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Kajira Callista
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Welcome Kurt C
Kajira Callista
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lol from my first breath? Ive been in the lifestlye for 15+ years.
Desdemona
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Kurt, why don't you go to the talk forum and look at the library threads? That will give you a good idea of where to start. There are a few threads with links to Castlerealm and Steeledoor that should give you a place to jump from. A little background reading is where alot of us started. That will help you figure out what questions you need to ask. Welcome.
Kurt_C
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thx
des,
thanks.. I'm reading as we speak.. Lots to learn I see. What I do know about myself is that I would like to give up control. I'm not too sure about the pain thing. I guess I need someone how understands my limits and how far I'm willing to go.
Kurt
des,
thanks.. I'm reading as we speak.. Lots to learn I see. What I do know about myself is that I would like to give up control. I'm not too sure about the pain thing. I guess I need someone how understands my limits and how far I'm willing to go.
Kurt
Desdemona
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Take your time. For most of us, limits evolve over a period of time after we begin real time experimentation. Not every submissive loves pain. It isn't a requirement. There are a whole variety of ways to express your submission. The key is to know yourself and then find a partner with similar tastes to guide you along the way. I, by no means, consider myself an expert. I learn new things all the time. It's a journey and new adventures are around every turn.
