pickmyflower
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Hi, I cant seem to get the guts to blow my man... i think i will gag... any suggestions?
I really wanna make him happy
I really wanna make him happy
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College_geek
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I have huge gag reflexes as well, and I can still go down on my guy. First off, I did tell him that I didn't know how much I'd be able to put my mouth over, and he was okay with it. Also, since I was kind of afraid to go down there in general, I started by having all the lights off. Just try it with as much as you can handle and work from there. It should always be more about the intimacy than the orgasm. Good luck!
pickmyflower
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thanks...still weary...
thanks for that... gagging is the first hirtle.... all i wanna do is make his world turn... not sure of the best steps... and how to make it happen
thanks for that... gagging is the first hirtle.... all i wanna do is make his world turn... not sure of the best steps... and how to make it happen
Angler
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-----pickmyflower said:Hi, I cant seem to get the guts to blow my man... i think i will gag... any suggestions?
I really wanna make him happy
Take it from a guy ... we don't care how good or bad, experienced or inexperienced a gal is ... we just love to be sucked!
This will definitely rock his world:
1)
Hold his cock by mid-shaft with one hand, GENTLY massage his balls with the other.
2)
Kiss his upper thighs and work your way up to his cock. Kiss
the head of his cock the same way you kiss his lips ... like you can't get enough of him.
3)
Let just the head of his cock into your mouth the same way you let his tongue into your mouth. (most gals don't go much beyond the head anyway).
4)
Lick and suck at the same time ... just like you do when you're tongue kissing with him.
5)
MOAN ... like you have always wanted him in your mouth. It's the sound every guy loves.
Good luck ... and most of all ... make sure he returns the favor!
Angler
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Re: thanks...still weary...
What is it that you think will make you gag? Are you repulsed by the thought of putting your mouth on his 'naughty parts'? Are you afraid it will taste awful? Are you afraid it might smell bad? Afraid he's going to urinate or cum in your mouth? Afraid he's going to jam it in too far and choke you?
It's hard to know what to recommend to you unless you can identify what it is you're afraid of, but Angler's suggestions are good: start off just by kissing and licking near his cock, then work up to kissing and licking his cock, until you're satisfied that neither the taste nor odor of him is disgusting to you and that he's not going to have an 'accident' as soon as you get your mouth near it.
Baby steps ... baby steps. He'll appreciate that you want to learn, trust me.
pickmyflower said:
What is it that you think will make you gag? Are you repulsed by the thought of putting your mouth on his 'naughty parts'? Are you afraid it will taste awful? Are you afraid it might smell bad? Afraid he's going to urinate or cum in your mouth? Afraid he's going to jam it in too far and choke you?
It's hard to know what to recommend to you unless you can identify what it is you're afraid of, but Angler's suggestions are good: start off just by kissing and licking near his cock, then work up to kissing and licking his cock, until you're satisfied that neither the taste nor odor of him is disgusting to you and that he's not going to have an 'accident' as soon as you get your mouth near it.
Baby steps ... baby steps. He'll appreciate that you want to learn, trust me.
Four_Inch_Heels
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Shower/bath together first, wash that area yourself, so you're confident it's clean.
Take a drink to get your saliva going. Hold his cock against the palm of your hand, and lick it from base to tip, all the way around to get it wet. Let your tongue swirl around his head, stab at his peehole, circle around and around his ridge. The area just under his ridge, on the underside of his cock is especially sensitive.
Once you feel comfortable with licking him, start "mouthing" his head (picture a fish....mouth opening and closing). Keep your teeth covered with your lips so you don't nick him. At this point, you should keep your hand firmly around the rest of his cock, so he doesn't thrust up and gag you. If you're feeling okay about that, you can start sucking, start out with just the head, get used to that feeling....if you're enjoying it....take him deeper. Keep your hand tight around him. The more experienced you get, you can stroke him at the same time you're sucking. Eventually, you'll probably want to pay some attention to his ball sac. Wet it with your tongue, suck each ball gently into your mouth.
Remember, if he's showered, there are more germs in his mouth than on his cock. Go slowly, at your own pace. You should be able to tell by his moans and body movements what he enjoys the most.
Let us know how it works out!
Take a drink to get your saliva going. Hold his cock against the palm of your hand, and lick it from base to tip, all the way around to get it wet. Let your tongue swirl around his head, stab at his peehole, circle around and around his ridge. The area just under his ridge, on the underside of his cock is especially sensitive.
