home made

[dj211]

any have any good ideas for home made sex toys for guys?

 

[infinity706]

So, why bother? You can buy a vibrator for $2 plus shipping. Almost anyone could afford that.

 

[dj211]

$2? is there a discount store for sex toys i dont know about?

 

[SweetErika]

- eBay's Mature Audiences section, under Everything Else - Look for the total price and sellers who will combine shipping, if you want multiple items.

- Amazon.com has some decent prices on some things.

- Find some vibes that look good, and google the names, then look for the best price with shipping (some places have good prices on the page, but outrageous shipping charges). As a beginner, you might consider getting a g-spot or prostate vibe w/ a curve for prostate stimulation. Be careful about materials, though; most of the cheaper and chemically toys (jelly, cyberskin-like stuff, rubber, soft plastics) require a condom for insertion because they can't be cleaned properly and can emit chemicals that can irritate those delicate tissues.

- Heck, you can even get a very nice glass/Pyrex dildo/probe for under $30 these days; glass is great because it lasts forever, CAN be sanitized (which means it can also be shared and used vaginally, if you sanitize it between partners and holes), heated or cooled, is super smooth, and is compatible with all lubes.

I'm not endorsing these sites, but here are examples of inexpensive glass toys: http://www.glassfantasy.com/ and http://www.glasstoybox.com/

- If you want some really incredible orgasms and anal play, save up about $50 for a Hitachi Magic Wand with the two, blue, vinyl attachments. I've met several guys who were skeptical, but became true believers at first cum. This toy is a true multitasker for men AND women, and should give you at least a decade of amazing orgasms.


For homemade stuff, try the How To story section on the main site, The Household Toys and Lubes thread in The Blank Manual sticky at the top of the main How To forum page, and http://www.jackinworld.com . You can easily experiment with ice, clothespins (if you like a bit of pain), different lubes, body massagers...

 

[emap]

I'm confused.

Dj said for guys and suddently we are talking dildo's. Now if say dj is a gay bottom then yes dildo's are good. Otherwise we're talking about I assume homemade vagina type objects.

Do a google search, there are kits you can get where you can make either a cast of your penis or vagina, I remember they give an example of either, two different kits, the penis or vagina. Said casts are then used to make a mold for a toy, using the flexible rubber stuff.

I remember seeing them on Adam and Eve, they weren't exactly cheap, I think it was $45 for each but it included enough stuff to make one toy, replacement rubber stuff can be bought seperate along with the casting materials, the actual mold can be used again anyway, for those who wear out the toy I suppose. There were also dyes you could get to add to the rubber stuff to give it color, the base set was pink.

Now not exactly cheap, but still I think $15 cheaper than those fleshlights, this is of course before shipping. Now if your thinking cheaper than that, well there are vagina pillows you can get, they are working, though I don't remember how expensive they were, may be more. Not to say you couldn't make your own, simply a matter of getting the stuffing and the outer cloth with a recess big enough for you and sewing it all together.

 

[infinity706]

I'm confused.

Dj said for guys and suddently we are talking dildo's. Now if say dj is a gay bottom then yes dildo's are good. Otherwise we're talking about I assume homemade vagina type objects.

Do a google search, there are kits you can get where you can make either a cast of your penis or vagina, I remember they give an example of either, two different kits, the penis or vagina. Said casts are then used to make a mold for a toy, using the flexible rubber stuff.

I remember seeing them on Adam and Eve, they weren't exactly cheap, I think it was $45 for each but it included enough stuff to make one toy, replacement rubber stuff can be bought seperate along with the casting materials, the actual mold can be used again anyway, for those who wear out the toy I suppose. There were also dyes you could get to add to the rubber stuff to give it color, the base set was pink.

Now not exactly cheap, but still I think $15 cheaper than those fleshlights, this is of course before shipping. Now if your thinking cheaper than that, well there are vagina pillows you can get, they are working, though I don't remember how expensive they were, may be more. Not to say you couldn't make your own, simply a matter of getting the stuffing and the outer cloth with a recess big enough for you and sewing it all together.

Only the cock is actually useful. The cunt replicating kit is just for decoration since there's no safe way to replicate the inside of a woman's pussy. Even the pro pornstar replicas are only molds of the pornstar's outer cunt.

 

[SweetErika]

I'm confused.

