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[comairboy77]

I am in a confused situation. My wife has told me she is bisexual and now I can deal with the fact. Is there any guys or gals in this situation or has been in this situation that can help me. I am going to tell her today that she has to make a choice on wether she wants to stay married or leave

 

[neonflux]

But what does that mean?

My heart goes out to you. I am sorry for the turmoil you are going through.

I am bisexual woman. I have had a 7 year monogamous relationship with a man followed by a 14 year monogamous relationship with a woman. (Neither of these two relationships ended because of my bisexuality.) A bisexual identity is just that, it does not automatically mean that one must have relationships with people of more than one gender at any given point in time...

Do you love her? If so, what do you really want to happen? Have you asked her what this understanding of her sexuality means for her? What does she want from your relationship together, etc? Have you been able to figure out what your biggest concerns are? What are you most worried about?

Hopefully the questions helped...

 

[ethanjones1943]

I am in a confused situation. My wife has told me she is bisexual and now I can deal with the fact. Is there any guys or gals in this situation or has been in this situation that can help me. I am going to tell her today that she has to make a choice on wether she wants to stay married or leave

As a bi guy I think if you love her you should learn to accept her and this situation. You might even come to love it

Ethan

 

[comairboy77]

heres the scoop

She just told me yesterday after all my suspicions she has been with this woman several times. I told her that i will try to accept it on one condition that she show me the same attention and affection the she shows this other woman. One thing I have going for me is the fact the woman is in another state.