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Ok I finally let my hubby do me up the ass ...Well to let you all know his dick is way to big!!!!!..Is there an easier way to do this...
Honey Leave my ass alone!!
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KillerMuffin
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Analeze
It has a mild topical anesthetic in it, so there isn't pain for you. The side benefit is that it kind of numbs the tip of his cock for a bit, so he doesn't climb on, grunt, and cum cause it feels so good. Once you get going and you feel good, then it doesn't matter that the anesthetic has worn off cause you feel good too. Other than that, make him make you relax first, very very very relaxed.
It has a mild topical anesthetic in it, so there isn't pain for you. The side benefit is that it kind of numbs the tip of his cock for a bit, so he doesn't climb on, grunt, and cum cause it feels so good. Once you get going and you feel good, then it doesn't matter that the anesthetic has worn off cause you feel good too. Other than that, make him make you relax first, very very very relaxed.
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I have no idea...
I shy away from that...I mean what is the attraction when Nirvana is scant centimeters away....and when done we can still engage in some tongue play without getting up...
Only thing I might suggest is....relax relax relax...and practice...and plenty of KY or astroglide
I shy away from that...I mean what is the attraction when Nirvana is scant centimeters away....and when done we can still engage in some tongue play without getting up...
Only thing I might suggest is....relax relax relax...and practice...and plenty of KY or astroglide
Nobody Special's wife
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MADDOG said:
I think we will try to use a vibrator next
..Thank for the offer tho..I will rember it
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I know the feeling Juli!
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I hope you don't mind my comments too...
We do...er...indulge in this and my partner finds it incredibly, mind-blowingly, orgasmic. I suppose it depends how you're wired up. My own concern is about the numbing lubricants and a number of "authorities" warn against them. I'll quote this bit from "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns" (sort of a handbook for this sort of thing!).
"Do not use a product that masks pain. Where there is pain, there is potential for damage and a need to modify technique."
"Prepare your penis for entry by bagging and lubing. Prepare your lady by using your fingers to grease and stretch her nether entrance. Anointing each other can be foreplay. Titillate her so she wants you inside her. If you can't make a finger or two feel good in her bottom, she isn't going to enjoy the greater onslaught of your penis."
"Even when your paramour is ready and begging for sexual release, continue to reign in your steed. Entry is a slow trip with frequent stops. A pause after entry of the head of the penis is vital. This allows the muscles to relax and adjust. In fact, if your lady says, no or stop at any point, freeze rather than withdrawing or proceeding. Count to ten before asking if she wants you to stop and abide by her wishes. If she wants to continue, do so slowly with frequent pauses until you are fully inside her. Move gently at first, allowing her reactions to guide you. Eventually, you will feel her sphincter relax. Now you can increase the pace gradually. Relube frequently as you are fucking; lubricants are quickly absorbed in the rectum."
If you don't have a "safe" word already, pick one and be sure of it. Also we find position is important. Her most comfortable position is on her side with her back to me. It gives her more control and is easy to stay in one position.
There are some new lubricants now, made in California I believe, that are silicone based rather than water based (which is the most recommended). The silicone does not absorb, does not dry up, and will not destroy condoms or toys like oil-based. It's also slicker than goose shit on a tile floor and has to be washed away with soap and water (that means watch out if you sit on the toilet or step into the shower or bath!)
I hope this helps a bit. For some people this a real exciting trip and for others? Well, different strokes for different folks!
Always enjoy!
We do...er...indulge in this and my partner finds it incredibly, mind-blowingly, orgasmic. I suppose it depends how you're wired up. My own concern is about the numbing lubricants and a number of "authorities" warn against them. I'll quote this bit from "Screw the Roses, Send me the Thorns" (sort of a handbook for this sort of thing!).
"Do not use a product that masks pain. Where there is pain, there is potential for damage and a need to modify technique."
"Prepare your penis for entry by bagging and lubing. Prepare your lady by using your fingers to grease and stretch her nether entrance. Anointing each other can be foreplay. Titillate her so she wants you inside her. If you can't make a finger or two feel good in her bottom, she isn't going to enjoy the greater onslaught of your penis."
"Even when your paramour is ready and begging for sexual release, continue to reign in your steed. Entry is a slow trip with frequent stops. A pause after entry of the head of the penis is vital. This allows the muscles to relax and adjust. In fact, if your lady says, no or stop at any point, freeze rather than withdrawing or proceeding. Count to ten before asking if she wants you to stop and abide by her wishes. If she wants to continue, do so slowly with frequent pauses until you are fully inside her. Move gently at first, allowing her reactions to guide you. Eventually, you will feel her sphincter relax. Now you can increase the pace gradually. Relube frequently as you are fucking; lubricants are quickly absorbed in the rectum."
If you don't have a "safe" word already, pick one and be sure of it. Also we find position is important. Her most comfortable position is on her side with her back to me. It gives her more control and is easy to stay in one position.
There are some new lubricants now, made in California I believe, that are silicone based rather than water based (which is the most recommended). The silicone does not absorb, does not dry up, and will not destroy condoms or toys like oil-based. It's also slicker than goose shit on a tile floor and has to be washed away with soap and water (that means watch out if you sit on the toilet or step into the shower or bath!)
