Help me talk my wife into it ...

[icansatisfy]

Been talking with MacDaddy and following the "MILF" thread here. So many beautiful older woman sharing their pics there. SO BEAUTIFUL!

I am lucky to be married to a "MILF" ... a very beautiful 41 yr old woman. She is the light of my life and I love her dearly! She's also very sexy - but doesn't see herself that way. She's an "old married woman ... with three kids now" in her mind.

My fantasy is to show her how beautiful and sexy she is by taking pics of her and posting them here so others can see and tell her so. She's reluctant to say the least!

So ... tell me ... how can I convince her? I think setting some ground rules (like no face pics to garauntee anonymity) would help.

What do you think? How can I get her to do this? Ideas welcome!

Oh ... btw ... so you know this is a fantasy of mine ... read this
http://www.literotica.com:81/stories/showstory.php?id=197386

 

[korus]

Been talking with MacDaddy and following the "MILF" thread here. So many beautiful older woman sharing their pics there. SO BEAUTIFUL!

I am lucky to be married to a "MILF" ... a very beautiful 41 yr old woman. She is the light of my life and I love her dearly! She's also very sexy - but doesn't see herself that way. She's an "old married woman ... with three kids now" in her mind.

My fantasy is to show her how beautiful and sexy she is by taking pics of her and posting them here so others can see and tell her so. She's reluctant to say the least!

So ... tell me ... how can I convince her? I think setting some ground rules (like no face pics to garauntee anonymity) would help.

What do you think? How can I get her to do this? Ideas welcome!

Oh ... btw ... so you know this is a fantasy of mine ... read this
http://www.literotica.com:81/stories/showstory.php?id=197386

let her havea good look around this site and see for herself the good respose most women get here and see if it turns her on as well

 

[icansatisfy]

let her havea good look around this site and see for herself the good respose most women get here and see if it turns her on as well

Thats a good idea ... except she doesn't spend much time on the computer. We have our home computer in a "public" room to watch the kids with it ... don't want perverts chatting with them. So it be hard to have her check it out.

But she's so beautiful .... and I'd be turned on watching her read responses telling her how lovely and sexy she is (as you can see from my story I wrote).

Other suggestions?

 

[umchick5]

I think korus had the best suggestion. This has to be something that she is comfortable with 100%, so she has to see what she is getting into before she does it. I know before I started posting my pictures, the idea of it was scary. Once I saw how many nice people there are on Lit, I realized it could be fun!

 

[icansatisfy]

Thanks!

I'll see if I can ease her into coming for a visit to Literotica. She works 7 on/7 off ... and once the kids get back to school, perhaps she can visit and see what it's like. Not so scary.

BTW - you are quite beautiful as well. Your body reminds me of my wife's somewhat. And since guys seem to like what they see in you ... maybe they would like to see my lovely wife too?

I like your "rules" = no head/face shots. That's good I think.

 

[Velvet Bubbles]

Have her check out the pictures in my thread? Show her that you can do sexy photos w/o having to show everything to the world. Use shadows & light in just the right way to show off her curves. Granted, we can't do it as well as the professionals. Doesn't mean we can't try! Use props to suggest whatever scene you want. Bath shots with lots of bubbles & only what you want showing. Outdoor scenes where she's "caught" showing something that shouldn't be seen in the light of day. I'm sure you can come up with lots of ideas on your own. Don't rush it. Have fun! YOU make her feel sexy in the process. Talk to her during your 'photo shoots'. Tell her how beautiful you think she is & that the photos will help her see herself as you do. Even if you don't end up showing Lit her photos, they are there for the two of you to enjoy. And they give you a way to explore yourselves.

 

[icansatisfy]

Have her check out the pictures in my thread? Show her that you can do sexy photos w/o having to show everything to the world. Use shadows & light in just the right way to show off her curves. Granted, we can't do it as well as the professionals. Doesn't mean we can't try! Use props to suggest whatever scene you want. Bath shots with lots of bubbles & only what you want showing. Outdoor scenes where she's "caught" showing something that shouldn't be seen in the light of day. I'm sure you can come up with lots of ideas on your own. Don't rush it. Have fun! YOU make her feel sexy in the process. Talk to her during your 'photo shoots'. Tell her how beautiful you think she is & that the photos will help her see herself as you do. Even if you don't end up showing Lit her photos, they are there for the two of you to enjoy. And they give you a way to explore yourselves.

Thanks Bubbles - I'll have to find some pics of you and see if she'll look at them with me. Does your husband take the pics of you?

