Help My Wife Take The Plunge!

[12to8]

You've heard it before. He's ready, she's nervous.

My wife wants to undress in front of others, feel your hand on her body, touch a females nipple, lick his cock, feel a pussy rub against her mound, let you ride her from behind while she sucks my cock, watch you and your partner fuck, watch me suck him, jerk two cocks off and on and on and on.....

She wants to do it but is afraid and shy to make the plans. Trick me, she says. Tie me up, blindfold me and make it happen, she says. Surprise me, she says. Tell the girl to pick me up, she says.

Give me some ideas. How can we start. Once in the grove I fear she may take control and become the facilitator. Fear....naaaa.

If the Tread is successful I'll share our adventure with you. Maybe more.

 

[chrk1]

nice pic. i'm too far away, and my wife wouldn't participate. good luck anyway.

 

[lakedipper]

Take your wife on a trip. In my humble opinion women tend to loosen up when they are away from their familiar surroundings. You seem to have been given the green light to take charge. Tell her what to wear, and pick out something sexy. Go shopping, she'll like that, and pick out something she wouldn't buy by herself. Nice resturant, strip club to be naughty, or even a swing club if you are gutsy enough for that sort of thing.

 

[badger9]

Hedonism

How 'bout traveling down to Jamaica, and visiting one of the Hedonism resorts? A little drink, and lots of horny nekkid folks who would be more than willing to help out.

 

[quimlapper]

weeene

Let her know who's boss. Smack her upside the head, strip her and let the boys gang fuck the bitch. Just kidding, but it's a really difficult thing to go from fantasy to reality. Most of us guys would just go for it, but I think women are more inclined to be satisfied with the fantasy. I think your best bet would be to get her in a relaxed situation that does',t have the feel of a set up (women hate that) and let things take thier natural course. Then again you can always get her really really drunk....

 

[12to8]

There's a young lady who's had her eye on my wife and......

I've thought about approaching her.

My Bride enjoys being tied to our stair case in a sitting, spread eagle position. She'll usually put on her heels, half bra and black leg warmers for me.

I wonder how she would react to my blindfolding her and bringing in our visitor to break her in. Perhaps our friend's tongue on her open cavity may start things in motion.

I should take a pic of this position so you will know what I mean and perhaps get some better ideas?

 

[Warmslide]

I've thought about approaching her.

My Bride enjoys being tied to our stair case in a sitting, spread eagle position. She'll usually put on her heels, half bra and black leg warmers for me.

I wonder how she would react to my blindfolding her and bringing in our visitor to break her in. Perhaps our friend's tongue on her open cavity may start things in motion.

I should take a pic of this position so you will know what I mean and perhaps get some better ideas?

Dam...ever think of a vacation trip to New england...I am very good at playing this game...

 

[12to8]

Dam...ever think of a vacation trip to New england...I am very good at playing this game...

We get up to CT ocassionally, Warmslide. If you don't have a banaster I'd settle for tying her to one of those huge boulders you guys have up there.

I get a hard on everytime we drive up near R.I. on 95 and I look out into the woods and see those rock deposits. I tell the Bride how I would love to pull over and pound one into her on some granite.

 

[Warmslide]

We get up to CT ocassionally, Warmslide. If you don't have a banaster I'd settle for tying her to one of those huge boulders you guys have up there.

I get a hard on everytime we drive up near R.I. on 95 and I look out into the woods and see those rock deposits. I tell the Bride how I would love to pull over and pound one into her on some granite.

Interesting....I work quite often in CT....I am sure we could find a spot to tie her up and let me lick her....

 

[12to8]

I'm still searching for methods...

She really is a wonderful woman. Caring, loving, thoughtful,brave-curtious-kind....(opps, I often revert back to my Boy Scout oath). AND a real slut wanna-be.

Last night we went down to a great restaurant in South Philly, The New Wave Cafe. Sat at the bar. She had a gin & tonic and I had my first vodka/martini (yummy but one's the limit on the street). We shared an order of mussels and flatbread with roasted red peppers and glazed onions. Gosh, I have to learn how to make flatbread.

Anyway, she remarks about the cute young guy next to her and his hair cut. "Tell him you like it", I say. She does and they talk. She's happy with their conversation and I'm happy she's happy, But I'm also happy about my hard dick in my pants.

I love watching her talk to guys. She is so cute and honest and real...they feel at ease with her and no one gets fresh.

Except me.

"Pull down your top", I tell whisper and we have a good laugh. That's my new thing with her. I walk in the room and say, "Pull down your top". You had to be there?!?

