Help in Bakersfield...

[boredinbak]

This may be in poor taste, but I'm going to do it rather than spend the time it took to compose this all over again. Basically I've posted my situation on another website with no luck for two years now. I haven't given up though!
So on with the background stuff. Below is the thread I had running on the other site. This place looks very nice and there is more going on here, maybe I'll finally get lucky. If I've missed anything that should have been edited out, please excuse. Here we go.....

By needs_attention on Sunday, September 14, 2003 - 12:37 am:
I'm a 30 year old male that is longing for what I've been missing out on.

Basically:
Oral - I've never received oral sex! But I think about it often. My current partner will not give oral.
Doggie style - I love the sight of a womans ass! So smooth and comfortable, but again, my current partner is not interested in this position.

Having said that, I'm sure there's a lot more I've missed out on. I also would like to watch a couple having sex as I masterbate.

Anyone interested?

Discreation is important.

Please reply to (edited per rules of Literotica.com)

By needs_attention on Sunday, September 14, 2003 - 12:42 am:
Uh, Discretion is important.



By needs_attention on Thursday, October 9, 2003 - 1:49 am:
Bummer, almost a month later and just one reply. Unfortunately it was someone looking for me to share my partner, which is not something I can do.

Well...I'm still here lady's! and my fantasy of a womans lips around my cock or the sight of pounding a beautiful ass from the rear goes on as just that, a fantasy. :-/

At least it still gives me something to think about while I pleasure myself.

Is there anybody out there? :-O

- boredinbak

By needs_attention on Thursday, March 11, 2004 - 3:56 am:
Okay, It's approaching summer now and still no luck. This is really a bummer. (*)

- Bored in Bakersfield

By needs_attention on Wednesday, May 5, 2004 - 12:54 am:
Sheeesh! I've chatted with a couple people but most are either just playing around or looking for something way different than what I'm looking for. There sure isn't much action in this town. I have a feeling I'm gonna aproach a year from my first post and things will still be the same, just like the years gone by.

- BIB

By needs_attention on Tuesday, June 22, 2004 - 2:13 am:
Another month and still no luck. Two more chat sessions one with a professed oral pro, but too far away to see.
Just for the record, I perform/continue to perform oral but that still doesn't get me any further. I've tried persuading her in the past. Not Gonna Happen! Better just leave it at that.

And life goes on...

By needs_attention on Saturday, August 21, 2004 - 1:35 am:
K, getting closer to that year mark now. I've got another reply that is local but haven't heard back. "Hope" this one's the charm.

- BIB

By needs_attention on Saturday, September 18, 2004 - 4:28 pm:
Wow, one year now and things look promising but I still haven't felt smooth lips against my cock. I have been exchanging email with someone for almost a month now. It's getting me very hot, I've had to masterbate a lot thinking about the things she'd like to do to me. Unfortunately we haven't moved beyond email though. I'm hoping this is not just a tease, I've been so engorged with the idea of all this that I'd hate to be let down.

Anyone else out there?

- BIB

By needs_attention on Monday, November 1, 2004 - 3:29 pm:
Okay, two months of email exchange and a couple phone sex sessions. I'm still an oral virgin. Well, what's another year, really, I've gone this many years without any oral stimulation. It's more than that though, it's visual, to see a woman hungrily suck because she enjoys it not because she was asked to. To hear a woman say that she wants me and likes having me in her mouth. Those all make the experience, the thing I want to be apart of just like so many other.

You know, I imagine I'll give this only so much more time and then that's it. Better just face it and get on with my life.

-BIB

By needs_attention on Sunday, December 5, 2004 - 11:15 pm:
Not much else has changed, I'm stepping up my efforts. I just refuse to give up.

-BIB

By needs_attention on Tuesday, December 7, 2004 - 8:54 pm:
Okay, so I was asked to post a picture. Here's two...


By needs_attention on Sunday, December 12, 2004 - 9:42 pm:
That was fun, here's another. Now, how about someone in the area contacting me? I'm still an oral virgin and that rear view extravaganza is still just a fantasy.

-BIB

By barton on Friday, February 11, 2005 - 12:10 pm:
my wife is willing to suck your cock.
contact me at (edited per rules of Literotica.com)

By needs_attention on Wednesday, March 16, 2005 - 1:32 am:
Well, I sent you an email but I haven't had a reply yet. Ain't much different than any other day, I still hold out hope that I'll get lucky eventually.

:-/

By needs_attention on Wednesday, April 6, 2005 - 1:36 am:
Right...the only people willing, actually more than willing, to take this poor hard virgin cock in their mouth have been men. If I was born gay, I think I'd be a quite the sexually satisfied man right now.


By needs_attention on Friday, May 13, 2005 - 2:28 am:
I feel like I'm getting sooo close sometimes but then nothing. Any wagers on this post becoming 2 years old and still nada?

By needs_attention on Tuesday, June 28, 2005 - 2:48 am:
Hey, hey... might have set up something for the fourth of July holiday time frame. We'll see if this is finally it!!!

Always willing to hear from anyone interested though. Who knows, it's been almost two years now, am I lucky enough to have the pleasure of seeing a sweet mouth playing with my throbbing head?

Time will tell.

By needs_attention on Saturday, July 9, 2005 - 2:29 am:
Well, nada. Sorry no story to tell, it just didn't happen
The meeting that is, I mean, it's not like we met and I just sat there flacid or anything

By needs_attention on Sunday, August 21, 2005 - 5:06 pm:
Arrrrrgh! This is sooo frustrating!
I hear stories about people hooking up with someone they met online and having fun but either I'm doing something totally wrong or some people are stretching the truth a little.

