Help!!!!!

[burrish]

I need some advice. I am a 26 year old female that has raging hormons. My husband used to tell me all the time that once a week wasn't enough for him that sometimes he wished I woud do it more. Well earlier this month I turned 26 and my sex drive has really taken over me. I want to have sex with him 5 and 6 times a day... He says now that I am wearing him out and he can't keep up with me. I have no idea what happend or how come all of a sudden I am like this, but now I am not getting enough sex. I have a b.o.b but that just isn't doing it for me, I want him to cum inside me, to bite and scratch and to just fuck his brains out all the time. It has gotten so bad that I have thought about having an affair. What can I do, this is driving me crazy!!! Please Help!!!

I see some people have read the message but they aren't answering , i am serious please help me

 

[Mr.G]

READ

the TRY THIS AND REPORT BACK thread. If he can't keep up or worse can't keep IT up then this is perfect. He'll be able to totally exhaust you, satisfy you to the piint of passing out (and coming to still cuming BTW) and all he'll need is elbow replacement surgery.

Once you get going with this technique you will find it highly addictive so if you thought you were horny before...

Anway I don't care what kind of shape you're in or how much you want/need sex - this technique can completely FRAG every woman I've ever seen. The orgasms are deep, almost constant, body convulsing, mind blowing shrieking drooling passing out kind of O's - So that's good.

You can combine it with a good tongue lashing or a good spanking (you sound like you deserve one - thinking about fucking around on him) and so many other permutations. You can use toys but I still like the thumb in, you face down just being turned into a bright red, sweating puddle as he MAKES you cum so hard and so often that you pass out. It is an AWESOME feeling to keep your thumb in there and just at the second she come to you start again and as she wakes up she starts to cum again - hard. Repeat this until you don't even need his thumb to cum. just watching him wet his lips the next morning will make you orgasm.

This is FUN !!

The good thing about this is he doesn't actually need his dick for this. He can keep you happy and you don't have to risk getting carved on by some weirdo you met in a bar or having some nasty deadly bugs injected up your butt by a stranger.... or something really bad.

my 2¢ anyway.

 

[Mstrskey]

Alright.
First off I don't recommend having an affair or even extramarital sex to quench the raging sex drive you say is the problem. Nor do I recommend that you cajole or plead or do any of those other lil tricks we women are so good at to get what you want from your husband. Yeah sure we all like a good fuck now and then but good sex between a husband and wife should have some substance to it to be worthwhile- IMHO! If you have him doing it just to make you happy he won't be getting any enjoyment from it and that is a recipe for disaster.

Now then, first off I would suggest masturbation and lots of it! And no you don't have to always use BOB. Use your very own fingers, use the shower head- invest in a massage feature it works wonders!!! Try to find new and innovative ways to get yourself off when you know your hubby can't always be available to you. Expecting sex 5-6 times a day is really a bit much in the really real world even from somebody who has a sex drive to match your own.

Next I would ask what was your sexual experience prior to your relationship with your husband? Were you experienced or was he your first serious relationship sexually and physically and psychologically. I know when I knew that my husband was ' the one" I was pretty much overcome with a wanting for him that I hadn't experienced before then. Something about knowing that the other person in bed with you has that whole package you're looking for makes them quite a bit more attratctive to you then a guy your just fucking cuz he looked hot across the bar. If you weren't very experienced before you may be enjoying the fact that you now have a trusted partner with which to experiment and that may have kicked up your libido. You know this isn't somebody who's going to walk away if you suddenly start begging to be tied up or talk dirty during sex. You may feel a freedom with him you haven't with other lovers and that has increased your desire.

I know it can be annoying to walk around in a perpetual state of horniness but you also need to understand that your husband is there as more then your sexual plaything and respect that he is being honest and saying it's to much for him. Don't let your hormones dictate your actions. It comes to no good in the long run.
Other then lots of good healthy masturbation and indulging in a healthy fantasy life I dunno what to tell you.

 

[English Lady]

hello burrish! It must be quite distressing to have such a change in sex drive! I am not sure i can help you,but maybe it's just a phase and your over active hormones will slow down eventually?


