Hi I was wondering about bisexuality

[UpTheIrons]

Hi im new here and im glad that i found a place where i can openly talk about sexuality. For several years now i have been gradually become more and more interested in men. it started when i began having fantasies about having sex with men, then i started thinking to myself when i would see an attractive guy, about the same stuff. I have realized that i would be fully willing to kiss, suck off, and have anal sex with a guy. i would be ready to commit to a relationship with a guy. I still think the same way about women and have a bisexual girlfriend. so i have concluded that i am most likely bisexual as well. it took a while to accept it, not because i have any problem with homosexuality at all, but because it was so new to me. How did any of you react to that realization?

 

[robbie_boy1]

Hi im new here and im glad that i found a place where i can openly talk about sexuality. For several years now i have been gradually become more and more interested in men. it started when i began having fantasies about having sex with men, then i started thinking to myself when i would see an attractive guy, about the same stuff. I have realized that i would be fully willing to kiss, suck off, and have anal sex with a guy. i would be ready to commit to a relationship with a guy. I still think the same way about women and have a bisexual girlfriend. so i have concluded that i am most likely bisexual as well. it took a while to accept it, not because i have any problem with homosexuality at all, but because it was so new to me. How did any of you react to that realization?

hello and good luck. I fought it tooth and nail. I didn't want to be bi I wanted to be like "everyone else" though I didn't have a clue to what everyone else was doing. I would imagine it was my ego allowing me to play these games with myself. I am bi not because I have a bi wife, which I do, but because I like to have sex with another man. I do not get my emotional support from any man I have been with but I have come away from any sexual event feeling quiet filled......in more ways than one...*grins*....good luck to you and we wish you well
robbie and ellen

 

[AlecBond]

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[dan38bi]

fighting what you want and your desires, croses over to things that you hide and shun,

if you want to play with the bous n girls do it, if you like the girls go fer it too

listen to your feelings they guide you well...

both is good and both do what one cannot.

 

[Tough_Neocon]

Hi im new here and im glad that i found a place where i can openly talk about sexuality. For several years now i have been gradually become more and more interested in men. it started when i began having fantasies about having sex with men, then i started thinking to myself when i would see an attractive guy, about the same stuff. I have realized that i would be fully willing to kiss, suck off, and have anal sex with a guy. i would be ready to commit to a relationship with a guy. I still think the same way about women and have a bisexual girlfriend. so i have concluded that i am most likely bisexual as well. it took a while to accept it, not because i have any problem with homosexuality at all, but because it was so new to me. How did any of you react to that realization?

See, your gf's bisexual influence has corrupted your mind. I'm positive youre a straight man and this is just a phase. See a counselor and be a man. Do you really want AIDS?

George

BTW, I love Iron Maiden too.

 

[interfacial]

I can't say I can fully empathize with your situation. I would say I always knew, but that's not exactly true. I didn't start liking other girls until after I knew how to masturbate, which was before I knew what sex was. I did start liking boys and girls at the same time, but it was very innocent. I didn't really like them specifically, I just realized other people could be used instead of masturbation, and did not see a reason why it would matter if it was a boy or girl. Still, I was maybe 8-9 at the time, so it was never a huge emotional issue.

I do think that growing up a bisexual female is probably just as easy as being straight. Men seem to want all women to be bisexual, anyway, and many girls are far more open to bisexuals than men are to each other... except in locker rooms... which was completely my fault for staring. I would think being a bisexual male or homosexual would be very different.

 

[fingermagic]

Go with the feeling and ignore the trolls. You got to be true to yourself before you get locked in to something you may regret. Go with the feeling.

 

[UpTheIrons]

Hey thanks everyone! I think im going to enjoy posting on these forums. So many open minded people, it is quite a refreshing change.

 

[Mary Hall]

See, your gf's bisexual influence has corrupted your mind. I'm positive youre a straight man and this is just a phase. See a counselor and be a man. Do you really want AIDS?

There's nothing wrong with being bi, i am.

 

[neonflux]

Hi im new here and im glad that i found a place where i can openly talk about sexuality. For several years now i have been gradually become more and more interested in men. it started when i began having fantasies about having sex with men, then i started thinking to myself when i would see an attractive guy, about the same stuff. I have realized that i would be fully willing to kiss, suck off, and have anal sex with a guy. i would be ready to commit to a relationship with a guy. I still think the same way about women and have a bisexual girlfriend. so i have concluded that i am most likely bisexual as well. it took a while to accept it, not because i have any problem with homosexuality at all, but because it was so new to me. How did any of you react to that realization?

Hi and congratulations on your new self awareness - adventures await!

I knew when I was 12 or 13. Was a tomboy and many of my friends were boys, treated me like one of them most of the time (until I started to develop breasts and then they had no idea what to do with me, LOL). Anyway, remember being over at a friend's house when he brought out a playboy. Was initially horrified that it made me feel "sexy" and tried to push the feelings away. Was blessed in high school. Know that my experiences are not common, expecially for a baby boomer.

Despite it being the 70's and growing up in Texas, found a group of folks through competitive speech and drama and community theatre, my age and some much older , who were all out to at least a small circle - made it possible to feel positively about who I was very early. Since I was smart, and hated Texas, and a rebel, being what I now identify as queer was another way to add to and enjoy my "outlaw" status. Found my first girlfriend during my freshman year in college. Have been "switching" my tail ever since

Now at 50, I feel tremendous gratitude for being bi/queer, for the deeper understanding of sexuality and gender its given me, for the self-awareness it's brought me, for the acceptance of others it has helped me to develop... Sorry, I wax silly, LOL.