Dj said for guys and suddently we are talking dildo's. Now if say dj is a gay bottom then yes dildo's are good. Otherwise we're talking about I assume homemade vagina type objects.

Yes, clearly you are very confused.

Anal play does NOT make a guy gay or submissive. Even using something that looks like a cock doesn't make a guy a "gay bottom," just like using a dildo doesn't make a lesbian straight. Sexuality is who we are, not what we do.

I'm shocked that in all of your time here, you've failed to learn there is no correlation between anal play and sexuality and are still so ignorant.

 

[emap]

Ummm I happen to know the difference quite well. I also happen to know most straight guys do not want a dildo, they get off on putting their cock into something, not putting a dildo in their butt. That would be why those fleshlights are selling so well. Perhaps Erica you should get off your high horse and look around and see what is going on instead of just replying to the last person who said anything.

Thanks Infinity I didn't think that was neccessary since the kits claim to be fully functional when finished. Not that I've ever ordered one, seemed kinda silly to me though cheaper than anything else I remember seeing in guy sex toys.

 

[SweetErika]

Ummm I happen to know the difference quite well. I also happen to know most straight guys do not want a dildo, they get off on putting their cock into something, not putting a dildo in their butt. That would be why those fleshlights are selling so well. Perhaps Erica you should get off your high horse and look around and see what is going on instead of just replying to the last person who said anything.

Oh, so all of the threads on prostate stimulation, male anal play and straight guys looking for insertable toys are just flukes? All of the straight guys who enjoy playing with anal toys and being fucked by women are actually "gay bottoms" as you put it?

I'm not contesting the popularity of cock stimulators. I am saying that your assertions that men who like anal play are "gay bottoms" and that "most straight guys don't want dildos" are bullshit. I'm also contesting your statement that when a guy asks for sex toy possibilities, he's looking for something to stick his cock into, because there are certainly plenty of men who are open to ALL types of toys that are likely to feel good. And even more men would be open to anal pleasure if they didn't fear it would call their sexuality into question.

Hell, we don't even know what the OP's orientation is, or how open minded he is, so there's no way we can say what kind of toys he might like. All we can do is present him with different options and hope he enjoys himself in a safe way. I believe that's what Infinity and I were doing in mentioning vibes (which are great for genital stim, BTW) and insertables.

This is not me on a high horse or nitpicking, Emap, it's simply me disputing your false statements -- statements that perpetuate ignorance and homophobia, and I find offensive, BTW. I hope you'd agree that there's already enough misinformation and judgment when it comes to sexuality, and want to be part of the solution by giving accurate information and being nonjudgmental, rather than part of the problem.

 

[dj211]

thanks for the help girls and guys but i am looking for something to stick it into no anal play. atleast for now maybe in the future when i get a gf ahhaha

 

[ScarlettLover]

may sound crazy but try some bubble wrap and some lube...i know military guys who swear by it on deployment

 

[fenghuang]

Try to find a plastic bottle with an opening wide enough to get your dick in. It also needs to be reasonablly flexible.
Half fill it with warm / hot water and squeaze it so that the the water comes to the top. Insert dick and fuck.
If you can find something the right size, you should get quite a good suck.

Alternatively you can try something similar with a baloon.

On the gay / anal question, it does seem to be a disproportionatly regual first suggestion for male stimulation around here. Agreed, anal can be great, and it doesn't mean gay. But not everyone (male or female) likes it. Not everyone is comfortable enough to contemplate anal and there are miriad other ways for men to enjoy / explore their sexuality without going anywhere near their assholes.

An I can't help thinking "ignorant" is quite an agressive word.

Not flaming anyone, just adding an opinion!!!

 

[infinity706]

Ummm I happen to know the difference quite well. I also happen to know most straight guys do not want a dildo, they get off on putting their cock into something, not putting a dildo in their butt. That would be why those fleshlights are selling so well. Perhaps Erica you should get off your high horse and look around and see what is going on instead of just replying to the last person who said anything.

Thanks Infinity I didn't think that was neccessary since the kits claim to be fully functional when finished. Not that I've ever ordered one, seemed kinda silly to me though cheaper than anything else I remember seeing in guy sex toys.

