Heyo, a vibrator/strap-on question.

[romantic_always]

My boyfriend and I used a vibrator on him tonight-him bent over the bed, me stroking him from behind. It was enjoyable and fun for me, and he absolutely loved it!

My question is this-is there a less awkward position for us to do this? It felt a little impersonal and I'd like to figure out how to do this in a more relaxed/comfortable position for both of us, and still make sure he really enjoys it.

We would also like to eventually move into using a strap-on-any recommendations on strap-ons for both of us to enjoy? I've read on some of the ones that are mutual (two phallic parts for both people), but I'd like people's opinion on that too.


Any help would be appreciated-this is a new territory for both of us but something we want to pursue!

 

[infinity706]

Well, believe it or not, you could get him on his back, with his legs in the air. Yeah, missionary isn't athletic, explosive, or cool, but it is good for gazing into someone's eyes or using your hands. If he's into deep penetration, though, having him bent over is probably the best since it opens up cunts and asses as wide as possible.

As for double didoes, I'm not sure how much you'd like them. The best position for them is bent over, facing away from each other. Also, you'd almost definately want to take it in the ass, too. Otherwise, it'll be a tug of war and an ass will probably beat any pussy on the planet, no matter how many kegels you do.

For a strapon, something like Feeldoe would be good for mutual enjoyment. The shaft should rub against your clit with every stroke. Once again, though, it doesn't seem to work as well for anal unless you stick the bulb in your own ass. Closing your legs on it should help some, but then, it won't hit your clit as well.

There are also some strapon harnesses that work with butt plugs and/or dildoes that can go inside you. It really depends on what you're looking for.

 

[cromsgirl]

One of the positions my husband and I use with the strap-on is facing each other with his legs over mine, both of us have our legs out strait. I lean back and support myself with my arms and I am able to thrust gently. He lays back on the bed. This also allows me to reach forward and play with his cock. We have problems with the position you described because I am fairly short. Good luck!

 

[sc_man]

you could also try it with him riding you.....the first time I ever came with out her stroking me, was with me on top

 

[belladomina]

I second the Feeldoe. It's the premium experience. It's a little pricier than your average faux cock but it's well worth the investment and may allow you greater versatility.

 

[BlueSugar]

My boyfriend and I used a vibrator on him tonight-him bent over the bed, me stroking him from behind. It was enjoyable and fun for me, and he absolutely loved it!

My question is this-is there a less awkward position for us to do this? It felt a little impersonal and I'd like to figure out how to do this in a more relaxed/comfortable position for both of us, and still make sure he really enjoys it.

We would also like to eventually move into using a strap-on-any recommendations on strap-ons for both of us to enjoy? I've read on some of the ones that are mutual (two phallic parts for both people), but I'd like people's opinion on that too.


Any help would be appreciated-this is a new territory for both of us but something we want to pursue!

There are strap ons with vibes, and insertions, the Jenna Jameson by Doc Johnson is a jelly dong, leather adjustable harness, with plugs and all sorts of things you can insert for yourself.

Feeldoe is nice, it is made by Tantus - they are american made and use platinum grade silicone -- you can boil, and even bleach it to clean it. AND use silicone lubricant if you wanted.

normally you CANNOT use SILCONE lube with a SILICONE toy -- they will bond/melt and become GROSS instantly -- you'd have to throw the toy away.

The Share strapless-strapon by Fun Factory is better though (made of medical grade silicone) - it is made for women to wear, it hugs your gspot, gently curved for G/Pspot stimulation. it also has a bump for your clit. They JUST JUST came out with a new Share, its all bumpy and stuff. Check out their website, check out babeland.com, and also look for it on blowfish.com they're usually a little cheaper than babeland.
You'll find all of these all over the internet
Check the Literotica store of course
even Amazon.com has a section for these goodies.

positions...
on his back, him on top, spooning (you behind him, you both on your sides), you can straddle one of his legs, turn him on his side... lay him flat down on his tummy and you can practically lay over him.
There is ALOT of roleplay you can play around with too when hes on his knees and in other positions -

 

[pussy_liquor]

I like it on all fours with ass to the edge of the bed with the wife standing behind me. MMMM!

 

[FantaSeaGirl]

What about "spooning"? You can curl up behind him & the arm that could go over him can control the dildo while the arm under him can strok him... anywhere from his face, neck to chest & nipples ecen down to his cock & thighs. Make sure it's comfortable so it doesn't fall asleep.

 

[silverwhisper]

ah, i have no further suggestions, i've been beaten to the punch on all of 'em. i can recommend modified missionary.

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