Anyway, we decide to leave and walk the streets for a bit looking at the old houses (very expensive) and she remarks how she loved sitting on her Aunt's "stoop" in a neighborhood like this. We sit on a stoop with her between my legs, her back to me. In minutes my hand is in her blouse and I'm carressing her breasts. It's so hot knowing people are walking within yards of us, but we're in the semi dark. I tell her I have a rubber in my pocket and I wanted to invite the young man in the bar to come outside with us so he could ram his dick into her in the shadows of a building out here.

She moanded, "I would like that". Boink goes my dick again.

When we got home, with the lights out, I I held her and while kissing her pulled her top open as she slid her pants down. She pulled my cock out. I sucked on her tits and pushed her down to suck on me. I spoke to her like a stranger having his first fuck with her. I told her I was glad to meet her and now I was going to fuck her and maybe my two friends would fuck her after me. She said, "Come on, fuck me hard, you and your friends!".

I handed her the rubber and she tore it out of the wrapper and rolled it onto my stiff cock. I turned her around and slid it real fast and hard into her, all the time ordering her to do things. Bend the fuck over, swing your big tits, rub your pussy, spread your legs wider, lift your leg up. We were having a fabulous time of it. We were both higher than all hell. My cock felt like it was 2 foot long and I could pump forever....until I made the mistake of slipping a finger into my beloveds ass and she let out a soulfull moan.

KABLOOEEEE. I blew out my entire fluid content. I thought I would pass out. She thought I would have a stroke. I thought I died and went to HEAVEN!

Okay, now to the meat of this thread. I told her......"Honey, I really do want to watch you get fucked." "I want to do what we played doing". She said it was good and she liked the idea. She said maybe it will happen. I said, "It will happen!"

So get those ideas into me and if anyone likes the New Wave Cafe, maybe we'll bring a rubber or two or three with us.

 

[RickyRooster]

Playing With

TOTAL strangers is a bit risky. I've posted this advice on another thread but here goes again for what it's worth.

Join a swingers website that has a verification system. Pick a guy who has been verified, that is, who other members have met and vouched for as not being a weirdo/mad axe murderer/druggie etc. Chat on the phone, a few e-mail/pic/webcam exchanges to build up the sexual tension and then when all are happy with the situation and the role play arrange a meet.

This is a lot safer for you and your gorgeous horny wife. This way you at least know the guy is on the level and will respect your wishes and limits. This is essential in a situation where your wife would be immobilised and blindfolded. The fantasy of meeting a totally unknown stranger in a bar and inviting him to fuck your bound and blindfolded wife is extremely horny but if the guy gets carried away........................you know what I'm saying.

Swingers clubs are another excellent way of fulfilling your fantasy. A lot of them now have 'Greedy Girls' nights where you could watch your wife being fucked by as many guys and girls as she could handle.

I too love to watch my wife being pounded by several guys and this is the route we have taken.

Good luck. When it happens you'll love it.

 

[clit_licker30]

I like her pics. She has a very nice rack.

 

[bisexplicit]

I hope she has your permission to post those pictures...

 

[Matadore]

Ya know BI, I am always skeptical of someone talking about how much somebody else wants them to take charge and so on...not meaning to offend, just carries more weight when the source is primary.

 

[jvillcouple]

Her Decision

If this thread is real, it is her decision. She knows what kind of guy she wants to bang. Your selections might turn her off. If you both are serious, I suggest you get the house clean and send the children to grandma's. Then, go out to the bars and let her find the guy she wants to fuck. It's just not your decision. Invite him to the house, then or some other time, and let her seduce him. No red-blooded male will turn her down.

I had a MMF like that one time. I was the third male. She came on to me while he watched. They (she) invited me to their hotel room for a drink. In the room, she made the move. . . kissed me and felt my dick. He said something like "she's yours", and I got the message. It was great.

 

[BareHunter45]

I think I have the perfect solution.

You've heard it before. He's ready, she's nervous.

My wife wants to undress in front of others, feel your hand on her body, touch a females nipple, lick his cock, feel a pussy rub against her mound, let you ride her from behind while she sucks my cock, watch you and your partner fuck, watch me suck him, jerk two cocks off and on and on and on.....

She wants to do it but is afraid and shy to make the plans. Trick me, she says. Tie me up, blindfold me and make it happen, she says. Surprise me, she says. Tell the girl to pick me up, she says.

Give me some ideas. How can we start. Once in the grove I fear she may take control and become the facilitator. Fear....naaaa.

If the Tread is successful I'll share our adventure with you. Maybe more.

