Harry sach
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- Apr 4, 2005
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Hello all,
I am currently experiencing a bit of an issue with my wife, and our sex life, or lack of it. It has never been particularly great anyway, even though we are approaching our 21st anniversary - there's a few factors which have contributed to that I think, but I digress. For some time now, she has literally been unable to let me penetrate her at all. She says that it hurts so much, she physically shuts me out, pushes against me because she can't take it. We wondered whether this might be a menopause problem perhaps? She is in her early 50's. I've Googled bits and bobs, and vaginal dryness was suggested. She doesn't have an issue with taking a finger, just my cock, and I've always tried to make sure that she was ready for it, but it has always ended the same way. We tried with lube today, and made a little bit of progress, but it still reached a point where she couldn't let me any further in.
She is wondering whether it might be worth trying toys, to try and stretch her out a little. I guess having no sex for a good while doesn't help with that much anyway, but does anybody think this would help? Has anyone else experienced these problems with their wife/partner. I hope someone can give us some advice or help - we're desperate!
Thanks in advance
I am currently experiencing a bit of an issue with my wife, and our sex life, or lack of it. It has never been particularly great anyway, even though we are approaching our 21st anniversary - there's a few factors which have contributed to that I think, but I digress. For some time now, she has literally been unable to let me penetrate her at all. She says that it hurts so much, she physically shuts me out, pushes against me because she can't take it. We wondered whether this might be a menopause problem perhaps? She is in her early 50's. I've Googled bits and bobs, and vaginal dryness was suggested. She doesn't have an issue with taking a finger, just my cock, and I've always tried to make sure that she was ready for it, but it has always ended the same way. We tried with lube today, and made a little bit of progress, but it still reached a point where she couldn't let me any further in.
She is wondering whether it might be worth trying toys, to try and stretch her out a little. I guess having no sex for a good while doesn't help with that much anyway, but does anybody think this would help? Has anyone else experienced these problems with their wife/partner. I hope someone can give us some advice or help - we're desperate!
Thanks in advance
