here we go again...stop the world, pa met a girl...

[paganangel]

so, here's the trouble....i want her. i mean BAD. three words


blonde
salma
hayek



there may be a little shakira thrown in there also.


and yet she's all original. anyways my shrink's been telling me forever that i sleep with women too fast. and i agree that sleeping with someone too quickly kills any chance of truly getting to know them, but THREE MONTHS?!!
c'mon! i think that could be too long. i mean, there'd be so much sexual tension you couldn't focus on anything else. i'd like a nice semi-old-fasioned courtship. romantic and sexy.
i've never follwed his advice b4 and every goddamned prediction he's made has come true...to the letter. i think i'm gonna try it his way.

another thing. he wants me to stop sleeping with other people in the meantime! (even b4 we make a commitment!!) some nonsense about not being able to know someone while getting emotional gratification somewhere else....blah blah bllah...intimacy isues...blah blah blah... i mean, how am i supposed to do this without an outlet? i asked him if i shold stop jerking off too. he got all pissed off and said of course not. i said so what's the big deal about me gettin some somewhere else as long as it's just that? he just shook his head.


thoughts?

 

[modest mouse]

thoughts?

Get a dog, or some fish.

 

[lavender]

 

[scylis]

i like cheese.

 

[Carp]

In for a penny, in for a pound. If your gonna try your shrinks advice, why sabatoge it by trying just part of it? So next time, you can say "Well, not sleeping with the last woman I was interested in for three months didn't work, so it won't work this time, either."?

To continue to do the same things wrong and expect a different result is a form of insanity.

 

[April]

Listen to your shrink. You said he's been right before.

 

[Bindii]

We've been through this before, you know my thoughts on this.

 

[curious2c]

I'm sorry, what was the question? ~as he thinks of salma and him walking hand n hand...~

 

[paganangel]

sometimes i hate you people.


oh, and mouse and lav...i saw 28 days too.

(course i haven't made it that far yet)

 

[Wiggles]

It sounds about right.

Just get very, very creative with the masturbation.

Maybe you'll think up a new technique? Become rich and famous? Have your picture above the word King Jackoff in the dictionary?

Three months is not that long. And believe me, sexual tension adds a lot to a sexual experience.

 

[modest mouse]

What is 28 days?

Besides February.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Start a garden.

 

[calypso_21]

sometimes i hate you people.


oh, and mouse and lav...i saw 28 days too.

(course i haven't made it that far yet)

Were you expecting them to say it is okay to go ahead and fuck other women while continuing to get to know this one?

Your shrink is right. You should have no other distractions. Enjoy what you have. Put more focus into this relationship, you might find it far more rewarding than any side fuck.

 

[perks]

your shrink is right.

Don't sabotage your emotions or your opportunities for a piece of ass.

Taking your moment doesn't mean instant gratification. It means it encompasses your all of your needs not just the physical.

You can't even know what your moment is, if you're cluttering it up with things that don't matter.

 

[Summery]

Start a garden.

LOL. Now there's a visual.

 

[superlittlegirl]

I personally think that any concrete formula for acceptable courtship length is a load of bullshit.

You might as well pick up a copy of The Rules

Don't forget, your choice of a shrink is just as important a decision to make as your choice of a girlfriend. Make sure he's the right one.

 

[Bindii]

sometimes i hate you people.

You asked for honest opinions - you got it.

 

[paganangel]

LOL. Now there's a visual.

it sure is...
a grove of rubyfruit trees
lavender heather
and in the summer....

 

[paganangel]

You asked for honest opinions - you got it.

fist off, the honest opinions were supposed to agree with mine. second, i don't remember your feelings on this...please refresh.

Were you expecting them to say it is okay to go ahead and fuck other women while continuing to get to know this one?

um...yes?

To continue to do the same things wrong and expect a different result is a form of insanity.

i admit, thatwas my exact thought. DAMMIT!

I personally think that any concrete formula for acceptable courtship length is a load of bullshit.

i agree. but he's just seen me fuck it up so many times....

and as a shrink, he kinda kicks ass...that's why i hate hime sometimes.

 

[Bindii]

fist off, the honest opinions were supposed to agree with mine. second, i don't remember your feelings on this...please refresh.

Lol.....maybe I should have lied?

You don't remember! Goodness me we had a big discussion about your ideas on sleeping with one women while dating another....I was trying to explain to you why it was wrong......it seems i didn't explain well enough.

But we don't want to go there again...

 

[dragonhearted]

so, here's the trouble....i want her. i mean BAD. three words


blonde
salma
hayek



there may be a little shakira thrown in there also.


and yet she's all original. anyways my shrink's been telling me forever that i sleep with women too fast. and i agree that sleeping with someone too quickly kills any chance of truly getting to know them, but THREE MONTHS?!!
c'mon! i think that could be too long. i mean, there'd be so much sexual tension you couldn't focus on anything else. i'd like a nice semi-old-fasioned courtship. romantic and sexy.
i've never follwed his advice b4 and every goddamned prediction he's made has come true...to the letter. i think i'm gonna try it his way.

another thing. he wants me to stop sleeping with other people in the meantime! (even b4 we make a commitment!!) some nonsense about not being able to know someone while getting emotional gratification somewhere else....blah blah bllah...intimacy isues...blah blah blah... i mean, how am i supposed to do this without an outlet? i asked him if i shold stop jerking off too. he got all pissed off and said of course not. i said so what's the big deal about me gettin some somewhere else as long as it's just that? he just shook his head.


thoughts?

3 months sounds like a good number to me----it is my favorite trial period! But not having sex elsewhere? That is not emotional gratification...that is physical gratification. ...Personally...I think if you need to get some and you and the other party agree that is all that it is about...then it would work. Just don't let Miss Right find out!

Suzi

 

[paganangel]

all i remember about that was how i was so very right, and you were so very wrong. i belive you admitted it too.

 

[Guest]

 

[paganangel]

Re: Re: here we go again...stop the world, pa met a girl...

3 months sounds like a good number to me----it is my favorite trial period! But not having sex elsewhere? That is not emotional gratification...that is physical gratification. ...Personally...I think if you need to get some and you and the other party agree that is all that it is about...then it would work. Just don't let Miss Right find out!

Suzi

EXACTLY! and it hs nothing to do with whether she's miss right or not. i wont know that until LONG after i sleep with her. so long as when i cross that line i stop my other liasions...i see no problem.

 

[Bindii]

all i remember about that was how i was so very right, and you were so very wrong. i belive you admitted it too.

LMAO!

Are you looking at the world through rose tinted glasses again?

I'm never wrong!