HARDKOREBJ
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i am doing the love thing all wrong.i ask out lots of them.i guess im doing something right.someone e-mail me and i may try something.
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Tabby432
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I'm not sure what kind of help you're looking for but I'll give you some advice.
Stop looking for the love of your life online. The written word is not your strong point.
What are your best qualities? Figure out what they are and do something in real life that shows them off.
You like physical activity? Join a gym.
You're a caring guy? Volunteer localy.
You're interested in learning something new? Take a class.
It doesn't matter what it is. Find something that shows off your strong points and interests in a way you can meet people. Get to know them. Make friends. Someone you meet will be the one for you.
Stop looking for the love of your life online. The written word is not your strong point.
What are your best qualities? Figure out what they are and do something in real life that shows them off.
You like physical activity? Join a gym.
You're a caring guy? Volunteer localy.
You're interested in learning something new? Take a class.
It doesn't matter what it is. Find something that shows off your strong points and interests in a way you can meet people. Get to know them. Make friends. Someone you meet will be the one for you.
Shy Tall Guy
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BJ - what Tabby said.
I would suggest Yahoo personals or something like that, but I have to believe you come across better in person than online.
I would suggest Yahoo personals or something like that, but I have to believe you come across better in person than online.
HARDKOREBJ
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well
i`ve tried everything.gyms are just to expensive.if i wasn`t so tired after work i would take a class.for some reason i just don`t do nothing right.
i`ve tried everything.gyms are just to expensive.if i wasn`t so tired after work i would take a class.for some reason i just don`t do nothing right.
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Maybe you should work on your typing skills if you are going to try to pick up women online. There are these things called capital letters, then go at the beginning of sentences and also when you use the word I. There are also these things called spaces, you put them after periods.
Lastly, "don't do nothing right" is a double negative, it should be "don't do anything right"
HARDKOREBJ said:
Maybe you should work on your typing skills if you are going to try to pick up women online. There are these things called capital letters, then go at the beginning of sentences and also when you use the word I. There are also these things called spaces, you put them after periods.
Lastly, "don't do nothing right" is a double negative, it should be "don't do anything right"
Mischka
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Re: well
BJ, happiness is not going to fall into your lap. You have to go find it. If you are not happy right now, then you have to change something about your life. Tabby gave you great ideas, if you are only willing to make the time to do them. Your current life is not making you happy - so why are you insisting on keeping everything the same? People with far greater problems than you have overcome them and found their true happiness. Now get out there and do the same.
BJ, if you've tried everything, then why are you asking for help? You've demonstrated that you are absolutely unwilling to change any aspect of your life, so what exactly are you expecting people to say? Until you make a conscious effort to change your life, then you are right - nothing will change. You will continue on the same path, complaining about your lack of social life and your physical pain. We'll hear the same laments from you a week from now, and a month from now, and a year from now, and... Get the picture?HARDKOREBJ said:
BJ, happiness is not going to fall into your lap. You have to go find it. If you are not happy right now, then you have to change something about your life. Tabby gave you great ideas, if you are only willing to make the time to do them. Your current life is not making you happy - so why are you insisting on keeping everything the same? People with far greater problems than you have overcome them and found their true happiness. Now get out there and do the same.
Problem Child
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Hardkore, how about shutting up for say, a week or so? How about giving us a fucking break from your whining?
You're obviously here just to propagate your own pity party, and not much else.
Give us all a break and push away from your computer for a while.
You're obviously here just to propagate your own pity party, and not much else.
Give us all a break and push away from your computer for a while.
SweetBrat73
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Online Love 
Just had to say that I found my love online We met on ICQ and talked for along time...well about a year...not real long LoL anyhow it's the best thing that ever happened to me and I wasn't even looking for anybody...your special somebody will come along probably when you least expect it...hang in there hon
Just had to say that I found my love online
We met on ICQ and talked for along time...well about a year...not real long LoL anyhow it's the best thing that ever happened to me and I wasn't even looking for anybody...your special somebody will come along probably when you least expect it...hang in there hon Similar threads
