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Weird Harold
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Tressa said:
go to http://www.literotica.com/stories/member_search.php and search for the author Hullo_Nurse. She has a tutorial in the How To story section on blowjobs that has gotten very good reviews.
lazarus UK
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Alternatively,
There isn't a right way, there's only what works for you.
Concentrate a bit on what you are doing and do it for you. Not just a mouth thing either, hands, fingernails - whatever you fancy, at whatever pace. Teach yourself.
Apart from anything else, if you enjoy yourself it should turn him on.
Try listening to him and his body as you do it - his breathing, his movements, how things feel. Tune into it.
Tell him to lie still and quiet and enjoy yourself - you'll be surprised how much of a hurry he isn't in!
Of course when he is ... you could slow down a bit. It's not a race. For a guy the best part can be the moment just before he cums - so try to stretch that part forever.
Have fun.
There isn't a right way, there's only what works for you.
Concentrate a bit on what you are doing and do it for you. Not just a mouth thing either, hands, fingernails - whatever you fancy, at whatever pace. Teach yourself.
Apart from anything else, if you enjoy yourself it should turn him on.
Try listening to him and his body as you do it - his breathing, his movements, how things feel. Tune into it.
Tell him to lie still and quiet and enjoy yourself - you'll be surprised how much of a hurry he isn't in!
Of course when he is ... you could slow down a bit. It's not a race. For a guy the best part can be the moment just before he cums - so try to stretch that part forever.
Have fun.
Sateema Lunasi
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Basic Rules of giving head:
1. Don't let your teeth touch him.
2. Use your tongue with the sucking. Lick a lot.
3. Traeat it like a lollipop, really, ust like a sucker.
4. Remember that the most sensitive part is the head, the shaft is just a bonus.
5. Lube up your hand (spit on it or use lube) and hold the shaft while you go down on it. Move your hand like your mouth. This gives the sensation that you are going all the way down even if you are not.
6. Relax your mouth and throat muscles and don't be affraid of it.
7. Using a flavored oil is often more pleasurable for you. Warming oil is even better. (I reccomend Kama Sutra warming oils or Hot Licks. They work.)
8. Make some noise. Get into it. A good trick is to hum while his penis is in your mouth. The vibration is very sexy. Seriously, just hum a song or something.
9. Flicker your tongue against the underpart of the head.
10: Use a rythom. Use a pattern. Use it to tease him. Like you are sucking on him and you do 1, 2, 3 little sucks on the head, then on the forth, you take the whole thing in your mouth. Tease him with the pattern, make him wait for it. He will know you will take it all on the fourth count, but slow down number three to an excrutiating slowness. Then, go all the way down on it.
11. Use your imagination. Be creative.
12. Every once in a while, just go down on him like an animal. When he walks in the room, just look at him long and deep and then drop to your knees, open up his pants and go at him. This works like a charm for me. His IQ goes down five points every time. Pretty soon, he will forget basic math.
13. Use your breath. When you blow air out it is cool, and when you just breath on it, it is hot. makes a nice sensation.
14. Have two cups of water next to you. One of ice water and one of hot water. Drink the cold water and go down on him so your mouth is cool, then switch to the hot. Where I am from, this is called "French Twist."
15. Either you swallow or you don't. Guys of course like it when you swallow, but there are other creative ways to let him go off without swallowing it.
a.) The simple way, let him come on your breasts, or better, between them.
b.) Have a warm cloth prepared and bring him off with a handjob and the warm wet cloth in your hand. This tends to work VERY well.
c.) Of course you can always take it in your mouth then spit it out in a cup or something.
16. Rub his thighs and use your fingernails lightly while going down on him. Be careful not to tickle him though. Tickles often kill the erotic sensation if it is not expected. It is more of a shock sensation.
17. Also remember that blow jobs do not have to be really long. A 30 minute blow job is good, but a 5 minute blow job can be just as good with the right moves and expertise.
