Hey ... deep breath ... inexperienced with sex questions

[sofiasof]

Hi

I'm Sofia and this is really hard to write and post and I'm afraid it's the most stupid thing anyone has every written about

I'm female, early 40s and totally lacking sexual experience. somehow I've let my life go by. I've 'dabbled' a bit, kissed lots of men, one woman and I lost my virginity. I've only had full sex once but I was so drunk I don't really remember how it felt. I didn't come.

I feel maybe this is my last chance to find out what sex is all about. I want to know how it feels to have sex and to orgasm. I read threads here and get hella turned on - finger fucking, nipples....

I want to take the next step now but a. I'm scared and b. I don't know how .... I'm past an age where I can claim lack of experience and learn on the job, so to speak. I would have to be honest? But what guy would want to f*ck a 40 something practical virgin who doesn't know how to do blow jobs?

I've thought about maybe watching some you tube or other videos that might teach me stuff??

I know with internet it seems easier these days to hook up for sex but I don't know what to do in my circumstances as I feel I'd be a disappointment to a guy. I'm not explaining myself very well, but please help/respond if you have any ideas?!

Thank you xxxx

 

[abvt75]

sofia,

I sent you a pm with my opinion, some wisdom words. would love to hear back from
you

 

[pointless]

yes, enjoy your future conversations with creepy weirdos.

 

[Tommybowler]

Hi

I'm Sofia and this is really hard to write and post and I'm afraid it's the most stupid thing anyone has every written about

I'm female, early 40s and totally lacking sexual experience. somehow I've let my life go by. I've 'dabbled' a bit, kissed lots of men, one woman and I lost my virginity. I've only had full sex once but I was so drunk I don't really remember how it felt. I didn't come.

I feel maybe this is my last chance to find out what sex is all about. I want to know how it feels to have sex and to orgasm. I read threads here and get hella turned on - finger fucking, nipples....

I want to take the next step now but a. I'm scared and b. I don't know how .... I'm past an age where I can claim lack of experience and learn on the job, so to speak. I would have to be honest? But what guy would want to f*ck a 40 something practical virgin who doesn't know how to do blow jobs?

I've thought about maybe watching some you tube or other videos that might teach me stuff??

I know with internet it seems easier these days to hook up for sex but I don't know what to do in my circumstances as I feel I'd be a disappointment to a guy. I'm not explaining myself very well, but please help/respond if you have any ideas?!

Thank you xxxx

there are guys out there who if you can make a connection with them they would be more than happy to show you a new world and wont be disappointed at all by your "inexperience" but also there would be plenty willing to take advantage. Be careful go slow and communicate. also go with your gut feeling if he seems like an asshole he probably is.

I had a fwb situation with a lady in a very similar position to yourself last year, she did not disappoint because she was open to try and communicated what was good bad and what she wanted to try.

 

[Debbie]

Hi

I'm Sofia and this is really hard to write and post and I'm afraid it's the most stupid thing anyone has every written about

I'm female, early 40s and totally lacking sexual experience. somehow I've let my life go by. I've 'dabbled' a bit, kissed lots of men, one woman and I lost my virginity. I've only had full sex once but I was so drunk I don't really remember how it felt. I didn't come.

I feel maybe this is my last chance to find out what sex is all about. I want to know how it feels to have sex and to orgasm. I read threads here and get hella turned on - finger fucking, nipples....

I want to take the next step now but a. I'm scared and b. I don't know how .... I'm past an age where I can claim lack of experience and learn on the job, so to speak. I would have to be honest? But what guy would want to f*ck a 40 something practical virgin who doesn't know how to do blow jobs?

I've thought about maybe watching some you tube or other videos that might teach me stuff??

I know with internet it seems easier these days to hook up for sex but I don't know what to do in my circumstances as I feel I'd be a disappointment to a guy. I'm not explaining myself very well, but please help/respond if you have any ideas?!

Thank you xxxx

Most decent guys will listen to what you have to say and enjoy helping you relax and explore your body and any sexploits you have together or with you flying solo