 

[chickman44]

I think I know what your problem is...

Hey Bored -

I think I have a handle on your problem... It's capitalist economics that are killing you, basically the laws of supply and demand. You see, there are guys lined up all over the place that want their dicks sucked and their women to bow down and take it from behind like a doggy-lovin' slut. This would be considered a surplus of supplies. However, the women that are interested in doing this for you are all inundated with plenty of offers from other guys. This would be a lull in demand.

Economics tells us that such a situation is a "buyer's market", therefore you need to lower your prices or add incentives to close the deal. Unless you're rich, powerful, famous or an Australian underwear model with a 10" tool, you cannot sweeten the deal enough to score hot chicks easily online. You must either work your game with the chicks you know in person or lower your expectations (your "price") to fat chicks, old chicks, old fat chicks or gay men that are as hard up as you are...

If it's any consolation, I'm in the same boat... In fact it's a huge boat filled with a couple hundred thousand other blue-balled guys! Good luck, brother.

- Chick

 

[ickle_stace]

Your partner won't do doggie style? she's missing out! it can go deeper that way!

and u say she won't go down on you, but do u go down on her at all?

 

[boredinbak]

Chick -
Wow, that was wonderful how you put it! I need to approach this differently just like you said, I need to sweeten the deal. I thought being an "oral virgin" would have some kind of added value, if you will. I don't think women look at male virginity or inexperience at all like men do though. My guess is that it's less of a turn on than for a man. I'll haveto come up with something else, money would be a crime, it's gotta be something else. I thought shaving and keeping it well groomed would also add value, maybe I need to post a few pictures here for referance. I have many pictures, but I prefer to share them by request rather than posted publicly.

ickle_stace -
Nope, she says that position is not comfortable, not enough to allow it but a couple times and that was it. I DO perform oral for her too by the way. Not so much to get the same in return, as I actually enjoy eating her for my own pleasure

 

[ickle_stace]

I love doggie style, feeling the guys hands all over me while he's thrusting deep inside me

It must be a bit of a downer for you that you give her oral all the time and she never reciprocates. My ex would force me to go down on him and he never once did it back to me, and it made me feel a bit worthless.

 

[boredinbak]

That's the thing too, I would never want her to feel forced, I think it would detract from the whole thing for me. Some guys like the forced oral thing I suppose, but I need to feel there is a desire there.

The doggystyle thing is a bummer too yeah! I'm more of an ass man than a breast man myself. I love the look and feel of an ass
Being able to reach around and play with her breasts or to nibble on her earlobe from behind and whisper naughty things in her ear while I slowly pump her

Now I'm all worked up again. This place is cool. I've gotten more responses here in a couple days than two years at the other place.

Who knows, maybe this is my lucky post! I'll keep my fingers crossed.

 

[ickle_stace]

The doggystyle thing is a bummer too yeah! I'm more of an ass man than a breast man myself. I love the look and feel of an ass
Being able to reach around and play with her breasts or to nibble on her earlobe from behind and whisper naughty things in her ear while I slowly pump her

wish i had a partner to offer to do that to me!

 

[boredinbak]

Well you and I live so very far apart, but, if our paths ever look like they may cross, I'll gladly do it for you

 

[ickle_stace]

Well you and I live so very far apart, but, if our paths ever look like they may cross, I'll gladly do it for you

mmmmmm thanks

 

[boredinbak]

ickle_stace - Nice to some pictures of you around here!
Thanks and I hope you enjoyed my picture too.

 

[boredinbak]

Okay, it's a new month and I DID get a response!!!
Basically she's not my type though. Am I being too picky? Hell I don't know, try me and see!

 

[boredinbak]

Bump

Just a little bump for October to keep things alive.
Spirits still high!

 

[thiscouldbtricky]

hey hon.... I'm sorry you haven't had any luck in your situation...!
No, I don't think you're being too picky at all... if you can't choose what kinda girl you'd like to give you head, well what in the world CAN you choose?
Anyway, I'd help you out if I was closer... but I'm a bit far away.
Good luck babe.

 

[boredinbak]

Ooooow, thanks! I feel much better just knowing you'd be up for it.
I think you're on to something, my location is rather remote when it comes to finding a woman who feels the same about oral sex the way I do. The population and the taboo's associated by many in Bakersfield do not make this an ideal location like say LA or San Francisco or something.

But thanks! You made my day!

 

[boredinbak]

You know, I realize this all could have been over a long time ago if I was willing to pay. I just didn't want it to be like that though, I don't care for the idea. I wanted it to be with someone who genuinely enjoyed giving head, who was not doing it for money, just for their own pleasure and knowing they were giving me pleasure.

I've recently been reconsidering that alternative though. It's just that I've been looking for quite a while now and still nothing.

Should I stick it out longer or just go get it over-with?

 

[boredinbak]

Bump for November to spark someone's interests perhaps?

 

[randy1965]

live in bakersfield always looking for fun m f couples pm me

 

[boredinbak]

See, if I was Bi or Gay, I'd have been through this a long time ago. No shortage of men out there that are looking for another man, but I'm just not into it.

This is the month to celebrate and be thankful, let's see if I have something juicy to be thankful for this year. Maybe something nice will happen around Christmas

 

[boredinbak]

Holiday Bump

Yeah, I'm still around. Holidays were nice but Santa didn't bring me those luscious lips I asked for!

 

[boredinbak]

Bump for 2006, maybe this is the year it happens?!?!