A few days back I posted a thread concerning a girl I had met and wanted suggestions on to go on with her. It is included hereunder. Since then things have accelerated and in an "sms sex conversation" yesterday I tested her limits with some quiet strong words and suggestions to see how far involved she is in BDSM. She countered with the messages: THAT MESSAGE MADE ME RUN LIKE A MOTORCYCLE and QUIERO QUE ME TORTUS! = I WANT YOU TO TORTUE ME!
Now she is coming here to meet me and I wonder how I go on from here. It sounds stupid but words are one thing and RL quiet another and from my experiences of this girl I can only gather that she knows her way in this area. I on the other side have been with more than 200 girls but never gone beyond spanking a buttom while having sex. I wonder how you people find out how far you can go with your partner and about specific preferences. My fear is that this girl has no limits and I doubt that she would dare telling me fearing that I would think she is too "depraved". But I'ld love to take her there. So -please - tell me any tricks or ways you have of finding out what your partner wants and things they probably would "enjoy". I know she likes to have her nipples mauled and her face hit but nothing more.
Old thread:
Some time ago I met a (Colombian) girl here in Spain. At this time
she wasn't working as prostitute anymore. She is just 24 years old (I am 30). Unfortunately, circumstances forced her to to take up her old profession again. We are now considering moving in together and she will come and visit me next time the first week of July. She is just 150cm high while I am 188 cm (6'2). She is very beautiful and petite with nice big breasts and eyes that would make a reindeer jealous. She is very quiet and always want to take care of my and give me manicures and so on. She is probably the best partner I ever had in bed. We are at it at all times and she'll at any given minute just hike up her short skirt and say: "Come me un poqito!" (Eat me a little bit!) She hardly ever wears any panties. From the beginning I found out that she was quite wild in that area and had done about everything one can. As most she had been with 7 men at a time and orgies and swapping are everyday things for her. Not being a virgin myself I really enjoy our playing. I noticed she liked it when it hurt and just cries out very loud "mas duro!" (harder!) all the time when I fuck her and especially since I am lucky enough to be equipped with what she calls a monster, I drive it to the bottom of her vagina all the time. The other day when I was playing with her nipples she urged me to do it harder and harder. We had sex there on the beach and later when we came home she informed me that she doesn't need anything more than stimulation of her breasts to come. I decided not to take her word for it without trying and went to work. Again she cried for me to do it harder and harder and I was amazed that when I bit her one nipple really hard and pinched the other with both my thumbs and index fingers until my nails went white she came crying "toma mi leche!" (take my milk!). Even more than normally she drenched my bed. Afterwards I asked her if she had any more tricks that made her come - maybe twitch her ear or something. She laughed and said with an incredible naughty/happy glint in her eyes that at times she had enjoyed when they beat her. I asked: you mean like slap your ass or something while fucking? I have met quiet a few women who enjoyed that although it never did anything for me. Anyway, she said: No - and signalled with her hand on her face. I must have stared and asked: You mean to hit in your face??? Yes she said and said that it was just something she had tried a few times a long time back, but I could see in her eyes what it meant to her and how much she wants it. She had to go after that and since I left her at the station that evening I hardly have thought of anything else. Now I am normally a man that gets respect and believe I have something of a natural authority and most girls I have are quite submissive. But when it comes to this area I am a total novice. As I said before I never gave much thought about this but now I cannot get it out of her head. Somehow I will have to try this out with her but I have no idea of how to get about doing it. The problem is also that since she speaks no English or Swedish and I just a little bit Spanish it is hard to be natural and say the things she told me she wanted to hear in bed. I will probably have to direct the situation before and plan every move and word so as to avoid mishaps. Anyway I am really interested in hearing from other persons what your thoughts / suggestions are. I 'ld like to apologize for my bad English but I hope you understand me.
Regards
Paul
Now she is coming here to meet me and I wonder how I go on from here. It sounds stupid but words are one thing and RL quiet another and from my experiences of this girl I can only gather that she knows her way in this area. I on the other side have been with more than 200 girls but never gone beyond spanking a buttom while having sex. I wonder how you people find out how far you can go with your partner and about specific preferences. My fear is that this girl has no limits and I doubt that she would dare telling me fearing that I would think she is too "depraved". But I'ld love to take her there. So -please - tell me any tricks or ways you have of finding out what your partner wants and things they probably would "enjoy". I know she likes to have her nipples mauled and her face hit but nothing more.
Old thread:
Some time ago I met a (Colombian) girl here in Spain. At this time
she wasn't working as prostitute anymore. She is just 24 years old (I am 30). Unfortunately, circumstances forced her to to take up her old profession again. We are now considering moving in together and she will come and visit me next time the first week of July. She is just 150cm high while I am 188 cm (6'2). She is very beautiful and petite with nice big breasts and eyes that would make a reindeer jealous. She is very quiet and always want to take care of my and give me manicures and so on. She is probably the best partner I ever had in bed. We are at it at all times and she'll at any given minute just hike up her short skirt and say: "Come me un poqito!" (Eat me a little bit!) She hardly ever wears any panties. From the beginning I found out that she was quite wild in that area and had done about everything one can. As most she had been with 7 men at a time and orgies and swapping are everyday things for her. Not being a virgin myself I really enjoy our playing. I noticed she liked it when it hurt and just cries out very loud "mas duro!" (harder!) all the time when I fuck her and especially since I am lucky enough to be equipped with what she calls a monster, I drive it to the bottom of her vagina all the time. The other day when I was playing with her nipples she urged me to do it harder and harder. We had sex there on the beach and later when we came home she informed me that she doesn't need anything more than stimulation of her breasts to come. I decided not to take her word for it without trying and went to work. Again she cried for me to do it harder and harder and I was amazed that when I bit her one nipple really hard and pinched the other with both my thumbs and index fingers until my nails went white she came crying "toma mi leche!" (take my milk!). Even more than normally she drenched my bed. Afterwards I asked her if she had any more tricks that made her come - maybe twitch her ear or something. She laughed and said with an incredible naughty/happy glint in her eyes that at times she had enjoyed when they beat her. I asked: you mean like slap your ass or something while fucking? I have met quiet a few women who enjoyed that although it never did anything for me. Anyway, she said: No - and signalled with her hand on her face. I must have stared and asked: You mean to hit in your face??? Yes she said and said that it was just something she had tried a few times a long time back, but I could see in her eyes what it meant to her and how much she wants it. She had to go after that and since I left her at the station that evening I hardly have thought of anything else. Now I am normally a man that gets respect and believe I have something of a natural authority and most girls I have are quite submissive. But when it comes to this area I am a total novice. As I said before I never gave much thought about this but now I cannot get it out of her head. Somehow I will have to try this out with her but I have no idea of how to get about doing it. The problem is also that since she speaks no English or Swedish and I just a little bit Spanish it is hard to be natural and say the things she told me she wanted to hear in bed. I will probably have to direct the situation before and plan every move and word so as to avoid mishaps. Anyway I am really interested in hearing from other persons what your thoughts / suggestions are. I 'ld like to apologize for my bad English but I hope you understand me.
Regards
Paul
