Helping out a friend

[HanSoleOh]

I searched around and didn’t see a discussion on the topic, but apologies if it has already come up.

Hypothetically, if a friend came to you asking for you to help them with something of a sexual nature, something they could not get safely or discreetly without your participation, would you consider helping them out?

It doesn’t necessarily have to be sex, per se. Maybe they just haven’t had a good cuddle in a long time and need one. Or maybe they have a desire to touch you. Maybe they just want to watch you, or be watched by you? Maybe they have an unsatisfied fetish they are asking for your help in exploring.

If someone you know and trust, but is just a friend, not a romantic partner, asked you for a favor, would you consider it? I’m curious to hear what people would or wouldn’t do, or have done for a friend before. Or perhaps what “rules” would have to be in place for you to consider it.

Just an idea to ponder and have fun with.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

I searched around and didn’t see a discussion on the topic, but apologies if it has already come up.

Hypothetically, if a friend came to you asking for you to help them with something of a sexual nature, something they could not get safely or discreetly without your participation, would you consider helping them out?

It doesn’t necessarily have to be sex, per se. Maybe they just haven’t had a good cuddle in a long time and need one. Or maybe they have a desire to touch you. Maybe they just want to watch you, or be watched by you? Maybe they have an unsatisfied fetish they are asking for your help in exploring.

If someone you know and trust, but is just a friend, not a romantic partner, asked you for a favor, would you consider it? I’m curious to hear what people would or wouldn’t do, or have done for a friend before. Or perhaps what “rules” would have to be in place for you to consider it.

Just an idea to ponder and have fun with.

Sure, why not? If the friend is being earnest about it. Not sure what it would entail though.

 

[HanSoleOh]

Sure, why not? If the friend is being earnest about it. Not sure what it would entail though.

I had a friend who asked to watch me stroke myself. She said she’d been curious and wanted to watch me. I enjoy being watched so I did it. In this case, I agreed to it but we both agreed it was just a one time thing to satisfy her curiosity.

That being said, I asked keeping it open ended for folks to interpret and explore as they like.

 

[Vladamier_Dracul]

Interesting question. There are no simple answers to this, but for me it is basically yes. There are limitations and total exclusions for certain things, but I would want to accommodate as much as I was comfortable with.

 

[StrongMaster7]

Many years ago, I was at a big party where I only knew a few people. It was fine. And then, out of nowhere, a woman comes up to me and tells me that her old boyfriend is at the party and asked if I would make out with her to show him that she has moved on. She was pretty good looking, so I just atarted making out with her non-stop for the next hour or two.

And I don’t think I ever saw her again. Nothing like that has ever happened to me before or since.

 

[HanSoleOh]

Many years ago, I was at a big party where I only knew a few people. It was fine. And then, out of nowhere, a woman comes up to me and tells me that her old boyfriend is at the party and asked if I would make out with her to show him that she has moved on. She was pretty good looking, so I just atarted making out with her non-stop for the next hour or two.

And I don’t think I ever saw her again. Nothing like that has ever happened to me before or since.

That’s fun. Perfectly in the spirit of the question!

 

[HanSoleOh]

Reversing the situation, I have a bit of a foot fetish and have friends that I would like to ask to help me explore my interest. I haven’t asked out of respect for them and the friendship, but I always kind of want to.

 

[YourSecretDesires]

I had a friend who asked to watch me stroke myself. She said she’d been curious and wanted to watch me. I enjoy being watched so I did it. In this case, I agreed to it but we both agreed it was just a one time thing to satisfy her curiosity.

That being said, I asked keeping it open ended for folks to interpret and explore as they like.

I'm not sure a friend has ever asked me that. Would be a nice experience.

 

[SteveXR]

I had a very good friend who happened to be a lesbian, one night she said she was curious so I said sure....

 

[write_or_wrong]

This actually happened to me. One day, out of the blue, a woman I knew but didn't consider to be a close friend, called me and asked if I would help her practice something she had read about in a book. It was about a man masturbating a woman by using the position and techniques presented in the book. She said her husband was too straight-laced to even talk about it, that it must be a total secret between she and i, and that it can never lead to anything more than following the instructions in the book. I told her I'd consider it and let her know.

I did think about it for a while, mindful of the negative consequences if things got out of control. And I ordered the book and read it. I guess the small head won out because I called her back and agreed to try it. She came over one day, stripped naked (I stayed clothed per the book's instructions), and we assumed the somewhat complicated but very intimate position the book called for. We did everything we had read and sure enough she reached orgasm in less than the 15 minutes the book predicted. She soaked the absorbent pad she had brought with her, noting that she squirted - sometimes a lot. Afterward she cleaned up, dressed, thanked me, and left.

That was one of the strangest sexual things I have ever experienced.

 

[AZsurfer45]

This actually happened to me. One day, out of the blue, a woman I knew but didn't consider to be a close friend, called me and asked if I would help her practice something she had read about in a book. It was about a man masturbating a woman by using the position and techniques presented in the book. She said her husband was too straight-laced to even talk about it, that it must be a total secret between she and i, and that it can never lead to anything more than following the instructions in the book. I told her I'd consider it and let her know.

I did think about it for a while, mindful of the negative consequences if things got out of control. And I ordered the book and read it. I guess the small head won out because I called her back and agreed to try it. She came over one day, stripped naked (I stayed clothed per the book's instructions), and we assumed the somewhat complicated but very intimate position the book called for. We did everything we had read and sure enough she reached orgasm in less than the 15 minutes the book predicted. She soaked the absorbent pad she had brought with her, noting that she squirted - sometimes a lot. Afterward she cleaned up, dressed, thanked me, and left.

That was one of the strangest sexual things I have ever experienced.

What was the technique?

 

[write_or_wrong]

What was the technique?

It involved me sitting up in bed with her half sitting on my lap and half lying down. I had one arm around her as in cuddling and holding her, and the other was down towards her crotch so I could use a finger to massage up and down along her clit. There was some preliminary activity like me admiring her body and specifically commenting on the desirability of her vulva. But no oral, no kissing, and she wasn't supposed to touch me in any sexual way. I simply, and softly, caressed the side of her clit - up and down - until she came. I think it was supposed to be an exercise that made her comfortable, made her feel wanted and cared for, but helped her achieve her own climax by concentrating only on the pleasuring I was doing, with no thought about pleasuring me. Very interesting, and it certainly worked.

BTW, the book also presented exercises by which she could have pleasured me, but that was out of bounds for her.

 

[jchtlit]

I searched around and didn’t see a discussion on the topic, but apologies if it has already come up.

Hypothetically, if a friend came to you asking for you to help them with something of a sexual nature, something they could not get safely or discreetly without your participation, would you consider helping them out?

It doesn’t necessarily have to be sex, per se. Maybe they just haven’t had a good cuddle in a long time and need one. Or maybe they have a desire to touch you. Maybe they just want to watch you, or be watched by you? Maybe they have an unsatisfied fetish they are asking for your help in exploring.

If someone you know and trust, but is just a friend, not a romantic partner, asked you for a favor, would you consider it? I’m curious to hear what people would or wouldn’t do, or have done for a friend before. Or perhaps what “rules” would have to be in place for you to consider it.

Just an idea to ponder and have fun with.

I would consider helping a friend out - but with an understanding that is I need help they would help me if they could.

 

[Pingpong59]

I would try to help out a friend. I guess how far i would go depends on whether the friend was male or female and what they wanted help with.