Help, I need some advice.

[dark_goddess84]

I am really looking for advice from bisexual men... but any advice would help.

My husband thinks he may be bisexual. This dose not bother me, because I am bisexual. What I need advice on is this :

How can I help him explore the feelings he is having?
Is there anything I can do, other than being supportive and accepting, to help him?
Is there any websites or groups that he could visit that would give him the advice he needs?

Any other advice about being a bisexual man would help too.

 

[human_male]

Perhaps just let him know what the boundaries are where you are concerned. If he wants to explore with another guy, what would be acceptable to you and what would be unacceptable.

 

[webber1998]

Well, if you are supportive and understand, you are ALREADY doing a lot for him. You could always tell him about this group on LIT. I'm not sure of any groups though. Sorry.

I think quite a few guys are just curious and never act on their feelings. I really don't know how common place it is, but it sure seems to me that there are a lot more guys like that then want to admit it.

If you really want to help him explore then would you want to be involved? I mean, a lot of us would think that was extremely HOT.. I've written about my experience with that and a GF before.

I guess the biggest thing is by all means make sure that he is careful and always plays safe.

 

[dad001]

Sites

Hi, I do not know your situation....But The fact that you are supportive is more than most have gotten from they're wives.....My wife and I did it by having MMF
threesomes where all were equal in the relation ship......and it works exstremely well for us....


sites

Manhunt is a good one lots of Bi curious guys there

or our favorite swinglifestyle.com

Dad

 

[dark_goddess84]

I guess I should be more clear...

I think I should have mentioned a couple of thing... First, we (hubby & I) have talked about this alot so He knows where I stand. I really just want him to be who he is with out feeling negitive about the part that may or may not be bisexual. As far as boundries go... I can accept a lot of things, as long as he plays safe and is happy. Second, as far as three-ways go... its up to him. If he wants me there, I'm ok with it. If he dose not, then I'm fine with that too.

As I said before I am bisexual, so naturally he has been asking me questions... however I can't answer most of them because I am a woman... I think differently then a man (lol). So do you know of anywhere he could get the answers he needs? I really just want to help him be who he truly is... be it bisexul or not.

dad001 ... thanks for the recomended sites ... will have to check them out

 

[dad001]

Hmmmm

How did it all work out....is everybody still having fun?

did you like the sites?

Dad

 

[Experiencedguy]

Sorry to have found this thread so late. One of the things either one (or both), of you can do is to find an understanding gay / bi experienced guy that you trust, explain the problem, and needed exploration, with the firm understanding that "NO" means "NO". Most caring experienced guys like me would be comfortable helping your husband understand his feelings, and where he wants to go with it. It sounds like you are in a loving relationship, and I think he would be more comfortable if you were there to support / help him. Trust me, there are more guys like me that would like to help than either of you could imagine. Who also would understand either reaction: This is a mistake, please leave, to OMG, why did I wait so long. If you have any questions for me based on my personal experiences, please PM me (and believe me, many guys say: "This is a mistake, please leave."