heres a dumb question.... funny though

[virginleo20]

if women dont like men staring at ther mamary glands why do you wear pushups, really really tight and revealig shirts....


And to top it all of at times there is writing right at that specific area on your clothing.... most of the time the writing is big and in really bright letters as well so its nearly impossible to ignore....
kind of like that "biohazard" text you see on stuff.


or is it just me...

i dont stare but im just curious..... asking for the fun of it

and i know its done just for the attention most of the time....

 

[sch00lteacher]

Keep in mind that women don't dress for men.

They dress for other women.

They know we could give a good shit if they had an old flour sack tied around their neck, as long as whats underneath looks interesting.

So don't think that your girl, or any woman, is dressing up nice for you.

 

[T.H. Oughts]

Keep in mind that women don't dress for men.

They dress for other women.

lol, you have it sorted teach.

 

[LittleMsNaughty]

I totally agree........ a lot of women dress in a way that accentuates there figures - and yet they don't want to be stared at? What is that all about? I love it when I get a whistle or stared at by a guy - it makes me feel great!!!!!!!!!! And if you have it - youshould flaunt it - if you want to get looked at ......... if you don't like the attention - become a nun!!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

I totally agree........ a lot of women dress in a way that accentuates there figures - and yet they don't want to be stared at? What is that all about?

Maybe it is the guys are perving, not just looking. Or the "Sit on my face baby" comments that comes with the perving. Or just because a woman shows some cleavege in a bar does not mean she want to take every man home and fuck them...

 

[LittleMsNaughty]

Maybe it is the guys are perving, not just looking. Or the "Sit on my face baby" comments that comes with the perving. Or just because a woman shows some cleavege in a bar does not mean she want to take every man home and fuck them...

True - I don't like the desperate drooling down the chin sort of attention........ but a nice wolf whistle here and there doesn't go amiss!

 

[T.H. Oughts]

but a nice wolf whistle here and there doesn't go amiss!

Yep, everyone likes to know they are appealing, it's just the way it comes across.

 

[takingchances42]

Or just because a woman shows some cleavege in a bar does not mean she want to take every man home and fuck them...

There you go...

What's the difference between perving and chemistry? Whether the woman wants the guy or not...

Women may complain about being looked at as sex objects... but if you really want to make her unhappy... then treat her exactly like a guy...

I could never do that with you, TH... but for some reason whenever I see that av, I think of lawn work... mind if I get out my pruners?

 

[bknight2602]

I always believed that women dressed to flirt and tease, not including business dressing of course.

 

[PepperminTrish]

I don't dress for other women and I don't dress for men either. I dress for ME. I wear what I like and what makes me feel good. I happen to have be blessed with decent sized breasts and most of the tops I wear don't hide that fact.

And if someone is staring directly at my chest, I usually just laugh it off. It isn't a big deal as long as they aren't being crude ........ such as the 'sit on my face' comment that T.H. mentioned. No need for that, even if I am looking for a seat.

 

[takingchances42]

And if someone is staring directly at my chest, I usually just laugh it off. It isn't a big deal as long as they aren't being crude ........ such as the 'sit on my face' comment that T.H. mentioned. No need for that, even if I am looking for a seat.

Er, um... I'm staring directly at your chest right now, Trish. Sorry, but it is difficult not to...

Does that make me a perv?

 

[PepperminTrish]

Er, um... I'm staring directly at your chest right now, Trish. Sorry, but it is difficult not to...

Does that make me a perv?

Why yes, it DOES make you a perv.



But that's OK ............. I really, really like pervs.

 

[Soblue]

I'm like you Trish. I don't mind getting the attention, as long as it's not crude. After all, I want to feel sexy, otherwise, I'd wear a burlap sack everyday.

 

[superlittlegirl]

Burlap's way itchy. I prefer some nice, boob hugging lycra anyday.

 

[peachykeen]

Here's the thing: as a woman with rather big boobs, I can't hide them if I try. Short of piling on huge huge baggy shirts and sweaters, and then looking like i weigh 35 lbs more than I actually do, anything I wear is going to appear tight and figure-hugging. That doesn't mean I want to be shouted at or commented on while I am going about my daily business.

There is a huge difference between a sublte flirt - wink of the eye, appreciative smile etc. (these are all fine and I don't mind them in the least) - and a cat call. I am sorry but any man who would whistle, shout, whoop, or comment is an uncouth disrespectful ill-mannered lout who is not worth a second of my attention.

