Cardinal
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Oh please only honest feed back.
My with and I have been married for 33+ years, together for 40. Sexually things are slow or nonexistent, unfortunately. We do sometimes joke about her having a boyfriend but nothing beyond that. Also, I love her more than anything and would do anything to make her happy.
So my question is, if we go down this road and she sleeps with another man what are we in for? Both of us.
I would NEVER leave her, that’s not an option, and I don’t think she would ever leave me but this is a big step in a marriage and a huge experience together.
I think she would like the thrill of dating and being treated like a lady by another man, it wouldn’t be a “slutwife” scenario at all, she would want gentle, loving, care with a man, and then I assume back to me.
What should we expect as a couple? As a husband, I think I can handle it because I love her and I’m t makes me happy when she’s happy. Women have you experienced this and what are your emotions? Still strong for your husband? Is your marriage still the number one most important thing in your life?
Thank you
My with and I have been married for 33+ years, together for 40. Sexually things are slow or nonexistent, unfortunately. We do sometimes joke about her having a boyfriend but nothing beyond that. Also, I love her more than anything and would do anything to make her happy.
So my question is, if we go down this road and she sleeps with another man what are we in for? Both of us.
I would NEVER leave her, that’s not an option, and I don’t think she would ever leave me but this is a big step in a marriage and a huge experience together.
I think she would like the thrill of dating and being treated like a lady by another man, it wouldn’t be a “slutwife” scenario at all, she would want gentle, loving, care with a man, and then I assume back to me.
What should we expect as a couple? As a husband, I think I can handle it because I love her and I’m t makes me happy when she’s happy. Women have you experienced this and what are your emotions? Still strong for your husband? Is your marriage still the number one most important thing in your life?
Thank you