Ok, so I love my man. That being said, despite having been a swinger with his ex wife for several years of their marriage and some time before it even, apparently, he's quite vanilla. I'm at a loss bc I am not but I'm also not the most experienced person either. I've done my share of things and I've found some things that I rather enjoy. I like being tied up, I like tying people up, role playing and the general give and take of excitement through teasing. I'm pretty open and I know what my limits are. I let my lovers know this as well. He shows very little interest in exploring things sexually. He's older then I am by 7 years and feels that he has " sewn his wild oats already". I have not. I'm not interested in being with anyone else but I have a wild imagination and there are things that I really wish he would do to me/for me. Or let me do to him. I've tried talking about it, seems to go nowhere other then a blow to his ego. I'm a pretty tackful person so I feel I've put it as best I can.
Before everyone here says " split" or " this is more like couples counsling area" I'm posting here b/c he seems to have a thing for being slightly pinned down. He doesn't ask for it, but often when I'm on top he seems to enjoy having his hands pinned under mine. He also seems to like it when I get the notion to just come at him, very aggressivly and passionatly as if all I really wanna do is fuck the shit out of him and I take control. So everyone is going " well duh, he's submissive. " maybe, but I don't know if these are signs that he is and if he is how do I explore that without scaring him? Even better question is does anyone have any suggestions on how I can be more dominate given that I'M usually the submissive one? I mean I enjoy games but usually I'm the " victum" or the innocent girl next door...lol. Anyone with suggestions, I am more then open to trying. Either pm or leave a message here....thanks for reading!
Before everyone here says " split" or " this is more like couples counsling area" I'm posting here b/c he seems to have a thing for being slightly pinned down. He doesn't ask for it, but often when I'm on top he seems to enjoy having his hands pinned under mine. He also seems to like it when I get the notion to just come at him, very aggressivly and passionatly as if all I really wanna do is fuck the shit out of him and I take control. So everyone is going " well duh, he's submissive. " maybe, but I don't know if these are signs that he is and if he is how do I explore that without scaring him? Even better question is does anyone have any suggestions on how I can be more dominate given that I'M usually the submissive one? I mean I enjoy games but usually I'm the " victum" or the innocent girl next door...lol. Anyone with suggestions, I am more then open to trying. Either pm or leave a message here....thanks for reading!
If you prefer, though, you could always push him down toward your cunt. I just like giving head so much it will happen very early on, every time I'm in charge.
