Wetshelly1724
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Feb 23, 2014
- Posts
- 139
As the title states...am I a hopeless optimist or a glutton for punishment...still trying to figure that out to this day. Maybe a little of both. After several, very painful failed relationships that started here in the wonderful world of Lit...I am throwing my hat in the ring one last time.
About me...46 year old MWF from the North East. I am submissive, but stepped away from the lifestyle for the past year and a half. (Now stepping away was not my choice...it was due to the abrupt and painful ending of an extremely significant relationship) I have been using that time for some much needed self reflection.
What I am searching for...a real Dom. Not a...sometimes I pretend to be a Dom, or I just like to tell people what to do. But someone that actually understands what that entails. You can tell me till you are blue in the face that you are an amazing Dom...but if your actions prove other wise, that's an issue. Would prefer someone between 40 to say...55 years old, tops. And the same time zone if possible. Anything more than a 1 hour time zone difference is a pain in the ass.
What will no doubt piss me off...
*if you expect me to call you Master, Sir or Daddy within the first few conversations...never gonna happen
*if you start the conversation out by calling me your nasty bitch, your dirty fucking whore, your fuck toy...you get the idea...just seriously dont
*if you identify as "poly" and currently have 23 subs and are actively searching for more to "stroke your precious ego"...dont waste your time or mine in messaging me.
*I am submissive...I am never...seriously never going to Domme you...dont ask...ever
*I am going off the assumption that if you message me, that you are male, and that you have a penis. I have no doubt that you love your penis, adore it even...it might quite possibly be the most amazing penis that was ever created on God's green earth. I am truly happy for you...but I dont really give two shits and dont want you sending me pics of it.
Bottom line is, please do not waste your time, or my time. I am too damn old to play games and have lost the ability to tolerate fakes, and wannabes, and abusers.
Basically just dont be a dick
Update***
A little bit of clarification based on a few of the messages I received...
*I am not a slave...I will never have "no limits"...I am sure I actually have more than most due to past experiences. I have allowed in the past for my voice to be "taken away" from me in several relationships...I can assure you, this will never be the case again under any circumstances. Plus I'm Italian...I need to talk...
*I have little "tendencies" but do not identify as a true little.
*I am 46...full disclosure I will be 47 on friday. But if I was gonna make that up...pretty sure 46 isnt the number I would pick
About me...46 year old MWF from the North East. I am submissive, but stepped away from the lifestyle for the past year and a half. (Now stepping away was not my choice...it was due to the abrupt and painful ending of an extremely significant relationship) I have been using that time for some much needed self reflection.
What I am searching for...a real Dom. Not a...sometimes I pretend to be a Dom, or I just like to tell people what to do. But someone that actually understands what that entails. You can tell me till you are blue in the face that you are an amazing Dom...but if your actions prove other wise, that's an issue. Would prefer someone between 40 to say...55 years old, tops. And the same time zone if possible. Anything more than a 1 hour time zone difference is a pain in the ass.
What will no doubt piss me off...
*if you expect me to call you Master, Sir or Daddy within the first few conversations...never gonna happen
*if you start the conversation out by calling me your nasty bitch, your dirty fucking whore, your fuck toy...you get the idea...just seriously dont
*if you identify as "poly" and currently have 23 subs and are actively searching for more to "stroke your precious ego"...dont waste your time or mine in messaging me.
*I am submissive...I am never...seriously never going to Domme you...dont ask...ever
*I am going off the assumption that if you message me, that you are male, and that you have a penis. I have no doubt that you love your penis, adore it even...it might quite possibly be the most amazing penis that was ever created on God's green earth. I am truly happy for you...but I dont really give two shits and dont want you sending me pics of it.
Bottom line is, please do not waste your time, or my time. I am too damn old to play games and have lost the ability to tolerate fakes, and wannabes, and abusers.
Basically just dont be a dick
Update***
A little bit of clarification based on a few of the messages I received...
*I am not a slave...I will never have "no limits"...I am sure I actually have more than most due to past experiences. I have allowed in the past for my voice to be "taken away" from me in several relationships...I can assure you, this will never be the case again under any circumstances. Plus I'm Italian...I need to talk...
*I have little "tendencies" but do not identify as a true little.
*I am 46...full disclosure I will be 47 on friday. But if I was gonna make that up...pretty sure 46 isnt the number I would pick
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seriously? That’s really fucked up! I’m not really a “dom” type, but I would think that making chicken shit, anonymous insults to some stranger online are pretty indicative of being far from confident and secure enough in oneself. Would it not take some degree of self confidence and security to hope to inspire others to want to submit? Sorry to hear you are having to sort through the looser bin in your quest for a positive relationship. Your needs seem reasonable enough to me? Best of luck!
