Hoping to find woman who's up for one no strings Conversation

[jay49in25]

Usually we know where things are heading after three, maybe four messages right? It's either: this person is just not what I'm looking for or hmm, this could be interesting let's give it a minute and see how it goes. Many times the conversation ends abruptly for the women when the guy says or sends something that comes off as crass or too forward much too early. That won't happen with me.

Simply put one no strings conversation can easily determine if there's something worth pursuing.

We all know the reasons we come here, so what's yours? I've talked with women who just need conversation, a distraction from the real world. Some women enjoy the praise they receive when showing themselves off. Others will seek a genuine connection from someone that blossoms into a nice ongoing friendship. Then there are those who are looking to roleplay, share fantasies and experiences, or look for what I call a quick one and done. I know I'm leaving others out, but those are the most encountered. I do feel most women here have a purpose for being, many times more so than men.

Dear reader I can't speak for what it is you're after but I can tell you I've done all the above mentioned, and I can clue you in on what I lean toward. Simply put I'm as nice or naughty as you choose to be. I generally identify more with those who want to get to know each other a bit before moving into other realms. I also lean toward hoping to find someone who is open to long term conversation. I have much more free time during the work day than I do at home unless it's the weekend, but I don't abandon anyone after work. I am in the Eastern time zone. I've enjoyed talking to women from several locations around the world.

I will add there are some things that I know I'm not looking for and those are anything offline, & being a sub.

I'm almost 50, married guy, bigger body type, trimmed beard. If you say anything about me you'll say that I'm respectful. I'm really easy going and not into drama. I've rp'd, done voice, and enjoy getting pics, I don't mind taking a small assertive role if I'm asked to. The kind of woman I like is one who's intelligent, witty, just a fun person in general. I recently posted a description of women I like in the "what is you sexual kryptonite" thread but my most favorite feature is a pretty face. As far as age goes I'm pretty open I'd say 18 to mid to late 50's, with the caveat that outside of some "fun" conversations I not sure how much a younger woman would identify with me, but hey if you're 18-30 and up for a chat don't let that comment throw you off.

As the title suggests I think I'm worth a few minutes of your time to see how things go. If we don't mesh you've lost a couple messages, if you like me then it was worth a PM!

 

[jay49in25]

I'm a sucker for questionnaires I found this one earlier and maybe it will provide some insight into me.

1. Do you make wishes on your birthday candles before blowing them out? Would you care to share what your last birthday wish was? A: I stopped a few years back, and I can't remember
2. You discover a spider in your kitchen. What do you do A: step on it, or dispose of it in like manner.
3. What is your favorite comfort meal? A: Fried chicken, mashed potatoes & gravy.
4. What is something about which people have a misconception? A: That my outward demeanor may reflect my sexual behavior
5. Where do you feel the most at peace? A: In my bed, snuggling a warm blanket on a cool morning.
6. Finish this sentence. My favorite _____ is ______. A: Color /Blue
7. What are you looking forward to? A: Halloween
8. What was your last memorable encounter with something found in nature? A: A wasp sting...OUCH!
9. Hidden talents or hobbies? Something you are trying to master? A: Leatherwork
10. If you could make grilled cheese sandwiches with anyone alive or dead, who would it be? And what is your grilled cheese recipe? A: Elvis, I think it'd be a fun conversation. / Lots of butter and don't burn the bread.
11. Who are your heroes or heroines, real or fictional? A: No one person in particular but I admire those who struggle with depression and are overcoming. I have an acquaintance that struggles.
12. Are you optimistic about the future? A: These days more of a pessimist if I'm being honest
13. What is a smell that stops you in your tracks? A: Pumpkin Spice
14. If you could come back as any organism, what would you come back as? A: Some time of producer, I love giving.
15. What is something new you’ve done recently? A: I have a friend who is a higher up and a fast food place and he let me "work" a shift at the window just to get a feel for what it's like.
16. What's a small, seemingly insignificant thing that brings you immense joy or comfort? A: Sunny days
17. What's a goal or dream you've been hesitant to pursue? What's holding you back, and what's one small step you can take towards it? A: More education. Hmm I suppose I could do an audit class rather than commit to something big.
18. If you could write a letter of appreciation to someone who deeply impacted your life, who would it be and what would you say? A: To my parents for teaching how to give love
19. Describe a time when you experienced a deep connection or understanding with another person. What made that moment special? A: It was the summer I finally dated a co-worker who I had connected with on an intellectual level that was (and still is) my deepest. Timing had never lined up for a romantic fling until that summer. Part Two--the sex, definitely the sex.
20. If your life had a theme song, what would it be and why? A: Name by the Goo Goo Dolls. Oh hell, just listen to it how you can not help but identify with it.

Not sure if this makes any difference to anyone but I took the survey too see how it'd go.

 

[jay49in25]

I'm feeling lucky today, so a bump!