I have a high sex drive anyway but when i was pregnant i was even more insaitable! Not that i am suggesting you're pregnant*L*


Hmm....if it really worries you I suggest visiting your GP and just talking it over. it is probably just natural,but hearing that from a professional might help you feel better!

 

[sheath]

I've gone through phases in which I felt as though I HAD to have sex, a dozen times a day. Those are just phases, but they are pretty rough to get through sometimes.

Most of the time? I'm so sexually charged, I could easily have sex five times a day. Easily. Every fucking day.

My man has a good sex drive, one that rivals mine on occasion, but we are not together that often right now. So I have to deal. How do I deal? At first, I masturbated like crazy, but pretty soon that became rather mechanical. I started a thread, How to deal with a raging libido? , and the suggestions there helped enormously.

When we are together, and we don't have the time to have sex all the time, we usually set aside one day every now and then to just satisfy each other. We send the kids off to visit a family member for a night. We lock ourselves in the bedroom and go at it, for an entire day and night. We try every position, every idea, every single thing we have wanted to do but didn't have the time to do. We absolutely, completely wear ourselves out. We are sore for days afterward. It works well for those times when we both just want sex so badly that it's killing us!

And never underestimate the power of quickies. If your husband can get away for five minutes during his lunch hour, a scratching, biting, attacking fuck against the back of the front door will do wonders for your libido for the rest of the day.

Take what you can get...try to calm yourself down when you can't get it...and when you both have the time, go at it like there's no tomorrow. And never forget that lovemaking is just as necessary as that hard fuck, and even more fulfilling. Make time for both, when you have the chance to devote yourselves fully to nothing but pleasure.

S.

 

[burrish]

Thank you for all your input. there was a question about if he is my first, well no i have a son from a previous relationship, but me and my husband have been together for 5 years now and we have tried everything we could ever think of. but for some reason the last two months i can't get enough, i promised him i would talk or act sexy today just to give him a break. i am not pregnant though because after i had my last son who is now 6 months old i got fixed so that we wouldn't have anymore.
what exactly is that tenique that the first or second post mentioned. i didn't quite understand it, something to do with the thumb. i am horny as hell sitting here watching him cook, but i know after doing it 4 times yesturday he doesn't even want to think about it, he even said that he hasn't even been giving himself hand jobs becasue we have been doing it so much, I can't stand this, i need something.

 

[sheath]

i am horny as hell sitting here watching him cook, but i know after doing it 4 times yesturday he doesn't even want to think about it, he even said that he hasn't even been giving himself hand jobs becasue we have been doing it so much, I can't stand this, i need something.

Well, first of all, stop watching him cook. Watching a man cook is like throwing gasoline on a firestorm of desire. It will get you simmering like that big ole pot, every damn time.

Are you trying masturbation? Maybe go for a run when it gets unbearable. Hell, even go outside and fire up the lawn mower, and attack the yard. Work up a sweat and make yourself tired. It helps when you think that if you don't fuck soon, you will scream yourself to death.

S.

 

[burrish]

thank you all for your support, i hate to say that nothing has worked for me all day. me and hubby even agreed that i wouldn't make any comments or gestures all day or i had to give up one of my cigs. and those are precious to me, so i have been really behaving myself all day, i have only given up two so far. i have tried a lot of masterbation, so much so that in the last month i had to change BOB's batteries twice. I went on that walk and that seemed to get me even more worked up so I am at a lose here on what else to try, but i am afraid that if i do or say something to day that i will turn my hubby off for good, or at least for a long period of time. today we even went to his parents house to see if being around other people would get my mind of things and of course it didn't. so i'm screwed but not in the way i would like to be.
so anyway thanks for the advice and hopefully it will work for someone, but for me i will just lay in bed playing with myself and going crazy at the same time
THANK YOU ALL and what a great site you have

 

[Noor]

Have you had anything that might cause hormone changes recently or has this excessive horniness been going on since you gave birth and got fixed?

When I got off the pill last time I was totally out of control, also some meds can effect people that way.

I would speak to your gyno, although all mine did when I tried to talk to her was throw condoms at me and lecture about pregnancy at my advanced age
My urologist was more helpful which seemed strange but urologists deal a lot with mens sexual issues.

 

[The_old_man]

If this is a suden onset type of increace I would strongly sugest medical consultation. My wife experienced a similar desire increece several years ago, turned out to be a small cist inside the clit-hood. The cyst kept her clit slightly iritated, just enough to keep her horny.