Oh, they're anything but silly. I'm sure a lot of women and men have long distance relationships with a guy. That way, you can practice with his cock while he's not with you. Plus, it eliminates the issue of any guy being jealous of said dildo since it's identically sized to his real cock. From what I know about you, it even seems like something you might be personally interested in and I'm sure you could probably get a guy willing to help you make one of those toys. They also come in two colors, vibrating, and glow in the dark.

 

[emap]

Really non-judgemental? Are you really that stupid?

Look back at your post, you skip everything except how to get a vibrator and dildo's. Because I would assume dj's amazement that you can find $2 vibrators, he in no way at all ever said I want a vibrator and a dildo, he said I want sex toys for men. because he is amazed you can get a $2 vibrator suddenly he is looking for toys to help him do anal play. Did you even read the entire thread?

Instead of giving him a full rundown of the possibility, you blithely tell him all about how to find what you like I guess. Perhaps, if certain people would have something called reading comprehension and bother to read an entire thread, they would not come off sounding like a dimwit and bypassing the most obvious male sex toys.

Perhaps you had best research, the best selling male sex toy is a fleshlight, probably. The ads I see always claim it is at least. But oh no, the queen of all things sexual doesn't know or care about that, she can only guide a person to buying a company made dildo and vibrator. Yes men do enjoy having anal done to them, according to every survey done on the subject, roughly 25% have ever engaged in it at any time. If you perhaps could get your head out of your own hiney long enough to look at something you would notice I mentioned the possiblity of making a dildo. Dj said he wanted a way to MAKE a sex toy, not buy one, make one. I listed all of the ones I know about, probably missed one or two.

Just to make sure you can actually understand something, i make mention of gay bottom because all you could talk about was dildo's and vibrators, which are great if by chance dj is female, or a gay bottom, otherwise it would be a really nice thing to at least talk about something besides a vibrator and a dildo. Anyway congratulations, you qualify as one of the most pointless and stupid people in the forums now, you passed pointless, I am amazed I didn't think it would be possible. Pointless is just that, you are stupid, inane denigrating and repeat things you bash me about saying. Deny it all you want I've seen it in action.

Silly for me to buy infinity you silly. I've never done a long distance relationship, at this point pretty sure I never will either.

 

[infinity706]

Silly for me to buy infinity you silly. I've never done a long distance relationship, at this point pretty sure I never will either.

I'm pretty sure you've mentioned multiple times, though, that you don't get fucked as much as you'd like. It would still be nice to have a toy that resembles your favorite(s).

 

[wahoo33]

I second bubble wrap!

If you are mechanically inclined here is a hint:

Old windshield wiper motor + the arms that move the wipers + a straight sided container large enough to accomodate some rolled up bubble wrap and "you" + a little velcro + a power supply + a good steamy Lit story and WHAMO!

You can build the whole thing for less than $100. Most of the expense is for the power supply.

Works great. In fact it's a little too intense sometimes.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I have heard that bubble-wrap, lube and two sofa cushions pressed together can = fun. Failing that, there's always warm apple pie.

 

[emap]

I'm pretty sure you've mentioned multiple times, though, that you don't get fucked as much as you'd like. It would still be nice to have a toy that resembles your favorite(s).

I use a bullet vibe for those times when he isn't here. You gotta pay attention, not that I say that very often but I have at one point or another I think.

What I don't get is enough with him on me, or behind me or under me or in front of me. But he isn't retired and we do gotta make money so I make do, with alot of porn and a bullet vibe.

 

[dj211]

i think i might get a fleshlight they are not to expensive and look like they would work well, does anyone have any experience with them and how they are to the real deal and what style is the best? i am a virgin so this would be my first 'close' encounter, i am also surprised they have a Stamina Training Unit lol

 

[emap]

Well Fleshlights seem to be really good for the guys, we don't own one so no clue how they feel.

Now if you really want to see them in action, the website has a video, that I don't think really shows much besides talking about how to clean and assemble. I started watching it once and didn't watch it all the way, though I have found a number of videos on using them posted to Xtube Now they are all posted in the gay section so just warning you, though the few I've checked out were side views of a guy doing one or stroking with one, mostly doing I think.

Course I really like this one Though I admit it's mostly cause I got a really funny look out of my guy when I showed it to him, it is a view of a fleshlight in action, from inside the fleshlight.

 

[johnnynice02]

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