hotwife/wife sharing first steps

[Nesh1972]

So I told my partner about my biggest fantasy which is to see her fucked by another guy and my fantasy has now become our fantasy

At the moment we are just enjoying talking/fantasizing about.

Wondering who does this and what were your first steps into this lifestyle?

Read a forum post once where a couple went to a club pretending they were not together and the husband watched the wife dancing and grinding herself on another guy while kissing him. It was a hot post but has now disappeared (wasn't on Lit).

Love to hear anyone's experience with getting into this.

Thanks

 

[FamilyFunMom]

Would you just watch or join in?

 

[ReadyOne]

Generally works best when she picks the guy.

First, she's choosing the type she wants. That could be very different than you, just because it's NOT the same she h as at home.

Second, she's considering the social repercussions. Will she ever cross paths again? Can they be friends, but outside your (or her) normal circle of friends? Can she pull it off with someone from work? If he talks, how far will the story spread?

Third, she's looking at the timing. Maybe someone is going on vacation. Maybe you two are going on vacation. Will this be a one-off, or short affair, or friends with benefits?

 

[ReadyOne]

Have her name famous (unobtainable) people she would like a (fantasy) weekend with. Ask what makes them hot to her.

Ask her to tell you when someone catches her eye while you are together shopping, etc., and what she likes about him or her.

Ask about people she might enjoy "but for" some good reason. (I'd do xxx but he works in the same building with me, or he's newly wed, etc.)

Inquire what she would like to try that you can't provide. Not to criticize you, just a physical difference from you.
If you're circumcised, would she like to try uncircumcised? Curved vs straight? If you're not tall and blonde, would she want to try tall and blonde? Hairy teddy bear?

 

[JuanVato]

Ooo

Sounds like a great storyline.

Or a new show on netflicks.

 

[Chase107]

I would love to do this. And join in

 

[KinkyJimbo]

My wife's first steps were to get on a dating site and start talking to guys. Very hot, and very easy by all accounts - those sites are full of guys wanting to play.

 

[Doctor Joe]

Sounds like a great idea for a new thread. Cant wait to see the responses.

 

[uncle easy]

Be sure before you do this that you can handle the outcome. What if he gets her so turned on that she does things she has refused doing with you and really gets off from it? This could happen. If it does can you handle it? Before you do it be sure. My wife and ichat about some of the things that we did, and at the time some were hard for me to accept. Male ego. But we had lots of fun and laugh about lots of it now. I am middle 70s and she is 4 years younger. We did al of the wild life in our mid 30s thru mid 40s. So,,, enjoy,, but be sure you can both handle it all.

 

[Nesh1972]

Thanks for the responses so far.

We are in a solid loving relationship and have a great sex life so its not about trying to improve it and we have total trust in one another, just looking to enhance what we already have.

 

[Justfantasies]

Be sure before you do this that you can handle the outcome. What if he gets her so turned on that she does things she has refused doing with you and really gets off from it? This could happen. If it does can you handle it? Before you do it be sure. My wife and ichat about some of the things that we did, and at the time some were hard for me to accept. Male ego. But we had lots of fun and laugh about lots of it now. I am middle 70s and she is 4 years younger. We did al of the wild life in our mid 30s thru mid 40s. So,,, enjoy,, but be sure you can both handle it all.

It is important to be able to check your jealousy at the door. Women want different things from different men, so there will be times when she might do stuff with him that she has never done with you.

If you can't sublimate your jealousy, this isn't for you

 

[Justfantasies]

My wife's first steps were to get on a dating site and start talking to guys. Very hot, and very easy by all accounts - those sites are full of guys wanting to play.

Even if it never goes beyond your wife chatting about fucking with another guy online, it can be pretty hot, especially if she tells you about it later.

 

[VeraBad]

You don't want to watch?

Wouldn't you rather go to maybe out of you neighborhood and have your wife flirt at a bar or whatever? You could watch her "in action" so to speak.

 

[Nesh1972]

Had a few people PM'ing me asking if I am a Cuck.

No not at all as in we are not into the humiliation,we have a great sex life and Sally is very satisfied, we are just looking to add an extra element into it.

 

[screwher]

Our first few steps into the wonderful world of hotwifing we're when my wife cheated on me. The first tim was years ago. Her tryst almost ruined us. But we managed to keep it together. Soon after I started to become aroused by the idea of her having sex with another man. Now a few years ago she confessed to a summer fling. This time I confessed my feelings and desires. We then decided together we both wanted her to continue having sex with other men.

