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James Blandings

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I mentioned in another thread that I had once been a fulltime houseboy, and several people PMed me to ask about it, so I thought I'd discuss it in a separate thread.
I was 25, and had recently ended a relationship with my first Domme, because she had developed a bad drug habit. (This was in 1982)
I was staying with friends, and put a personal ad in a gay magazine, I think it was Manscape. I got an answer from a man in my area who said that he and his partner were looking for playmates. I set up a meeting, and we hit it off well. After playing together a few times, they asked me if I wanted to be there fulltime servant, and I agreed.
The 2 men were Walter, who was the real Dom in the household, who had a small business of his own, downstairs from the flat where they lived, and Berry, who had a factory job.
My usual day consisted of getting up and fixing breakfast, preparing their baths, etc. before they went to work, then taking care of household chores all day. In the house I was only allowed to wear bikini underwear and when it was cold, a light robe.Walter would come upstairs for lunch, and about half the time I would give him a blowjob while he ate.
In the evening I would make dinner, and watch dishes and clean up while they watched TV. Walter loved to watch porno films and have me service his cock and balls for hours while he did so_Once or twice a week we would play. Walter was fond of CBT and using floggers, straps, leather paddles, etc. Berry didn't play much. He would usually watch, make suggestions, and then have me suck him off.
They slept together, I had a bed in the spare room. Two or three times a week, they would take me to bed with them and take turns fucking me.
Every couple weeks they would have a small party, and I would serve drinks and snacks and be sexually available to the guests. Berry's family had a summer house out in the country, and on several occasions, they had big parties there, attended by some het couple as well as gay men, and I would serve there as well. One highlight of the summer house was that it actually had a woodshed, and it was a great game for guests to come up with reasons to escort me there for a strapping.
On occasions when I displeased my masters, Walter would give me severe punishment spankings.
I lived with them for slightly over a year, at which time Berry decided he wanted to make their relationship more traditional, and we parted company on friendly terms.
I'd be happy to answer any questions anyone has about this aspect of the lifestyle.
 
I've never heard of someone getting a blowjob while they eat.
Did this guy request this often?
:confused:
 
Hell... toss in a TV and it sounds like a fantasy come true to me. Watching TV while eating dinner and getting a BJ... I'd never leave the house. :)

- PBW

disclaimer: I'm not making light of the situation or you. I think it's kinda cool. All opinions expressed are my own. :)
 
From your own description, it sounds like you were mostly used. Thanks for sharing the information with us.

Can you share some of what you got out of the relationship? Some of your feelings? Why you enjoyed or needed to be in the relationship?
 
EvilBrat74 said:
I've never heard of someone getting a blowjob while they eat.
Did this guy request this often?
:confused:

At least a couple times a week. He wanted blowjobs more than any man I ever saw. Between lunchtime and evenings, in the year I was there, I doubt if there were 30 days I didnt blow him.
 
chatbug said:
From your own description, it sounds like you were mostly used. Thanks for sharing the information with us.

Can you share some of what you got out of the relationship? Some of your feelings? Why you enjoyed or needed to be in the relationship?

The feeling of being used is not necessarily a bad one, to someone of a submissive frame of mind, it can be a desirable state.
None the less, I don't think I was "exploited" if that is what you mean. I enjoyed the lifestyle, was enormously turned on by my situation, and not the least, when I was poor and without resources, I was takem care of and given a home. I ought to add that when the time came to move on, they did not just cast me out, but helped me find a job and a new place to live.
 
James Blandings said:


At least a couple times a week. He wanted blowjobs more than any man I ever saw. Between lunchtime and evenings, in the year I was there, I doubt if there were 30 days I didnt blow him.

Even though i'm hetero, i'd say the guy had it made while you was there!
 
If you got paddled for fun and you got spankings when you were bad whats the difference? How is a punishment spanking different from one for fun?
 
Unregistered said:
If you got paddled for fun and you got spankings when you were bad whats the difference? How is a punishment spanking different from one for fun?

That's a good question.
When we played, it was an overtly sexual situation. Pain threasholds generally rise with arousal, so a spanking given during erotic play usually wont hurt as badly as one that comes in a different context. Also, in a play situation, there is most often a buildup of sensation, not a sudden application of pain.
When I was punished by Walter it was with a swift and hard spanking with a small wooden paddle, an implement i hated. But i think the main difference was psychological, not physical.
I have to admit though, that while i hated to get punishment spankings, afterwards they would be erotic in my memory. Still, I did not seek them out as some subs will. In the time I was there I probably got about 8 punishments. Not too bad for a young guy, I think.
 
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