Happy sucking,
S
1. Don't let your teeth touch him.
2. Use your tongue with the sucking. Lick a lot.
3. Traeat it like a lollipop, really, ust like a sucker.
4. Remember that the most sensitive part is the head, the shaft is just a bonus.
5. Lube up your hand (spit on it or use lube) and hold the shaft while you go down on it. Move your hand like your mouth. This gives the sensation that you are going all the way down even if you are not.
6. Relax your mouth and throat muscles and don't be affraid of it.
7. Using a flavored oil is often more pleasurable for you. Warming oil is even better. (I reccomend Kama Sutra warming oils or Hot Licks. They work.)
8. Make some noise. Get into it. A good trick is to hum while his penis is in your mouth. The vibration is very sexy. Seriously, just hum a song or something.
9. Flicker your tongue against the underpart of the head.
10: Use a rythom. Use a pattern. Use it to tease him. Like you are sucking on him and you do 1, 2, 3 little sucks on the head, then on the forth, you take the whole thing in your mouth. Tease him with the pattern, make him wait for it. He will know you will take it all on the fourth count, but slow down number three to an excrutiating slowness. Then, go all the way down on it.
11. Use your imagination. Be creative.
12. Every once in a while, just go down on him like an animal. When he walks in the room, just look at him long and deep and then drop to your knees, open up his pants and go at him. This works like a charm for me. His IQ goes down five points every time. Pretty soon, he will forget basic math.
13. Use your breath. When you blow air out it is cool, and when you just breath on it, it is hot. makes a nice sensation.
14. Have two cups of water next to you. One of ice water and one of hot water. Drink the cold water and go down on him so your mouth is cool, then switch to the hot. Where I am from, this is called "French Twist."
15. Either you swallow or you don't. Guys of course like it when you swallow, but there are other creative ways to let him go off without swallowing it.
a.) The simple way, let him come on your breasts, or better, between them.
b.) Have a warm cloth prepared and bring him off with a handjob and the warm wet cloth in your hand. This tends to work VERY well.
c.) Of course you can always take it in your mouth then spit it out in a cup or something.
16. Rub his thighs and use your fingernails lightly while going down on him. Be careful not to tickle him though. Tickles often kill the erotic sensation if it is not expected. It is more of a shock sensation.
17. Also remember that blow jobs do not have to be really long. A 30 minute blow job is good, but a 5 minute blow job can be just as good with the right moves and expertise.
Happy sucking,
S
cymbidia
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Really good advice posted previously. I'll just add that sex is all about communication. *Talk* to your guy about what he likes. Ask him to help you, maybe to hold your head while his cock is in your mouth and guide you in what feels best to him.
Here's a link to some very good, very basic info on giving good head: http://www.halcyon.com/elf/altsex/fella.html
The "no teeth" rule is important but getting good at not biting or scraping comes with practice; don't beat yourself up if/when you leave a few marks on his dick. They'll go away. ~wink~
Find a way to so eroticize sucking him off that you'll get wildly aroused every time you do it. There's nothing sexier than someone touching you and getting obviously hot in the process, right? Same thing for men and blowjobs; they love it (more) when it makes you wet and flushed to be doing it.
Don't worry so much about doing a "good" job. Try, instead, to do whatever it takes to please him.
Here's a link to some very good, very basic info on giving good head: http://www.halcyon.com/elf/altsex/fella.html
The "no teeth" rule is important but getting good at not biting or scraping comes with practice; don't beat yourself up if/when you leave a few marks on his dick. They'll go away. ~wink~
Find a way to so eroticize sucking him off that you'll get wildly aroused every time you do it. There's nothing sexier than someone touching you and getting obviously hot in the process, right? Same thing for men and blowjobs; they love it (more) when it makes you wet and flushed to be doing it.
Don't worry so much about doing a "good" job. Try, instead, to do whatever it takes to please him.
