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BreanneSandra

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Ever have a question that you wanted to ask but felt to shy you'd be judged? Well, here is a safe space! Ask anything (within reason) and receive a 100% honest reply back.
 
Okay. Gotcha.

What is the Ultimate Answer to Life the Universe and Everything?
 
How much wood, no forget that one.
If I was sitting next to you in a hotel bar, and we were getting along real well, and I had already bought you three of your favorite beverages, and the barkeep announces last call, and I ask if you’d like another . . . what are the chances of you saying “Sure” and then agreeing to my suggestion that we take them upstairs to my room and finish drinking them there? Just a shy guy wondering aloud in what you promise is a safe place.
 
If I was shopping for groceries at my local Costco store and saw you there and was just flummoxed by your beautiful shoulder length hair that was slightly graying, along with a toned and tan body and I went up to to compliment your hair would you be offended? What would you say?
 
(Maybe this doesn't fit here.) I adore my significant other and our love making is wonderful, however, she isn't adventurous in bed. I would love to introduce her to rimming, but she has zero interest because she thinks it is icky. Have you ever successfully introduced a sex act that your partner was not into? For the record, I'm not seeking her to reciprocate.
 
I mean, if things are going well, possibly. If you got me my favorite drinks, I don't see why not
Ow, wow, that’s fantastic! Your favorite drinks, you bet, order as many as you like. You’ve made my day! I’m already conjuring up ways to get you to change that “possibly” to “definitely.” I feel my shyness lifting from my shoulders like a woman’s blouse flying up and away at the front gate of a nudist camp. Thank you!
 
If I was shopping for groceries at my local Costco store and saw you there and was just flummoxed by your beautiful shoulder length hair that was slightly graying, along with a toned and tan body and I went up to to compliment your hair would you be offended? What would you say?
@BreanneSandra Will I get a response within 3 business days? Otherwise I will take advice from the world.
 
(Maybe this doesn't fit here.) I adore my significant other and our love making is wonderful, however, she isn't adventurous in bed. I would love to introduce her to rimming, but she has zero interest because she thinks it is icky. Have you ever successfully introduced a sex act that your partner was not into? For the record, I'm not seeking her to reciprocate.
As you wait on BreanneSandra... I'll tell you how I convinced my wife.

First, you'll need to assure your wife that it is a NORMAL thing for men to desire. My wife asked, "Why would you want to do THAT to me!? ..It's a dirty part of my body!" This question is asked by women on countless sex-advice websites who need assurances their partner isn't a weirdo. And the answer from the sex-educator is nearly always the same, "Yes, it's a perfectly normal thing that some people enjoy doing..."

When my wife asked, I said, "Because it's literally THE most intimate thing I can imagine doing to you - that's how much I love you and how obsessed I am with your body! And I truly do NOT expect you to reciprocate. And yes...it CAN be icky. But it doesn't have to be. ..Your anus is just skin...and like any other skin on your body it can be washed. ..So use the handheld sprayer in the shower to wash it off with soap then come to bed!"

If it helps, promise her you won't attempt to kiss her on the mouth the rest of the session nor will you kiss her pussy afterwards to avoid any UTI issues. ..At least until you get to rinse your mouth w/ some listerine, etc..

That's pretty much how it went for us. ...Does she LOVE how it feels does she cum from it? No, but she likes it all the same. But more importantly it's a turn-on for her that I LOVE doing it - it makes her feel like she's being worshipped. So it's become a regular thing for us. And after the first dozen times or so, rather than showering she just uses an anti-bacterial wipe on the area after her pre-sex pee. And more recently she's become quite comfortable with kissing me on the mouth after I've done it. I guess she realizes that if I've never gotten sick from doing it then she won't get sick from kissing me afterwards.

Sorry for answering Breanne :) I'm curious to read your reply.
 
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As you wait on BreanneSandra... I'll tell you how I convinced my wife.

First, you'll need to assure your wife that it is a NORMAL thing for men to desire. My wife asked, "Why would you want to do THAT to me!? ..It's a dirty part of my body!" This question is asked by women on countless sex-advice websites who need assurances their partner isn't a weirdo. And the answer from the sex-educator is nearly always the same, "Yes, it's a perfectly normal thing that some people enjoy doing..."

When my wife asked, I said, "Because it's literally THE most intimate thing I can imagine doing to you - that's how much I love you and how obsessed I am with your body! And I truly do NOT expect you to reciprocate. And yes...it CAN be icky. But it doesn't have to be. ..Your anus is just skin...and like any other skin on your body it can be washed. ..So use the handheld sprayer in the shower to wash it off with soap then come to bed!"

If it helps, promise her you won't attempt to kiss her on the mouth the rest of the session nor will you kiss her pussy afterwards to avoid any UTI issues.

That's pretty much how it went for us. ...Does she LOVE how it feels? No, but she likes it. But more importantly it's a turn-on for her that I LOVE doing it - it makes her feel like she's being worshipped. So it's become a regular thing for us. And after the first dozen times or so, rather than showering she just uses an anti-bacterial wipe on the area after her pre-sex pee. And more recently she's become quite comfortable with kissing me on the mouth after I've done it.

Sorry for answering Breanne :) I'm curious to read your reply.
Many thanks! It is very intimate, and I appreciate your sharing your experience.
 
Do you like it when a man wants to lick your pussy, or is that un-manly?

Also, hw do you feel about a man being Bi sexual? Is it a turn off or ...?
 
un-manly to lick her pussy? ..Why the hell would ANYONE consider that un-manly? I recall that one Soprano's episode when Tony's uncle Corrado (aka "Junior") threatened his girlfriend to NOT tell anyone about his oral skills b/c it wasn't a "manly" thing to do.

Never did like that episode. ..That story line struck me as utterly ridiculous :LOL:
 
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Let's get back to vexing questions for @BreanneSandra.

What started as a little joke that came about sort of by chance, a neighbor woman started to call me her boyfriend and so I played along and started to call her my girlfriend, all in good fun. She's single and a widower and also was divorced. She's flirty with other guys too, not just me. I'm really attracted to her suddenly, but I'm not sure if it's my imagination running wild or I'm just stupid. Honestly, what should I do?
 
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