TheLaughingLover
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- Joined
- Jul 12, 2002
- Posts
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I love 70s girls, all grown up... hippie girls that I used to smoke pot with and slurp good beer with. Girls who I slept with at Watkins Glen and the Atlantic City Rock Festival when I was a kid. Girls I followed the Dead with... a little that year and a little more those years. Punk rock and New Wave girls that I drank too much with in the early 80s after I cut my hair down to little spikes. Girls who now have a permanent situation but might like to explore something adventurous, yet safe, on the side.
I love girls who are brilliant, and are comfortable being brilliant... I love girls who smile and light up the world around them. I love the 'girl next door' type, and have no time for the tough tart type.
I love to laugh under the sheets. I love to laugh in the hay lofts I grew up in. I love the smells of the barn (so long as the stalls are reasonably clean!).
I'm looking for a lover for a monthly tryst. I'm looking for a possibly long term, exclusive arrangement with a fun, educated, worldly, urbane, kind, cheerful, kooky woman who expects the same discretion that I do. Someone who doesn't want to leave or destroy all that she's built up in her world, but recognizes that sex is still playful and needs a little of that in her life!
I didn't die when I turned 30, though apparently the sex drive of the woman I love did. It's as simple as that. I don't ever want to leave her, but I must have some sort of regular, lively, wild, crazy and FUN sex in my life. That's the natural way, that's what I want as part of my world. Going out to a bar to pick a girl up would, to me, be cheating. I believe that through the magic of the internet, I might find a gal in similar circumstances to mine, a nice gal, a fun gal, and we can create AN ARRANGEMENT that works for the both of us.
The woman I'm seeking needs to think of herself as kind and fun, should be in good shape (though I'm carrying a few extra and that's OK for her, too. I'm not 20 anymore, and my figure looks solid and strong but GROWN UP). She should be in tune and/or involved in arts, music, creative pursuits, things that bring and spread joy. She must have spent a good deal of her youth at live shows of fun music, still have a record or CD collection of music for various moods. She should visualize the roll in the hay as all the fun leading up to our legs and arms entwined, and all the laughing and laying back coming away from the close clutch. I love the whole thing.
Me? I'm strong, handsome, tall, have a relaxed sense of style that still manages to be subtly stylish, urbane without being snotty, involved in community service, love film and theater and good food and good wine, career academic.
Sexually, I love regular, straight lovemaking. I'm very oral oriented, and I'm very strong... I love tossing and turning a little while making out. I want nothing to do with any sort of SM, BD, role playing, pedestrian style partying. I'm willing to be a little adventurous to suit the desires of my lover, but will not do anything that means pain or words that make one more or less than the other. I am interested in an equally righteous ride for the both of us. I love the look, the smell, the taste, the feel of a woman's special spot. I want a woman who isn't afraid to pull my face right in, and to run her fingers through my hair while I taste the joys of her luscious peach.
I like fluffy beds and linens if I can't have a hay loft. I like animals, but NOT in the bedroom, and pet smells are a huge turn off. I don't smoke, and if I have my druthers, neither will she.
I can travel a little for the right arrangement, and I'm only interested in the right arrangement, but I believe that the woman I'm looking for is right here in South Eastern PA. Country houses or a little townhouse in a place like West Chester is good. If your world is a suburban subdivision, then we'll have to dream up an appropriately romantic rendezvous. Environement is very important to the vision I'm putting together.
I love my work and I'm hoping that my lover is generally happy with what she does, and happy about damned near everything else in her world, except for for that missing something in the bedroom. I absolutely am not looking for anyone who is carrying a huge emotional load. I've taken my physically passionless marraige on the shoulder until now, and the rest of my world is pretty well balanced and happy. I'm not carrying any crosses or millstones!
I am NOT looking for a swinger or a loose cannon. This is an age where health concerns need to be on the table and out front. A girlfriend of mine gave me herpes 15 years ago. It has never resurfaced, and my wife does not have it, but I would not enter into anything without having that up front.