Once you feel comfortable with licking him, start "mouthing" his head (picture a fish....mouth opening and closing). Keep your teeth covered with your lips so you don't nick him. At this point, you should keep your hand firmly around the rest of his cock, so he doesn't thrust up and gag you. If you're feeling okay about that, you can start sucking, start out with just the head, get used to that feeling....if you're enjoying it....take him deeper. Keep your hand tight around him. The more experienced you get, you can stroke him at the same time you're sucking. Eventually, you'll probably want to pay some attention to his ball sac. Wet it with your tongue, suck each ball gently into your mouth.
Remember, if he's showered, there are more germs in his mouth than on his cock. Go slowly, at your own pace. You should be able to tell by his moans and body movements what he enjoys the most.
Let us know how it works out!
NaiveOne
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You can do it!
Having a hand around his cock is a very good idea. That way you are more in control and there's less space to cover with your mouth if you are a littler nervous.
A good little start is just to use your mouth to move up and down over the ridge on the head. Just use your lips (covering your teeth) to apply pressure. This way you don't have to suck or slurp or gag. My guy always loved it when I did that. When you feel more comfy you can move your hand up and down or tickle his balls.
Good luck girl!!
Having a hand around his cock is a very good idea. That way you are more in control and there's less space to cover with your mouth if you are a littler nervous.
A good little start is just to use your mouth to move up and down over the ridge on the head. Just use your lips (covering your teeth) to apply pressure. This way you don't have to suck or slurp or gag. My guy always loved it when I did that. When you feel more comfy you can move your hand up and down or tickle his balls.
Good luck girl!!
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Let me offer some advice on how to give a blowjob, based on my experience of having received more than a few.
Watch the teeth, you don't want to hurt him. I've never got much out of being "nibbled," so unless he asks for you to try it, I wouldn't make it a priority.
Enthusiasm is the most important thing for me. About 7 months ago I received a blowjob from a 24 year old who had never so much as kissed a guy in her life. Needless to say, she had no blowjob experience either. Her technique wasn't great or anything, but she was enthusiastic and enjoyed doing it. She moaned and sucked me like she couldn't get enough. I came pretty quickly compared to normal because the blowjob was awesome. Technique didn't make it awesome, her enthusiasm did.
As far as technique goes, you should probably start off with just using your mouth to move up and down on his cock. I always like when the girl's tongue is on the underside of my penis so that she can use it to caress that oh-so-sensitive area while she moves up and down with her mouth.
When you get into the rhythm of giving head with your mouth only, I'd suggest you use whatever hand you give handjobs with to hold his cock. Try to move it up and down his shaft while you continue with your mouth. Something my current girlfriend picked up from a Jenna Jameson movie was to twist her hand while as she moved it up and down my shaft during blowjobs. Just sort of flick your wrist while you are moving your hand up and down. It always gets me off quick. If you have any questions, you can email me with them at fsumusic1981@hotmail.com.
Good Luck & Peace
Watch the teeth, you don't want to hurt him. I've never got much out of being "nibbled," so unless he asks for you to try it, I wouldn't make it a priority.
Enthusiasm is the most important thing for me. About 7 months ago I received a blowjob from a 24 year old who had never so much as kissed a guy in her life. Needless to say, she had no blowjob experience either. Her technique wasn't great or anything, but she was enthusiastic and enjoyed doing it. She moaned and sucked me like she couldn't get enough. I came pretty quickly compared to normal because the blowjob was awesome. Technique didn't make it awesome, her enthusiasm did.
As far as technique goes, you should probably start off with just using your mouth to move up and down on his cock. I always like when the girl's tongue is on the underside of my penis so that she can use it to caress that oh-so-sensitive area while she moves up and down with her mouth.
When you get into the rhythm of giving head with your mouth only, I'd suggest you use whatever hand you give handjobs with to hold his cock. Try to move it up and down his shaft while you continue with your mouth. Something my current girlfriend picked up from a Jenna Jameson movie was to twist her hand while as she moved it up and down my shaft during blowjobs. Just sort of flick your wrist while you are moving your hand up and down. It always gets me off quick. If you have any questions, you can email me with them at fsumusic1981@hotmail.com.
Good Luck & Peace
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