His hand on the back of your head.

[saintcero]

The event is burned into my memory. He placed his hand on the back of my head and firmly pressed his erection all the way into my throat. My nose was pressed into his shaved groin. My eyes began to water and I started to choke. I would have pulled off but his hand would not let me. Then his orgasm hit him and and he began to pump his cum down my throat. I held on until he finally relaxed enough for me to pull off, gasping for air. I loved the submissiveness and sluttiness of it. I love how he had used his hand to face fuck me. I knelt there in front of him gasping for air and with tears rolling down my face. He was my first true Top and I absolutely loved it.

Has anyone else enjoyed a hand or hands on the back of their head?

 

[Bi4Older84]

I don't care for a *forced* face fuck or deepthroat, but it does feel deliciously slutty to feel that on the back or sides of your head

 

[CharlieBoker]

I like hands on my head while I suck cock, but only really whilst he’s uttering gentle words of encouragement, not being forceful.

 

[saintcero]

I like hands on my head while I suck cock, but only really whilst he’s uttering gentle words of encouragement, not being forceful.

Completely understand. The term forceful can be pretty subjective. For me it doesn’t have to be rough. It can be just the Top letting his desires being known and put into play. I was “force” to inhale his cock past my comfort level but not to the point of too much discomfort. Maybe I need a word that means willingly forced.

 

[luvslingerie200]

I don't care for a *forced* face fuck or deepthroat, but it does feel deliciously slutty to feel that on the back or sides of your head

I prefer to control the tempo and don't like getting face fucked. I do like having my hair caressed and being verbally encouraged as a try to gain my reward.

 

[perturbedmusic]

I prefer to control the tempo and don't loke getting face fucked. I do like having my hair caressed and being verbally encouraged as a try to gain my reward.

Love this! I think a sensual, loving blowjob is just so hot!

 

[nostuff]

I've had one lover pull my head closer while I sucked him. Firm, not rough. I was absolutely thrilled as he pushed deeper into my throat, knowing how much he wanted me.

A moment later, he gave me his cum.

 

[BiDrew42]

I love getting face fucked. There's something so primal and edgy about it. I love laying on my back while my partners sit on my chest and force his or her cock down my throat.

 

[HotLoadLover]

I fuckin' LOVE hands on my head while sucking cock!

Take Charge of your Discharge, Sir !!

 

[tristantrotsky]

Completely understand. The term forceful can be pretty subjective. For me it doesn’t have to be rough. It can be just the Top letting his desires being known and put into play. I was “force” to inhale his cock past my comfort level but not to the point of too much discomfort. Maybe I need a word that means willingly forced.

It's wonderful to have agreed and accepted limits, and then his lustful needs drive him to exceed those limits...

 

[nassauguy_2001]

I had a top a few years back who would pull me in deeper by my earlobes! It would start innocent, like a scalp massage moving onto my ears, then he would grab my ears and slowly hold me closer and closer to his crotch. I told him one night, just ask me and I will go deeper!!!

 

[KinkStevens]

The event is burned into my memory. He placed his hand on the back of my head and firmly pressed his erection all the way into my throat. My nose was pressed into his shaved groin. My eyes began to water and I started to choke. I would have pulled off but his hand would not let me. Then his orgasm hit him and and he began to pump his cum down my throat. I held on until he finally relaxed enough for me to pull off, gasping for air. I loved the submissiveness and sluttiness of it. I love how he had used his hand to face fuck me. I knelt there in front of him gasping for air and with tears rolling down my face. He was my first true Top and I absolutely loved it.

Has anyone else enjoyed a hand or hands on the back of their head?

Oooh, I love the idea of the goo going straight to the tummy

 

[tristantrotsky]

I had a top a few years back who would pull me in deeper by my earlobes! It would start innocent, like a scalp massage moving onto my ears, then he would grab my ears and slowly hold me closer and closer to his crotch. I told him one night, just ask me and I will go deeper!!!

Some cocksuckers wear their hair in bunches so that they can be grabbed conveniently while sucking cock, and drawn in deeper in that way. Some find that more useful than being manipulated and pulled by the earlobes...

 

[Kellieskirt3]

Hand on the back of my head more as coaching matching my rhythm then omg such a turn on but pushing down a little is ok just not into the getting the cock forced down my throat if I can I will do it myself lol

 

[saintcero]

Oooh, I love the idea of the goo going straight to the tummy

But I missed the taste and the swallow that comes with a climax in your mouth. You really need to have 3 cocks lined up so you can get a facial, a deep throat climax, and some cum shot over your tongue

 

[Phatfeet]

The event is burned into my memory. He placed his hand on the back of my head and firmly pressed his erection all the way into my throat. My nose was pressed into his shaved groin. My eyes began to water and I started to choke. I would have pulled off but his hand would not let me. Then his orgasm hit him and and he began to pump his cum down my throat. I held on until he finally relaxed enough for me to pull off, gasping for air. I loved the submissiveness and sluttiness of it. I love how he had used his hand to face fuck me. I knelt there in front of him gasping for air and with tears rolling down my face. He was my first true Top and I absolutely loved it.