See an Md.

 

[Lust Engine]

If this is a suden onset type of increace I would strongly sugest medical consultation. My wife experienced a similar desire increece several years ago, turned out to be a small cist inside the clit-hood. The cyst kept her clit slightly iritated, just enough to keep her horny.

See an Md.

Wow..that sounds spooky. Hopefully everything's okay with the Mrs. there.

But as far as the original post goes, I guess seeing a doctor & explaining your increase in libido couldn't hurt. Let them know that it is a concern. If they find absolutely nothing wrong medically... I guess masturbation would be my only suggestion, but perhaps much more creative ways to masturbate.

Good luck!

 

[pecan9676]

I understand how you feel, I have had months where sex is the only thing on my mind, and I can't seem to get enough. Try manual masturbation, not "bob" ,takes a little longer to get off but by the time you do you might make it thru the next few hours in peace.

 

[peachykeen]

What do you mean, "got fixed"? Were you broken?

 

[Rubber Biscuit]

damn, damn, damn, damn, DAMN......... Now I need to go whack off again.

 

[burrish]

Well i got fixed (my tubes tied) right after i had my last son who is now almost 6 months old. this increase in sex drive has only started in the last month and a half and only grew with each new day. i have done the masterbation thing but the probably with that is i don't always want to get off myself. alot of the time i just want to suck his dick or fuck his brains out. so masterbation wouldn't help me there. so i would have to rule out the cyst thing as well. i don't want to go to the doc just yet becasue like i said this has only started in the last month and a half, maybe if this continues for another two months i may call the doc and see if i have a hormone in balance. But i want to thank all of you for your support and help in my hunger for more sex, i will report back and let you know how things are going with me and when it slows down or what the doc says should i go sometime soon.
THANK YOU ALL

 

[Lust Engine]

I guess if there's ANYTHING that makes you change either emotionally or physically, it never hurts to confer with the medical professionals.

Why take a chance?

Good luck.

 

[Braveheart712]

Burrish, my first thought here, are you bipolar? It is not uncommon for bipolar people to have adnormal cravings, to have behavior swings like you have decribed here. While I think 4 or 5 times a week could be normal, I'm a little concerned that you went from maybe once a week to having a contant craving. I think consulting your general practioner or OB/GYN would not be a bad idea, just to be safe. My other thought was that maybe since you have removed the chance of pregnancy that you feel a little more liberated since you know either conciously or subconsiously that your actions will not result in a child, you might feel a lot less restructed and maybe you acting on these desires you were suppressing before. Again, these are my ideas but I do think it is up to a trained medical professional to make sure as to what is happeneing.

 

[Lust Engine]

I think we're all in agreement here... seek medical advice just to be safe.

Let your husband in on in too. He might need to be re-assured you're going to be okay and vice versa.

 

[burrish]

idon't know if anyone has put two and two together yet but my sex drive is now non-exitent after i found my hubby cheated on my 2 years ago i am not turned on my him but we are working on things so maybe i will need this post again in the future. thanks for everyones help

 

[sheath]

idon't know if anyone has put two and two together yet but my sex drive is now non-exitent after i found my hubby cheated on my 2 years ago i am not turned on my him but we are working on things so maybe i will need this post again in the future. thanks for everyones help

I thought of that when I saw your 'cheating' thread for the first time. To go from being so riled up to being hit with something like what he told you must be quite a shock. I can imagine your sex drive hit zero in an instant.

I hope things work out for you.

S.

 

[Icingsugar]

i have done the masterbation thing but the probably with that is i don't always want to get off myself. alot of the time i just want to suck his dick or fuck his brains out.

Well, if it's sex with your man that you are in such bad need of, and his dear old mini-me can't keep up, you should keep in mind that he really doesn't have to be able to get it up to service you sexually. There is something called a hand job, you know. As it happens, my lady and I find ourselves out of sync hornyness-wise now and then. A fast, furious fingering in the elevator is one her personal favourites. I do it not because I'm horny, but becuse she is and I love her. Honestly, if your guy can't give you that, then you need to think long and hard about the two of you. I'm not crying divorce here, mind you. But does he know how you feel about this?