 

[VeryBadGirl]

When I was in my twenties, I DID dress a little tighter, and here is what I thought (in retrospect).

It was ok if attractive guys stared or said something, but not yucky guys.

Once I put some terribly short shorts on with a cutoff top, and went to wash my car. I knew what I looked like, and I imagined what the guys (picturing normal guys) would think.

But there were only these gross rednecks (I'm talking dirty, hairy and missing teeth) there washing a couple of trucks, and they gave me a very hard time and I didn't like it one bit. Not what I pictured when I got dressed that morning.

Just another perspective as to why a girl might not seem to enjoy your attention, when it seems like she's asking for it!

VeryConservativelyDressedGirl(Now)

 

[Willing and Unsure]

I dont bother.. most guys generally talk to my boobs anyways. I've even introduced my boobs to them. They were really surprised when I did that. It gets annoying after awhile. I do have a face for a reason, and my face is not in my chest area, its a few inches above that.

 

[bluespoke]

Here's the thing: as a woman with rather big boobs, I can't hide them if I try. Short of piling on huge huge baggy shirts and sweaters, and then looking like i weigh 35 lbs more than I actually do, anything I wear is going to appear tight and figure-hugging. That doesn't mean I want to be shouted at or commented on while I am going about my daily business.

There is a huge difference between a sublte flirt - wink of the eye, appreciative smile etc. (these are all fine and I don't mind them in the least) - and a cat call. I am sorry but any man who would whistle, shout, whoop, or comment is an uncouth disrespectful ill-mannered lout who is not worth a second of my attention.

He, he. How many days till you come back to the land of builders butt cleavage?

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

Ohh OOh Ahh!

Burlap's way itchy. I prefer some nice, boob hugging lycra anyday.

I Wanna See You In A Bitty Burlap Sack Dress!


PLEASE?

I'm With The Minty Green Babe Up There^^^I Dress Fer Myself!

I Could Care Less If Nobody Elses Finds It Appealing,But They Do And I Don't Mind That Either

I Stare And Woof When I See Nice Tits, Or A Fine Ass....Usually Works

 

[superlittlegirl]

Re: Ohh OOh Ahh!

I Wanna See You In A Bitty Burlap Sack Dress!


PLEASE?

You know what, Ms. RudeNastyAssBitch? For you, I'll do it. It might take some wrangling, but it can definitely be done. Check back with me in a couple of days on this one, OK?

Freya

 

[RawHumor]

Burlap's way itchy. I prefer some nice, boob hugging lycra anyday.

I'd stare at you whatever you're wearing.

 

[Spurious Scribe]

Once I put some terribly short shorts on with a cutoff top, and went to wash my car. I knew what I looked like, and I imagined what the guys (picturing normal guys) would think.

But there were only these gross rednecks (I'm talking dirty, hairy and missing teeth) there washing a couple of trucks, and they gave me a very hard time and I didn't like it one bit. Not what I pictured when I got dressed that morning.

Oh, gawd! I've been there/done that and had similar results. This was years ago. I wore some really tight jean cutoffs with a teeshirt and no bra. it was at a carwash too! No one was even there except for this much older man. I got too close to the car as I was washing the top, mashed my boobs against the wet side window while trying to reach the center, and this little old man walks past my stall on his way back from the change machine. Somehow I hadn't seen him go by the first time, but he evidently saw me. He was walking some kind of slow and looking straight at my boobs. As I said, I was quite young then and very embarrassed. I would like to think that if it happened again today, I'd have the brass to speak up and ask how he liked what he saw, but I doubt it. It is so much easier to be brash here online than IRL.

 

[binkley]

if women dont like men staring at ther mamary glands why do you wear pushups, really really tight and revealig shirts....

So that you'll stare.

*slap* STOP STARING!

Oh, I have a tent.

 

[RhumbRunner13]

Maybe it is the guys are perving, not just looking. Or the "Sit on my face baby" comments that comes with the perving. Or just because a woman shows some cleavege in a bar does not mean she want to take every man home and fuck them...

It's one of the sad truths of advertising though, T.H.

That huge billboard with the $85,000 Mercedes is non-discriminatory. The $25,000/yr shovel technologist gets too look just as hard as the $600,000/yr stock trader.

Maybe a more "Direct Advertising" campaign would be beneficial
!

Rhumb

 

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