Help with Anal

[TreshasMaster]

Me and my property, wish to start working on getting her ready for anal. We need advice. We have done it a few times but honestly it hurts way to much for her right now. We need advice on moving us along and I really wish it to be a pleasant and fulfilling experience for her. Any advice will help. Thanks.

 

[kismet999]

Time. You must take things slowly. Glacial slowly.

Lubrication. Lots of lube. Also, you might need to experiment with many different types of lube before finding the perfect one. Think of shopping and trying lube as foreplay.

Work smaller to larger. Start with small fingers or toys. Only work up to a larger size when your partner asks for it. If she never asks, then that is a clue.

Let her ask for more. This isn't a race. See #1 above.

 

[toocuriousforme]

Time. You must take things slowly. Glacial slowly.

Lubrication. Lots of lube. Also, you might need to experiment with many different types of lube before finding the perfect one. Think of shopping and trying lube as foreplay.

Work smaller to larger. Start with small fingers or toys. Only work up to a larger size when your partner asks for it. If she never asks, then that is a clue.

Let her ask for more. This isn't a race. See #1 above.

What he said. I moved too fast once, learned the lesson. Slow. It's still hot.

 

[Y_Diner]

Hmmmmm. Even before embarking on my late in life discovery of cock, a precursor event for me, for over a year, has been playing with my ass in the shower, using my finger to explore. Especially if you use an anti-bacteria soap such as Dial (been handed a travel bar of it more than once as prep for surgery, told to wash all over with it just before surgery. That's a pretty good endorsement if you ask me), you really need not fear infection. Wash your ass, wash your hands, and if so, shit is no big deal. The exploration, (if you're lucky/diligent you figure out - maybe from videos - how to do a self prostate massage), and the gently opening oneself up at one's own pace, seem ideal to me. I was more than ready for my first ass fucking.