... and looking for ideas or suggestions how to help my wife 
So those ladies and couples of lit who were traditional/conservative/shy good chunk of your life and who know enjoy more 'freedom'. Would love to hear how you did it and what finally made you change your mind.

So those ladies and couples of lit who were traditional/conservative/shy good chunk of your life and who know enjoy more 'freedom'. Would love to hear how you did it and what finally made you change your mind.