All that I can say is to enjoy it. It is a gift!

Neon

 

[CuriousNiceGuy]

See, your gf's bisexual influence has corrupted your mind. I'm positive youre a straight man and this is just a phase. See a counselor and be a man. Do you really want AIDS?

George

Did your girlfriend manage to get AIDS before she was 'converted' to a
-normal- person?
Btw, for your sake read about AIDS somewhere..You should update your medical knowledge cause I don't see you clean for too long.. -_-

Anyway, when I first realised I liked men I sort of panicked. Not because I thought it was bad, but because I didn't want to disappoint or upset anyone.
I did a lot of thinking, sometimes even cursed myself for being so unlucky, but at the end I realised that it's actually quite normal to like men. Half the planet does!
But still I felt uneasy about my friends' reactions. It's only natural. I cared for them, and I was afraid that maybe they wouldn't feel comfortable around me anymore. Well, how wrong was I.. After I told my best friend and some other good friends, we even began joking about it openly(but in a way so that I wouldnt be outed). They really helped me get along with this new side of me. They asked if I liked someone or even got into sex conversations which made ME blush
Well I'm happy and fine being bi.. It does make things a bit more difficult, but that's life.. Hope it works out for you

 

[BreeCarter]

Do you really want AIDS?

i hope this is a joke. you do realize that you can't get aids, unless the person you are with has it? and that not everyone chooses to not use protection and sleep around? and that you can be straight and get it just the same? this is just stupid.

 

[neonflux]

i hope this is a joke. you do realize that you can't get aids, unless the person you are with has it? and that not everyone chooses to not use protection and sleep around? and that you can be straight and get it just the same? this is just stupid.

May I suggest that someone so totally ignorant and nasty is best left ignored? (then again, I didn't ignore same a while ago on the BDSM boards, LOL)

 

[UpTheIrons]

Its interesting how little changed for me since i realized that i am bi. I always thought that things would be so different. other than now checking out girls and guys now not much has changed for me.

 

[soccergrrl]

My reaction was almost non-reaction. I understood that's how I was, and moved on.

 

[Prime]

although i'm not defending him, i think the aids comment was referring to getting aids from having sex with another man, not from simply being bi.

he's still a fucking idiot

 

[BreeCarter]

although i'm not defending him, i think the aids comment was referring to getting aids from having sex with another man, not from simply being bi.

he's still a fucking idiot

even so, you can't get aids from gay sex unless someone actually has aids to start with.

 

[HeavenCanWait]

Deeply saddened again

Tough Neocon,

see my earlier post on the thread regarding the les couple wanting to inform thir son.

Your backward comments aren't wanted here. These people, we people, are not going to be saved friom being bisexual or homosexual by your presence, or anything else for that matter.

Just go away and use a different forum.

Or alternatively, admit that you sometimes have sexual thoughts egarding guys and that this hatred, is really denial. Which by the way, is not a river in Egypt.

 

[UpTheIrons]

Personally, I find it to be quite amusing that someone can be so stupid.

 

[PredatorSmile]

Hi im new here and im glad that i found a place where i can openly talk about sexuality. For several years now i have been gradually become more and more interested in men. it started when i began having fantasies about having sex with men, then i started thinking to myself when i would see an attractive guy, about the same stuff. I have realized that i would be fully willing to kiss, suck off, and have anal sex with a guy. i would be ready to commit to a relationship with a guy. I still think the same way about women and have a bisexual girlfriend. so i have concluded that i am most likely bisexual as well. it took a while to accept it, not because i have any problem with homosexuality at all, but because it was so new to me. How did any of you react to that realization?

Hey, there. You're discovering your sexuality. It's a fun, fascinating time. Don't be in a rush to label yourself. When I discovered that I was bi, I was in a relationship with another woman at the time. I noticed my future boyfriend and he took my breath away. I had to learn to accept this new side of my sexuality.


I know of one other woman who thought she was queer yet ended up falling for and marrying a man. I don't know of any men who thought themselves gay yet somehow became attracted to certain women but I suppose anything is possible. Sexuality is fluid. Just go with the flow and be safe !

 

[Minouners]

Being in the same shoes your in, my reaction was a little surprised at first but when I started to put the pieces together, I thought to myself, man I should of known this a looong time ago.

I had had encounters where women would approach me and I would get giddy and not know what to do or say or one of my favorites is when I actually had a woman grab my tits in a club. At first I was embarressed but after thought to myself, I want to bring that woman home with me. (this is where it all began)

From then on, I just brushed it off because I had a bf and figured that it just wasn't right for me to be bisexual but after some time I thought, life is too short to be keeping this secret and I want to be able to have pleasure all around.

So from me to you, congradulations and if you need someone to talk to or share ideas, feel free to message me or just keep posting!

Hi im new here and im glad that i found a place where i can openly talk about sexuality. For several years now i have been gradually become more and more interested in men. it started when i began having fantasies about having sex with men, then i started thinking to myself when i would see an attractive guy, about the same stuff. I have realized that i would be fully willing to kiss, suck off, and have anal sex with a guy. i would be ready to commit to a relationship with a guy. I still think the same way about women and have a bisexual girlfriend. so i have concluded that i am most likely bisexual as well. it took a while to accept it, not because i have any problem with homosexuality at all, but because it was so new to me. How did any of you react to that realization?