We're now two lovers in. Three including having returned to the summer fling guy. And we're both thrilled with our arrangement.

 

[dz2681]

Had a few people PM'ing me asking if I am a Cuck.

No not at all as in we are not into the humiliation,we have a great sex life and Sally is very satisfied, we are just looking to add an extra element into it.

Has she done any flirting or teasing of other men around you? If so did you enjoy it, even if it became more physical ?

That’s how wife and I slowly progressed. Love watching her tease and show off, especially when she get a little touchy and let him get a feel as well.

 

[Justfantasies]

Has she done any flirting or teasing of other men around you? If so did you enjoy it, even if it became more physical ?

That’s how wife and I slowly progressed. Love watching her tease and show off, especially when she get a little touchy and let him get a feel as well.

Yes, a great way to start and test the waters. It is so innocent and a little touching doesn't mean much and implies nothing further.

Dancing is the next step . . .

 

[Nesh1972]

Has she done any flirting or teasing of other men around you? If so did you enjoy it, even if it became more physical ?

That’s how wife and I slowly progressed. Love watching her tease and show off, especially when she get a little touchy and let him get a feel as well.

No we haven't done anything like that but have talked about it.

 

[dz2681]

Yes, a great way to start and test the waters. It is so innocent and a little touching doesn't mean much and implies nothing further.

Dancing is the next step . . .

Yup that’s fun to watch as well, when the grinding and groping start, very sexy.

 

[dz2681]

No we haven't done anything like that but have talked about it.

Try it, great way to test your jealousy and see if you’d truly be alright taking things further.

 

[Dreamer110]

So many ways to start. Have her wear a little revealing blouse and see how she reacts. We used to play quite a bit of pool and she loved the attention.

 

[Justfantasies]

Yup that’s fun to watch as well, when the grinding and groping start, very sexy.

My wife encourages the grinding and groping and looks back at me as if to say, he really wants to fuck me

 

[Hwyking]

From first hand experience the whole concept of wife sharing, whether only fantasy or actually living out those fantasies is the most sexualĺy fulfilling and totally erotic experience I can think of. For reasons unknown to me the idea of having my second wife flirt with other guys and eventually much more was there right from the beginning. I think it came from reading Penthouse letters on the subject often enough that it became a huge turn on for me. Of course it took months and maybe years of bedoom talk to get her to go from fantasizing about other guys to actually pursuing opportunitit is to fulfill our desires. I should probably be writing my own stories in the Loving Wives section as we have had many real life experiences. Love to chat more later if anyone is interested. Cheers

 

[Jcam1980s]

I'm happy for pms telling me what you'd do to my wife. I think of her struggling to take a big cock and cumming on it as it shoots a huge unprotected load inside her

 

[Konflikt99]

So I told my partner about my biggest fantasy which is to see her fucked by another guy and my fantasy has now become our fantasy

At the moment we are just enjoying talking/fantasizing about.

Wondering who does this and what were your first steps into this lifestyle?

Read a forum post once where a couple went to a club pretending they were not together and the husband watched the wife dancing and grinding herself on another guy while kissing him. It was a hot post but has now disappeared (wasn't on Lit).

Love to hear anyone's experience with getting into this.

Thanks

Loving this thread.. how about maybe trying a game of truth or dare with some close friends? My wife and I did this with her best friend and her bf... this was just after we graduated high school, id always had to hots for her friend. We we sitting in front of her moms house after a night out drinking trying to figure out what to do.. the bf is the one that brought up TOD so I was all for it and was shocked that my gf was down being she’s kind of a prude. We started by the bf daring me to kiss his gf neck which I did. I kissed softly and she started moaning it was SUCH a turn on. Next he made out with my gf, I loved watching it. While they made out I put my hand on the lower back of my gf friend and caressed her, working my hand down until it was on top of her ass. She looked at me and gave me the sexiest smile ever. After that the bf said we should take the party to my car which was a caprice with huge front and back seats. I now wish we’d all gone to the back seat but they went in back and me and my girl went in front. Immediately they both started giving us head. I could hear the couple in back, she was going IN on that dick. My gf looked back, I’ll never forget this, and had a complete look of shock and excitement and just total arousal and said “we’ll damn Sarah”. Well right after that, her mom pulled inTo the driveway so we had to act like we’d just gotten home, I was SO disappointed. However, I was excited for the future and more nights like that. However a week later the couple picked up and moved out of state and we haven’t seen them since. I’m dying to visit them for another round and totally regret that night not working out differently.