What you describe is exactly what I want. I want it to be a fun, sexy time for us. And when she read what others say ... for it to be an ego-boost for her.

Do you find you get sleazy comments ... or respectful by and large?

THANKS AGAIN

 

[redbabe]

Thanks Bubbles - I'll have to find some pics of you and see if she'll look at them with me. Does your husband take the pics of you?

What you describe is exactly what I want. I want it to be a fun, sexy time for us. And when she read what others say ... for it to be an ego-boost for her.

Do you find you get sleazy comments ... or respectful by and large?

THANKS AGAIN

I´ll answer your last question, I realise a lot of my photos are real "right in your face shots" and really quite naughty, but I can only think of 2 occasions where I have received PM´s from guys where I didn´t feel comfortable, for the most they are really respectful and appreciative. I take the view if you can´t post a pleasant comment, it´s best to pass the subject by and write nothing at all.

I whole heartedly agree with all thats been said here, and it is a huge ego-boost to have wonderful people make comments about you, I really hope you both have fun taking those pictures together, even if they don´t end up on Lit

 

[icansatisfy]

I´ll answer your last question, I realise a lot of my photos are real "right in your face shots" and really quite naughty, but I can only think of 2 occasions where I have received PM´s from guys where I didn´t feel comfortable, for the most they are really respectful and appreciative. I take the view if you can´t post a pleasant comment, it´s best to pass the subject by and write nothing at all.

I whole heartedly agree with all thats been said here, and it is a huge ego-boost to have wonderful people make comments about you, I really hope you both have fun taking those pictures together, even if they don´t end up on Lit

First - you have gorgeous eyes!

Second - thank you for your response. I'd like to be able to tell her that. She would worry about getting gross comments I think. The others would be ego-boosting and, frankly, a turn on for me

 

[bettigirl]

I can absolutely relate to your wife. We are all very hard on ourselves when we notice our bodies have changed.

I agree with everything everyone has said, but maybe to start you could try something in the vintage pin-up or glam shot arena, to remind her of how beautiful she is. Pictures for no-one but her. Thats what I did, after, I found I was much more adventurous and confident.

Once she is comfortable with being photographed, then encourage her to get a little more creative with it and to pick the pictures she wants you to post.

Be patient with her about it, and take those kids to the movies so she can play around on this site.

 

[korus]

I hope all the advice here is well taken.
and hope you keep up the thread with any infomation so we can help in anyway

hope your wife has a goodtime,

 

[icansatisfy]

Thanks so much for your helpful advice!

I talked to her some about that and she is still very reluctant. Her exact words were "I don't want to go there."

I think maybe I can get her to take a look at some of the ladies here ... some of the less riske pics (as you suggested) ... and the wonderful comments that you ladies get. Maybe then?

Anyway - thanks again!

 

[redbabe]

Before you even get her to look at any pics whatsoever, have her read this thread, just to prove a point that it doesn´t have to be OTT to start with.

 

[korus]

Before you even get her to look at any pics whatsoever, have her read this thread, just to prove a point that it doesn´t have to be OTT to start with.

thats a great idea

 

[catalina_francisco]

You need to be able to build her confidence as well as her trust you will not reveal anything she doesn't feel comfortable with, including her face (or yours as that is just as identifying if someone knows you). You could suggest posting pics of her clothed...with the right clothes (fitting, colourful, cleavage, not necessarily slutty) most women can be made to look good and alluring. She may find that confidence building to a point she is willing to go further, especially if you don't push.

Catalina

 

[somberReality]

Been talking with MacDaddy and following the "MILF" thread here. So many beautiful older woman sharing their pics there. SO BEAUTIFUL!

I am lucky to be married to a "MILF" ... a very beautiful 41 yr old woman. She is the light of my life and I love her dearly! She's also very sexy - but doesn't see herself that way. She's an "old married woman ... with three kids now" in her mind.

My fantasy is to show her how beautiful and sexy she is by taking pics of her and posting them here so others can see and tell her so. She's reluctant to say the least!

So ... tell me ... how can I convince her? I think setting some ground rules (like no face pics to garauntee anonymity) would help.

What do you think? How can I get her to do this? Ideas welcome!

Oh ... btw ... so you know this is a fantasy of mine ... read this
http://www.literotica.com:81/stories/showstory.php?id=197386

Good luck with this. Instead of showing her off by showing revealing pics, take her out and make her feel sexy. That will do far more for her self-esteem than the pics option. Besides, i'm with her on the pics option, i haven't posted revealing pics here and don't feel comfortable doing so. Take her out on the town. Believe me, it'll help.