If your wife likes to be tied up, but is apprehensive about the adventure, she will need a little help, here is what I propose:

Since she is already used to being tied up, I would add a blindfold and headphones to her when she is tied up. I would not introduce anyone else yet. Play and make love to her just like you normally do so that she becomes used to being tie up, bllind folded and with her favorite music playing in her ears. Gradually I would add a few other twists just to keep her on her toes. For instance, I would use a didlo as part of the fantasy that someone else will join you, use rubber gloves so that she gets used to the touch of someone, or something other than your hands.

When the time is right, I would invite someone over to watch. YOU should film this too, so that you could show her later that there really was someone there. You can chose to tell her afterward or personally I would just let her think someone was there and increase her desire and titilate her even more. If you are bi, you could have a bi guy over to watch and have fun with him (by yourslef later). Video tape that too so that she may watch at a later time (when you think it best).

As she gets more used to the items that you add during your playtime, you can get more daring. Have someone join you, but not fully. For example, if your new person is male, they could start by rubbing her (and nothing else during that session). She will experience 4 hands on her and that will be her clue that something is different. If she really wants to continue, she ask for more. Would be best if she never even sees the videos....keep her guessing as to who it was.

Just a thought.

 

[kinky shy girl]

When she's ready, let her make the first step. Her wanting you to be in control might be a signal that she's still not that ready.

just from my own experiences, my honey and I have been talking, talking, talking about possible 3somes. Fantasizing about various scenarios has spiced up our sex life. Since we both want to be ready, we've only talked about it until now.

For me, a first step might be having sex in front of another person or another couple. Just have the 3rd party watch with little to no participation. We both agree that being watched would be thrilling enough for now. We haven't made any arrangements yet, but it's nice to think about the possibilities.

 

[12to8]

Yours is the best response so far, KinkyShyGirl:

When she's ready, let her make the first step. Her wanting you to be in control might be a signal that she's still not that ready.

just from my own experiences, my honey and I have been talking, talking, talking about possible 3somes. Fantasizing about various scenarios has spiced up our sex life. Since we both want to be ready, we've only talked about it until now.

For me, a first step might be having sex in front of another person or another couple. Just have the 3rd party watch with little to no participation. We both agree that being watched would be thrilling enough for now. We haven't made any arrangements yet, but it's nice to think about the possibilities.

That's us...talk, talk, talk and it's wonderful. Our talk thru sex is like role play. Sometimes we agree that our fantasies are so great and we'll stop at that and then she'll say something like, "But holding a strange cock again would be fun.", and we're back to planning again.

 

[ddawg]

im about 45 min from philly

 

[tomboy58]

New to this.. But..

We have crossed that line... And it is Worth it. I am the female half of this and YES I understand the Talk is HOT but crossing the line is hard.. even when you want to. It really can be good though. I Trust my hubby 110% to protect me and "read" me if I am not comfortable. THAT is crucial.

It is a Fine line on the Pros and Cons of strangers vs persons you know. I would NOT recommend just doing it with someone you have not met before, Except maybe in a swingers club that has standards. Yet, at the same time - meeting people/couples online has proven to be a catch.. because when you make friends with someone You can definitely feel threatened by the connection your spouse may have made.. Even when it is innocent enough. I really believed that it would be best to be comfortable with our playmates and be "friends" with them. But I have sort of come to believe that developing a connection with someone can lead to a loyalty to them..and then my spouse might "like" that person or feel an obligation. Even when I feel safe w/ hubby it is a scary possibility. Swinging to me can be dangerous terrritory and I like the idea of playing with someone we will not develop some kind of connection/relationship with -- That could distort either one of our Loyalties.

IF this makes any sense... But all that said... and the 3 experiences that we have had have been Incredible and Explosive.

There is a swingers club in Pittsburgh that I really would like to try. They have a website and they look very legit and no pressure and NO means NO. You could start by just getting off together in front of others.. I know that Us being in the room - watching other people getting off would be Very Hot. I know that from my perspective I want badly to watch hubby slam his cock in and out of another pussy while I suck her clit, but get anxious that I may worry afterward that there was a connection or he "liked" it too much.. AND if she was absolutely a stranger I could JUST enjoy the moment and not worry about any future contact.

So I would really like to try this club in Pitt, PA. It might be too far a drive for you but Check them out at swingers-palace.com
Suprise her with a weekend away to western PA and then take her to the "club"

Good LUCK with you Exploring.. I DEF. Recommend to her to TRY it....

 

[Miss Oatlash]

Mutt and I are available to assist.

Our Epic Passion...to be shared with anyone worthy.