Hey women, cum question

[cumman]

I would like all of the ladies to help me out here. I have been with 2 women who get freaked out about the thought of me cumming in their mouth. What can I do to get them okay with it? One of them I actually just didn't tell her that I was going to cum and shot it down her throat. She wasn't to happy, but at the same time she wasn't to upset. It actually turned her on when I told her that I had to force her to eat my cum. She still wasn't interested in making it part of something she would do regularly. She actually even started to only blow me for a short time because she thought I would cum in her mouth again. I don't think there is anything that turns me on more than seeing a woman suck up my cum. I enjoy doing it for a woman and is it wrong for me to want the same thing?

 

[SexyChele]

Some women swallow, some don't. Still others can take it or leave it. I don't know that you can "make" a woman want to swallow. I would think that mentality would only inspire an attitude of not wanting to do it.

If I had an aversion to ejaculate, and some guy "forced" it down my throat, trust me, it would be the last time he'd get a blow job from me! You are lucky she still gives you something!

There are ways you can introduce a woman to the taste of cum, but if they really don't like it, it ain't gonna happen overnight. And, just for the record, I always appreciate it when a man gives me some forewarning. Yes, I always swallow, but at least I know so I don't choke!

You need to decide just how important this is for you. If it is more important that she likes going down on you than swallowing, then just be happy. If you absolutely need to have a woman that swallows, then be honest with her. If it is that big a deal, you may need to get into another relationship. (though how you can find out beforehand whether a woman swallows is a bit beyond me)

 

[dclabrecque]

I love to swallow so long as I'm not left out in the cold because then he is done. I agree that it shouldn't be too much to ask, but we don't always get what we want. You will have to decide if it is a relationship breaker, and she needs to know that's why you move on. Maybe she will be willing to try harder to keep you. It is called the art of compromise. That means you both get a little bit of what you want - somewhere on middle ground.

 

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[peachykeen]

Your partner is more than just a sperm receptacle, you know. From your choice of words and the tone of your post, one gets the impression that you haven't got a whole lot of respect for these women and are really quite self-interested. Check yourself before you wreck yourself, mate.

 

[BlueDaisy]

You should feel lucky you are getting a blow job at all.

When you came in her mouth without telling her, you better be glad he didnt bite the fucker off.

You are lucky if you ever got another one from her

I'd have bit you for sure, pal. That is a very, very lousy thing to do. And making such a big deal out of it is not much better.

 

[cumman]

I guess I did sound a little selfish the way I put it originally. I don't think of any woman as a sperm receptacle though. I would do anything for a girl I am involved with. If she wants it all she has to do is ask. As for me cumming in her mouth without telling her, I guess I forgot to tell the whole story. When we have talked dirty to each other, she knows that it would turn me on to cum in her mouth. So she tells me that she wants me to. Then I say really you want me to and she says no. then she tells me that she would get really turned on and she thinks she would actually like it if I force her to take my cum load. Really I was just doing what I wanted and what I thought she might like and what would turn her on. I really did think she would like it because we would watch porn and a guy would shoot it in a girls mouth and it would turn her on. She had a thing about wanting me to fuck her friends also. I would tell her that she would have to watch which she wanted to. I told her I would pull me dick out of her friends cunt and shove it in her friends mouth and cum down her throat and she would always tell me that I couldn't because she would come over and pump my cum into her mouth. So you have to admit, doesn't it seem like she wants it?

 

[cumman]

Those of you that do swallow, do you do it because you like the taste, because it turns you on, because it pleases your man, or all of the above?

 

[Bandit58]

Those of you that do swallow, do you do it because you like the taste, because it turns you on, because it pleases your man, or all of the above?

I've been with 2 men in my life. One I was married to for 23 years and I never sucked him because I didn't love him and hated sex with him. The other I met online 10 months ago and with him it's all what you say.....he knew I'd never done it before and he just let me find my own way and gently encouraged me. The first time he warned me that he was about to cum but I just kept going.....and it was the most wonderful experience to feel him fill my mouth. We always share it in a kiss and swallow together.......it's so erotic for us both. Maybe you should try that??

 

[tigerjen]

One thing: NEVER force anything on anyone at anytime.

And that includes sexual aspects.

 

[Guest]

tigerjen

amen

 

[likaway]

just a question

All this talk of blowjobs is wonderfull and I love to give them and swallow the load. BUT.......doesn't anyone give handjobs to their guys anymore. God I love doing that the most! Love Lisa

 

[cumman]

I am not with my girlfriend anymore, but she use to give me handjobs all of the time. She would do it in anywhere to. I would finger her at the same time. I love to feel a girls wetness on my fingers.

 

[bbwforsugar]

I will only swallow with a man that is my steady and I know that he is safe, its just not worth it otherwise.