by their accompanying behaviour. It doesn't matter to me if a man or woman decides to sleep around but if in the process they hurt people or are indescrete then the bahaviour is unacceptable. Both sexes can therefore be equally guilty of being sluts.

If that made sense it's pure luck - I'm soooo hungover

Congrats Van! It made sense!

I agree... it's not about how many people you sleep with, it's the way you treat those people. If you're upfront and honest about your intent, and no one is left thinking that there was more to the relationship than you were giving, then I don't care who you fuck.

I've been called a slut... I didn't exactly live a virginal life. But I was always honest about what I wanted from someone, and I'm still friends with most of my ex lovers, so I'm pretty sure I didn't break any hearts.

 

[MidnightAngel]

I don't have a problem if someone sleeps around. The only reason I would consider a woman or a man a whore or slut is if they are sleeping with a married person or a person involved with someone else. Otherwise makes no difference to me. I don't really think that everyone who sleeps around has something missing in life either. They most likely aren't looking for anything but a good time. Let em have at it

Brat

I'm officially a slut!

Cool!

 

[KillerMuffin]

*shrugs*

Sleep around all ya like. I don't see much difference between those who have sex and those that don't.

The addendum is that in most cultures sex is linked to things like promises and vows. We maked these promises to maintain monogamy. Our mates trust us to keep our promises. When we break the trust of the people we are supposed to love the most, how can we be trusted to maintain any sort of honesty and integrity in other aspects of our lives?

So, if you sleep around and you do so without breaking trust or hurting others then you're a fabulous human being.

If you sleep around and break trust or hurt others then you're not a trustworthy person.

The corollary of all of this is that if you're hooked up and you expect your partner to forsake all others, then you'd better damned well put out. That's atrocious behavior if you don't.

Anyway:

People who love sex are way cool.

 

[Fly_On_Wall]

I think if your not hurting yourself or others...

fuck do it, I won't view you differently no matter who you are.

 

[tn_8tiv]

Everyone has their own theory. Men sleep around, women sleep around.
Mysty

And I'm personally glad we do! What the fuck difference does it make if two people are mutually attracted to each other, have a strong desire to copulate (fuck to us illiterate folks), then go for it. Doesn't matter if it's a man or woman...or any combination thereof, we are personally responsible for our actions and if we accept that responsiblity then that's our right to decide.

Just one man's opinion.

Edited for spelling

 

[seXieleXie]

i don't have a problem with those who are sexually promiscuous. i probably would be one of "those people" if i had the opportunity

i do have a problem with those who are sexually irresponsible. i will never be one of those.

 

[Guest]

In the mirror!!

seriously, to each his own. Just be a good person.

And lilminx - taking any applications??

 

[Rubyfruit]

what fucking difference does any of it make?
My own personal opinon is that there must be something missing from their lives if they have to be fucking all the time.
Or perhaps they are looking for love or a emotional attachment and think that in order to secure that they have to put out a lot.
Whores are whores, man.
sluts are sluts you know?

it sounds like a rather bleak life, dreary and predictable.

sex, man, it's a killer.

This rant sounds so fucking familiar. I'll have to rack my brain and figure out where I've heard it before.

 

[Georgia Girl]

What others do is their business. Granted yes, if they are involved in something which directly is effecting my life I would see it differently but that would only be anger more than anything. I have no right to judge anyone.

Dawn

 

[sport]

I think people would like to be like that and when they can't they label others in way to hurt them.

 

[lilminx]

And lilminx - taking any applications??

Lol- hmmm.... well, there's always room for one more. Please PM me with a pic of your schlong and a resume.