Has anyone else enjoyed a hand or hands on the back of their head?

For me it depends.

In some context it is infuriating if I am doing my level best to go as deep as I can and he feels it is not good enough and pulls my head deeper onto him. I happen to know a trick that makes it feel as if I am going all the way to his base with my lips, so to tell me aggressively that I don’t know how to give a sensuous blowjob can be angering.

But I also realize it is easy to stay in my comfort zone. When done right it is a good reminder to maybe go deeper than I really want, and that gagging and tears can make the blowjob a bit better for him by proving he is a bit longer than what I can easily accomidate.

But I harbor no ill against the man if in the throes of total passion he cannot resist the overwhelming feeling and pull my head down deeper. At that point it is just instinctual and I love that I have gotten him to that moment of euphoria.

 

[tristantrotsky]

For me it depends.

In some context it is infuriating if I am doing my level best to go as deep as I can and he feels it is not good enough and pulls my head deeper onto him. I happen to know a trick that makes it feel as if I am going all the way to his base with my lips, so to tell me aggressively that I don’t know how to give a sensuous blowjob can be angering.

But I also realize it is easy to stay in my comfort zone. When done right it is a good reminder to maybe go deeper than I really want, and that gagging and tears can make the blowjob a bit better for him by proving he is a bit longer than what I can easily accomidate.

But I harbor no ill against the man if in the throes of total passion he cannot resist the overwhelming feeling and pull my head down deeper. At that point it is just instinctual and I love that I have gotten him to that moment of euphoria.

Sometimes it's nice to know that the way you're sucking his cock has got him so worked up that he instinctively can't help holding your head in tight and fucking your mouth as he races towards that delicious climax, it just feels right when he loses all sense of control and it just becomes a primal lust thing...

 

[Uncut1969]

I think it would be sexy he is worked up and needs to take it deep ! Your making him feel so good and wants ever inch in your mouth

 

[nostuff]

But I missed the taste and the swallow that comes with a climax in your mouth. You really red to have 3 cocks lined up so you can get a facial, a deep throat climax, and some cum shot over your tongue

Oooh, I like this. Three cocks is three times better than one!

 

[nostuff]

... that gagging and tears can make the blowjob a bit better for him by proving he is a bit longer than what I can easily accomidate.

I don't really understand why, but I love it when my man makes me gag. Not that I want him to actually choke me, but gagging is a thrill. A reminder, I suppose, that my lover has a big cock and that I'm doing my damnedest to please him? Whatever the reason, I get so excited when I feel the head hitting my throat.

 

[SwedeSubTwink]

Mmh I love this as well, the slutty feeling of completely submitting to the top, all starting by a hand behind my head.

Once I dated a guy who loved facefucking. He would have both his hands behind my head while thrusting his cock down my throat, wouldn't stop if i gagged. I really loved being on my knees right there, saliva dropping from my mouth, eyes starting to water, feeling my throat stretching from his cock. He really knew how to use me and the sense of accomplishment i felt once he shot his load down my throat was insane.

 

[HotLoadLover]

Sometimes it's nice to know that the way you're sucking his cock has got him so worked up that he instinctively can't help holding your head in tight and fucking your mouth as he races towards that delicious climax, it just feels right when he loses all sense of control and it just becomes a primal lust thing...

True. I doubt many cocksuckers do it for the protein alone.

 

[Phatfeet]

Sometimes it's nice to know that the way you're sucking his cock has got him so worked up that he instinctively can't help holding your head in tight and fucking your mouth as he races towards that delicious climax, it just feels right when he loses all sense of control and it just becomes a primal lust thing...

It is kind of a fine line. I do not want to be used, and especially abused during a blowjob. I want the man to know that I can be entrusted to his most appreciated appendage and yet give him untold pleasure when it is over. That takes trust on his end and some vulnerability and responsibility on my end.

But with communication half-obliterated… I have his cock in my mouth after all, my possible conservative take on him might mean him pulling my head down deeper upon him and bringing me out of my comfort zone. That is a form of unspoken communication, and I understand that.

Still there are two types of blowjobs: being face-fucked and giving a sensuous one. If the man wants the former its okay, its just there are better positions for that like me lying on my back, my head hung over the side of the bed, desk or table… not really on my knees. But in the final throes of a sensuous blowjob, having it get a little forceful is completely understandable. It can be with hands on the back of my head, or the often dreaded, but expected… final hard thrust of his hips.

 

[apantyhoselovr]

i like both hands pulling me close as he slides in then pulls me back and so on. feels more like my mouth is getting fucked

 

[Sunnyade]

I enjoy bringing him to orgasm with a passionate blowjob. But his pleasure is my focus and if he grips my head and starts fucking my mouth I go with it. I do enjoy the slutty feeling of just being a wet hole for his cock.