I hope this helps a bit. For some people this a real exciting trip and for others? Well, different strokes for different folks!
Always enjoy!
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The guy I'm dating is a self-professed "ass-man" and has been hinting (not so subtly) that he wants to try it with me. He says it doesn't hurt if you know what you're doing, and he, of course, knows what he's doing.
Now, I'm generally eager to please, and I don't want to shun a new experience without giving it a fair chance, but I AM afraid it will hurt. I don't like pain.
Ohh well. He'll probably convince me to try it sometime soon. Maybe we can make some kind of deal - if it hurts, I can in turn inflict some pain on him. LOL now that sounds good...
Now, I'm generally eager to please, and I don't want to shun a new experience without giving it a fair chance, but I AM afraid it will hurt. I don't like pain.
Ohh well. He'll probably convince me to try it sometime soon. Maybe we can make some kind of deal - if it hurts, I can in turn inflict some pain on him. LOL now that sounds good...
teresafannin
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We have tried all kinds of lubes, it is just too painful for me. Luckily, my sweetie prefers grabbing my ass so it isn't a detriment to our sex life. There are so many other fun things we can do.
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Closet Desire said:
I love that book! In fact I use the title for my signature line.
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For Jaded Heart
So you DO like the thorns!
It's a good book and, I take it, you know what "flying" is?
Even if folks aren't into BDSM, anal sex, or any of the other million and one kinky things two (or more) people can get up to, there is one thing you can learn from the BDSM crowd. It's a turn on only because the lovers trust one another completely; the lovers respect one another's limits completely; and the lovers can let themselves go completely.
You don't have to be tied up to "fly"...but it helps!
Hah!
Just enjoy one another no matter what you do.
So you DO like the thorns!
It's a good book and, I take it, you know what "flying" is?
Even if folks aren't into BDSM, anal sex, or any of the other million and one kinky things two (or more) people can get up to, there is one thing you can learn from the BDSM crowd. It's a turn on only because the lovers trust one another completely; the lovers respect one another's limits completely; and the lovers can let themselves go completely.
You don't have to be tied up to "fly"...but it helps!
Hah!
Just enjoy one another no matter what you do.
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Analeze, or other lubricants that slightly numb an area, is not always a good choice for a beginner. Though you may not feel pain due to the numbness, there's a chance that you could tear and/or bleed since you don't know exactly what's going on back there. Pain is a reminder that you're human...it let's you know when you have to move slower in some areas.
NS's wife, the best advice is to go slowly. Stick with water based lubes, and/or even your own pussy juice. Start with one to two fingers, maybe a small anal vibe. Work your way up to the size of your husband. Also, try working with different positions. Doggy style is NOT ideal for beginners. There's a higher chance of you getting hurt that way. The best two that I've noticed so far (and the ones that help give the woman control) are spoons, and the woman on her back with the man kneeling in front of her.
Anal sex can be VERY enjoyable if done right. Just because you have one or two bad experiences doesn't mean you have to give up entirely. I hadn't had it "successfully" until I was 21, pregnant, very horny, and in control! lol Before that time, two other men attempted to fuck me in the ass. It didn't last long due to pain and me making them stop.
Good luck hon!
~Dr Tiggs~
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NS's wife, the best advice is to go slowly. Stick with water based lubes, and/or even your own pussy juice. Start with one to two fingers, maybe a small anal vibe. Work your way up to the size of your husband. Also, try working with different positions. Doggy style is NOT ideal for beginners. There's a higher chance of you getting hurt that way. The best two that I've noticed so far (and the ones that help give the woman control) are spoons, and the woman on her back with the man kneeling in front of her.
Anal sex can be VERY enjoyable if done right. Just because you have one or two bad experiences doesn't mean you have to give up entirely. I hadn't had it "successfully" until I was 21, pregnant, very horny, and in control! lol Before that time, two other men attempted to fuck me in the ass. It didn't last long due to pain and me making them stop.
Good luck hon!
~Dr Tiggs~
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lots of good input! i don't have any more, but you DID title your thread "honey, leave my ass alone!" so if it doesn't work out from all that help, i think nobody special would respect that,... it's all about trust, and definitely take it slow,... there's no rush,... anyhow, i thought i'd just say it is definitely something that takes time and love, there is no simple answer for getting used to it,... good luck, and good lovin'!
anyhow, i thought i'd just say it is definitely something that takes time and love, there is no simple answer for getting used to it,... good luck, and good lovin'!
Nobody Special's wife
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Thank to all for the input I can say we have succeded at getting two fingures up my ass !! but who knows what will happen but I will have fun anyway... http://www.geocities.com/filthycartoons/page2/busybathroom.htmlHope you all can enjoy sex as much as me!!
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*sceeeeech* a naked rosebud comes to a halt. I used to do anal with havoc...i wish i could still...we tried to soon after one of our kids and it hurt...gotta get it out of my mind...can't wait until i can do it again for him...just work up to it and take it slow...Byeye...streaking off again....oh wizzie
