Help Me Understand

[ak2002usa]

I'm a MWM mid-50s. While I don't suck cock I do enjoy getting mine sucked. First time was when I was 9 or so. I discoverd glory holes during the 70s. Last week I posted on craigslist; "ISO cocksucker. I enjoy lots of ball and rim attention". I received several replies. Some from men who I've seen before. I hooked up with a new guy whose wife was out of town. I went to his house. We had a beer and shot the shit for awhile before we went to the bedroom. I got naked and on the bed. He kept his clothes on and gave me a good BJ during which he flipped me over and ate ass for awhile. He did hump my leg some and I could feel his hard cock. We had another beer and I left.

I got a good blow and rim job with all the nice physical sensations. My question is what did he and all the other cocksuckers I've been with ( more than 150 I'd say ) get out of the encounter besides a load of cum. I'm not complaining, just curious.

 

[CasinoNight]

Well it's better than a slap around the face. He probably wanked mercilessly when you left. I wouldn't be up for such a one way encounter.

 

[madmanmike]

i am a giver. i get off by getting off a woman. i have gotten my ex off 4 or 5 times before i even tried to get off myself. it makes me a caring passionate lover.

that being said i wouldnt get someone else off out of a relationship like that. in a relationship i would do it but otherwise no way. i need to know that the other person would be interested in my pleasure as well.

 

[ak2002usa]

CasinoNight hit the nail on the head. It was a one way encounter as was most of all the others. I feel the same as Madmanmike in my relationships with women. The oneway encounters were OK form time to time because I cared for the person.

 

[sterculius]

from the cocksuckers POV

I enjoy getting my cock sucked but I also enjoy sucking cock. There is satisfaction and reward on a number of levels: On one hand, it can involve power play. The satisfaction of having someones body sensations under your control and at your mercy, or sometimes just surrendering and letting the other person take control and penetrate you orally. Then there is the return to the original oral stage as you explore the exquisite sensations in your mouth and on your tongue. Then there is the forbidden and naughty nature of being a "cocksucker". There's always the personal challenge to see how much of the cock you can swallow (I LOVE to deep throat). There's a lot of skill involved. And in the end, as you said ,there's always that load of delicious cum.

 

[human_male]

Some people just like sucking cock. And I can imagine there's a certain naughty thrill in the thought of servicing someone. Just being used (I'm not saying you're using people) for someone else's pleasure.

 

[MattMayjor]

Been there

I'm a bi-married male, and although I only have infrequent experiences with guys--I love sucking cock! I like being used, I like being called a good little cocksucker, I like the forbidden aspect of the whole thing.
And after the guy has cum, yeah, I'm horny as hell. If I'm offered reciprocation that's great, if he wants to watch me jack off I'll do that--or if he just wants to zip up and leave I'm fine with that too because I'll have a very nice session of jacking off afterwards--maybe much later. And great memories.
It's interesting that a lot of women don't like sucking cock--at least some of them find it degrading or humiliating--but I *like* that aspect of it. If it turns you on to slap my face with your cock, go for it. If you want to hold my head down while you shoot down my throat, I'm all for it. And what ever you do, don't ask me if you can cum in my mouth...of course you can!

 

[madmanmike]

hey matt let me know if you ever want to spend the night. love your attitude

 

[sunandshadow]

I like sucking cock mainly because I really like the smell of a guy's groin, and probably also because as a child I had a pacifier for years, and those bottles with the rubber nipples, and when I was too old for that I still tended to chew on pens and that sort of thing. I guess I just like having stuff in my mouth. And I can also see the skill/manipulation aspect of it, although I'm not interested in being dominated or degraded, nor interested in anyone who isn't interested in pleasing me in return.

 

[MattMayjor]

Of course

I have a special place in my heart for Literotica dudes.

hey matt let me know if you ever want to spend the night. love your attitude

 

[ak2002usa]

As part of all of this I really enjoy a rim job. There's alot to be said about a tongue deep in my ass. I've offered to let some of the guys fuck me. Several have taken my up on the offer. I've sucked them a little to get them ready; never to completion. The idea of sucking does'nt get me going. I guess this makes me a passive partner with other men ( suck me, rim me, fuck me; it's all about ME ) while I'm comfortable with either passive or agressive roles with women. With women I want to please them as I am pleased. Unless I'm with a hooker. Then it's all about me again

 

[sterculius]

I have a special place in my heart for Literotica dudes.

I have a special place in my MOUTH for Literotica dudes!

 

[ak2002usa]

Here's another thing. Some guys I've been with seem interested in only getting the cream. They suck hard and fast until I cum and that's it. I'm OK with that on many levels but, I do enjoy long slow BJs with lots of ball and rim attention. That was it doesn't end so quickly. It's true, it's all about me again. Question; Is it only just about the cream in casual situations like described above, glory holes and the like?

 

[sterculius]

Here's another thing. Some guys I've been with seem interested in only getting the cream. They suck hard and fast until I cum and that's it. I'm OK with that on many levels but, I do enjoy long slow BJs with lots of ball and rim attention. That was it doesn't end so quickly. It's true, it's all about me again. Question; Is it only just about the cream in casual situations like described above, glory holes and the like?[/QUOT

For me , it's only been with a friend, but I like to prolong the experience and enjoy the feeling from the beginning up to the juicy end.