If this sounds like you all over, take a chance. If it doesn't work out for either of us for any reason, I will remain the friendly, smiling young gentleman that I believe I am in all things... but if it sounds like you... take that chance...
Well... here goes...............
Yee Ha!
ps... I will submit a story soon. The idea of it is good... very good...
I love girls who are brilliant, and are comfortable being brilliant... I love girls who smile and light up the world around them. I love the 'girl next door' type, and have no time for the tough tart type.
I love to laugh under the sheets. I love to laugh in the hay lofts I grew up in. I love the smells of the barn (so long as the stalls are reasonably clean!).
I'm looking for a lover for a monthly tryst. I'm looking for a possibly long term, exclusive arrangement with a fun, educated, worldly, urbane, kind, cheerful, kooky woman who expects the same discretion that I do. Someone who doesn't want to leave or destroy all that she's built up in her world, but recognizes that sex is still playful and needs a little of that in her life!
I didn't die when I turned 30, though apparently the sex drive of the woman I love did. It's as simple as that. I don't ever want to leave her, but I must have some sort of regular, lively, wild, crazy and FUN sex in my life. That's the natural way, that's what I want as part of my world. Going out to a bar to pick a girl up would, to me, be cheating. I believe that through the magic of the internet, I might find a gal in similar circumstances to mine, a nice gal, a fun gal, and we can create AN ARRANGEMENT that works for the both of us.
The woman I'm seeking needs to think of herself as kind and fun, should be in good shape (though I'm carrying a few extra and that's OK for her, too. I'm not 20 anymore, and my figure looks solid and strong but GROWN UP). She should be in tune and/or involved in arts, music, creative pursuits, things that bring and spread joy. She must have spent a good deal of her youth at live shows of fun music, still have a record or CD collection of music for various moods. She should visualize the roll in the hay as all the fun leading up to our legs and arms entwined, and all the laughing and laying back coming away from the close clutch. I love the whole thing.
Me? I'm strong, handsome, tall, have a relaxed sense of style that still manages to be subtly stylish, urbane without being snotty, involved in community service, love film and theater and good food and good wine, career academic.
Sexually, I love regular, straight lovemaking. I'm very oral oriented, and I'm very strong... I love tossing and turning a little while making out. I want nothing to do with any sort of SM, BD, role playing, pedestrian style partying. I'm willing to be a little adventurous to suit the desires of my lover, but will not do anything that means pain or words that make one more or less than the other. I am interested in an equally righteous ride for the both of us. I love the look, the smell, the taste, the feel of a woman's special spot. I want a woman who isn't afraid to pull my face right in, and to run her fingers through my hair while I taste the joys of her luscious peach.
I like fluffy beds and linens if I can't have a hay loft. I like animals, but NOT in the bedroom, and pet smells are a huge turn off. I don't smoke, and if I have my druthers, neither will she.
I can travel a little for the right arrangement, and I'm only interested in the right arrangement, but I believe that the woman I'm looking for is right here in South Eastern PA. Country houses or a little townhouse in a place like West Chester is good. If your world is a suburban subdivision, then we'll have to dream up an appropriately romantic rendezvous. Environement is very important to the vision I'm putting together.
I love my work and I'm hoping that my lover is generally happy with what she does, and happy about damned near everything else in her world, except for for that missing something in the bedroom. I absolutely am not looking for anyone who is carrying a huge emotional load. I've taken my physically passionless marraige on the shoulder until now, and the rest of my world is pretty well balanced and happy. I'm not carrying any crosses or millstones!
I am NOT looking for a swinger or a loose cannon. This is an age where health concerns need to be on the table and out front. A girlfriend of mine gave me herpes 15 years ago. It has never resurfaced, and my wife does not have it, but I would not enter into anything without having that up front.
If this sounds like you all over, take a chance. If it doesn't work out for either of us for any reason, I will remain the friendly, smiling young gentleman that I believe I am in all things... but if it sounds like you... take that chance...
Well... here goes...............
Yee Ha!
ps... I will submit a story soon. The idea of it is good... very good...
