"Hookup options" for SE Bi-guy..???

[noidavailable4m]

I was wondering how a very bi-curious and sexually adventurous individual such as myself could connect with other like-minded individuals in my region. I'm married and "in the closet", so I must be discreet. Gay bars are not an option because of my small town locale and it seems all the pay-site personals require a credit card paper trail that I'd like to avoid. Surely other men have had success finding friends and intimate partners using this medium without using a credit card or going public.

Can anyone give an inexperienced fellow like me me some guidance..??? I'd love to meet someone who has similar desires and needs and explore a little on the wild side!!!

 

[Cazper]

too bad we aren't a little closer... I too am a married man who recently has been having a lot of bi fantisies... I've never experimented but I'm very curious.... hope someone comes along and helps both of us out

 

[love2]

Gay bars are not an option because of my small town locale and it seems all the pay-site personals require a credit card paper trail that I'd like to avoid.

I recently got to 69 a guy (first time on the giving end) and loved it. I had to travel 60 miles away to meet the fella. It was nice feeling that dick going in and out of my mouth. Want to try it again soon.

 

[John Doe]

...Can anyone give an inexperienced fellow like me me some guidance..???

1. Always use condoms

2. Always use condoms

3. Always use condoms

4. Tell your wife, she'll find out sooner or later

5. This should've been posted in the GLBT Personals

Good day.

 

[Samuelx]

Dont tell your wife or anyone else unless you want to get divorced and never see your kids again. As for the bi experimentation thing, surely there must be a city not far away from your small town. Check out a GLBT center. Or a gay bar. Make sure the city is far from your town. Dont tell anyone where you are going. Have a good excuse as to where you were.

I am bi and not married. I dont believe in straight marriage (lol). Plus I aint got money and these days 50 percent of all couples file for divorce.
Like Jae Kwon says : " young single man aint trying to get hitched." (lol)


I dont know, guys. I see being married to a woman as a big, overrated soul-killer. I need sex and married men say they dont get laid.
I need love and cant put up with anyone's bullshit for too long. I am 19 and love being single. Lots of cute boys and hot girls walking around and I am roaming !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


It sucks to be gay/bisexual AND Married.


Oh, by the way, you may want to download Historykill or Internet Eraser because a lot of women check their men's computers and email messages. Your wife/girlfriend may find out you are on Literotica and that her "straight" man is talking about doing it with guys.



DO what I told you.

download Historykill or Internet Eraser.


May divorce be with you (lol).

 

[Mikijl Dragon]

Ok from a married Bi person. Test the waters with the wife. See if it's something she fantisizes about and if she does then expand on it. It may be one of her biggest fantasies.

Yes always use a condom.

I am married and get sex at the drop of a hat. It all depends on how much attention you pay your wife. A lot of married people fall into the "oh hum there there and not going anywhere I will do something else" If you treat each day as though your trying to get her to fall in love with you and vice versa you will have a a relationship that will never grow old.

Lastly, Yes your best bet is to post this in the personal section.

 

[John Doe]

Dont tell your wife or anyone else unless you want to get divorced and never see your kids again...

She's going to find out anyway, so he might as well not decieve her. More often than not that's the bone of contention, not just the actual cheating, but the fact the guilty party lied about it (and yes, a lie of omission is still a lie).

 

[bi34married]

I too am married and extremly curious, however I have the full support of my wife. She not only encourages me to suck on a cock she also is very interested in watching. ihope some day things can fall in to place and I can experience a hard cock. Anyone in N.C. that would like to help?

 

[rjp44]

places to look for guys

A couple of free places you might try are www.craigslist.com then select your state (or a neighboring state) and see if there is a city nearby, then look under personals, men looking for men. The other is www.apollonetwork.com

Good luck!